TBoss is now a mother.

Former Big Brother Naija star turned actor Tokunbo Idowu, popularly known as TBoss, has finally unveiled her newborn baby girl to the world. The new mother showed off her daughter in a beautiful photo.

The former reality TV star shared a beautiful photo of her baby girl in a photo on her Instagram page. In the photo, the reality star was seen holding her baby girl in her arms.

On the Instagram post, TBoss shared a touching message for her daughter. She made a promise to always hold her daughter’s heart even more tenderly than she would hold hers.

 

Legit.ng earlier reported that the former reality star revealed that the gave birth to a baby girl on Monday, August 26, after denying the claims made on social media.

However, she did not reveal the date of her child’s birth or who the father of the beautiful baby girl.
Meanwhile, Legit.ng had earlier reported that popular Nigerian blogger Lind Ikeji took to social media to show off her son. The little boy celebrated his first birthday.
The doting mother flooded her page with several cute photos of the little one and accompanied her post with a sweet note.
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Do you know that DJ Khaleed is welcoming a new child soon?

Family of four! DJ Khaled and his wife, Nicole Tuck, are expecting another baby boy.

The rapper announced the news on Instagram on Thursday, sharing a video of his wife getting an ultrasound.

“That’s your brother,” he told his 2-year-old son, Asahd Khaled. “Mama and Asahd, another one.”

 

“God is the greatest,” he captioned the video. “All I ever wanted to do was inspire the world to be great and to leave a legacy. Almost 3 years ago when I found out my queen was expecting our son Asahd I knew my life would change forever and that OUR legacy would soon be on the way. After that blessing I released some of my biggest albums to date (Grateful and Father Of Asahd) inspired by his greatness.”

 

He continued, “Just when I thought life couldn’t get any better, I received another blessing that my queen is expecting an addition to our legacy.”

 

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The two-time Grammy nominee said he’s feeling “more inspired than ever now.”

“As we go into this journey I’m taking FANLUV along with me to keep the love and blessings flowing to the world ! #FAMILY,” he said.

He finished his lengthy post by praising his son, his wife and God.

 

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Unhappy mothers talk more to their baby boys – STUDY — Vanguard News

Mothers who are dissatisfied with the fathers of their children and male partners, tend to spend more time talking to their infants—but only if the child is a boy, according to a new study. Continue reading Unhappy mothers talk more to their baby boys – STUDY at Vanguard News.

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Do you know that Parenting is filled with cover-ups?

While I was busy with some domestic chores today,she kept running around happily as usual and I was busy with my mind thinking about zillion issues at the same.
At a point she ran towards the spot where I was observing my domestic obligations shouting ‘daddy’ at the top of her voice but when I asked her,she said nothing.
I  shook my head and smiled.
This was how it happened in 1992 in the middle of the year while I was in JSS 2 that my parents separated.
Before the ugly experience,all I think in my small mind was that my parents are having it cool, good and rosy with the relationship but not knowing that both have been having strain since 1989 while I was in Primary 5.

 

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Kudos to them because they were able to keep it to themselves without allowing any one of us to have an inkling of what lies ahead of us.
To cut the story short,it was rough and raw later but I realized  that we were scammed and prevented from having a knowledge that all that glitters is not gold.
Someone might be asking me the reason why parenting is filled with zillions of cover ups.
Our parents are gods and gold that should be appreciated till eternity for how they were able to cope with the demands and rigors of parenting.
They were secretive in keeping the realities of parenting from us and they were able to manage themselves until many of us grew up to the point whereby we become a parent too.
Is it moments of loneliness, extreme thinking,debt,shame and reproach accompanied with self-denials that warrants commitments ,dedication, perseverance and maturity that cannot be explained and expressed to us while we were growing up?
The selflessness and sacrifices laid down by our parents are out of this world.

 

 

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Some laid their dreams,aspiration and vision aside to give us a life that we have today without giving us an inkling of what it takes for them to mold us till this present moment.
Parenting is a journey of sacrifice and selflessness having it wrapped in commitment and dedication that cannot be relayed to us while they were passing through the fiery furnace of standing in the gap for us.

Many  parents were denied comforts and conveniences of life in order for some of us to have life.
What about the days of nakedness and hunger that many parents passed through for their wards to have a meaningful life?

 

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What about the days of anguish, pain and agony they passed through, and they kept it to themselves but they made us to have our life being rosy without any form of  discomfort been on their faces.
In spite of all these, our parents still ensured and advised that some of us get married so that they can have their grandchildren, even some parents go out of their ways to borrow money so that we can settle down on time.
Parenting can be assumed to be a scam in the sense that the responsibilities and the demands are kept away from us by our parents.
They made us to believe in the rosiness and beauty of marriage so that many of us will not be discouraged becoming a parent in the future.
They were able to keep and bottled their challenges and scuffles within the confines of their rooms but they always act their scripts perfectly whenever they noticed we were around which made some of us to lack the inkling of what the reality of life is as it relates to parenting is concerned.
This is the reason whenever we loose any of our parents, we always fill their vacuum because they were extraordinary in shading and covering the other side of parenting that is filled with regrets, challenges and emotion.
They are good actors that acted their scripts well by keeping from us and preventing us from having a feel and a touch of the realities of parenting.
Double thumbs up to our parents for been matured enough to give us  make over beliefs that parenting is sweet but at this moment,something tells me that I have been scammed to believe that parenting is rosy, cool and good.
Not that I am passing through any challenge but my personal observation and present realities made me to see in practical form that parenting is nothing but selflessness and sacrifice.
These days I have to leave office on time so that I would be able to meet up with my daughter in order to help with her assignment and to see her face before she goes to bed.
It is on the note of today being another mothers’ day celebration that I present to you that parenting is filled with scam and cover up that are orchestrated by our parents in order to live a sacrificial and a selfless life that is necessitated by their efforts to leave a legacy for their children.
With all humility,I dedicate this piece to all responsible parents, good mothers, ladies and women that I have come across my paths.
HAPPY MOTHERS’ DAY TO:
Mrs JNM FADEYI,
Mrs.Olaronke Oluwakemi Fadeyi
Miss faith funmi fadeyi

Conversation with my daughter–Episode 8

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Let’s off the TV.She requested.

Why?

Let’s go to bed.I want to sleep on time.

After some time,she made the request again and I agreed with her when she began pestering me to put off the TV so that we can pray and go to bed.

Ok!

The TV was off by me.

Let’s pray before we go to bed.She requested.

I want to pray.She requested again.

Then,I and my beloved agreed with her to give us prayer before we slept.

Then,she started praying and we started chorusing ‘Amen’ in unison as she kept praying in her own way and she offered the best prayer point in accordance to her ingenuity.

And finally,she concluded her prayer with ‘IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME’we prayed and we chorused a resounding ‘AMEN’.

Thereafter,I started making jest of her about the contents and the quality of arrangement of her petitions to God which is quite childish but meaningful and simple.

We all started laughing and at a point I asked her who taught her how to pray.

Who taught you how to pray?

It is you.She replied with boldness.

Me!!!When was that?When did I sat you down and taught you how to pray?

You always pray like that.She submitted.

I kept mum immediately but I was happy and fulfilled knowing fully well that she has been picking some of my prayer points in accordance to her understanding and she tried making use of it while she was praying.

It was at this moment that it dawned on me practically and realistically that parenting is not about having kids around or being called dad or mum but it is all about influencing little ones God has blessed us with.

Infact,once the needed prerequisite influence expected from anyone standing as a parent is out of place,such a parent has missed it and failed in his or her capacity of being a parent.

A parent is an influencer that must be sensitive to whatever he or she does in the presence of his or her kids.

 

 

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Parents stand as a guide, guard and a mirror to their children. Whether they are tutored and trained verbally, orally and consciously, our children are always there listening and grasping the information at their disposal of which parents are the closest trainer who are always there to show them what they need at a particular point in the process of time.

The rate and frequency at which kids of nowadays pick signals from us is at the speed of light.

Whether you are conscious or sensitive to it,your kids are watching and assimilating any step you are taken.You might be unaware of it but the day they will stand as a witness to your actions and inactions,that’s when it will dawn on you that your kids are your monitoring camera that are ready to relay and replay whatever you might have done in there presence.

Parenting is synonymous to influence.It is one of the major channels potent and pregnant enough to help the upcoming generation to learn and unlearn.

Anyone who desire to be a good parent must be ready to be a good influencer.

 

This placed a lot of responsibilities on parents, whether foster parents or not, and everyone who desire to stand as a parent at any moment to learn and understand what parenting is all about.

 

Parenting is a culture and a lifestyle that should be inculcated accompanied with the ability to make it as a source of process that should be enhanced and ensured to raise complete human beings that have matured mind, body and soul.

 

It is when we have kids that are prepared with necessities that will make them a perfect human being by their parents that the world we live in can start to turn in a direction whereby everyone will be conscious and sensitive to the need to build an egalitarian society whereby everyone can have a sense of belonging.

 

In conclusion, every parent should ensure that a beautiful future is built for their young ones so that the future of a peaceful world can be achieved.

 

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MLST ARTICLES:CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER–EPISODE 7–REVISED EDITION.

It was a cool Friday Morning of 1st of June 2018 that everybody around woke up to the reality of another beginning that marked the commencement of a new month after the expiration of the fifth month that span for a period of good thirty-one days.

 

Without any doubt, everyone petition to God at this moment was all about gratitude and appreciation to the maker of heaven and earth who made it possible for many people who are fortunate to be alive or to have woken up to the bright side of life.

 

As it was in other families, so it was also in my family. We woke up early to get prepared to face our daily obligation of being at our different places of work on time with our little daughter being prepared for her to be in the school before 8:00 AM in the morning.

 

 

 

As usual, as it was a culture and an important daily spiritual obligation for the whole family to gather together  offering prayer before embarking on anything in the morning, since, the morning of June 1st was special being the first day in the month of June 2018,the entire family  apportion and spent more time to pray  seeking the face of God for another journey that has just started and which will last for a period of 30 days.

 

While I and my beloved were busy for some few minutes observing our prayer session, our little daughter was busy sleeping and enjoying the coolness of the natural early morning breeze without any disturbance which will lapse as soon as our early morning prayer session end.

 

After, the early morning prayers have been offered and terminated, she entered the kitchen to start preparing breakfast for our daughter while I was in my bathroom cleaning up in order to meet up with my personal and official obligation for the day.

 

Few minutes after, I dashed out of the bathroom, refreshed and cleaned up, and I moved ahead to put my cloth on in preparation for my official duty which starts 7:00 AM in the morning.

 

At around few minutes after 6:00 AM, I arranged my bag and made sure that nothing is left behind untouched and unattended to in the course of my preparation.

 

 

At this point, while I was getting ready to dash out of the house, she has woken up and her mum has helped in attending to her to a large extent with water being boiled in the Kitchen in order to make her tea.

 

As I was exiting the house, all I heard behind me was my wife telling me this:

 

It goes thus:

 

“Daddy!Daddy!!Daddy!!!

 

We haven’t prayed.She submitted.

 

Immediately I turned back and walked back to meet her telling her that we have prayed but she was busy sleeping then. Not that I didn’t understand what she was asking for and not that she didn’t know what she was talking about.

 

She knew that apart from the prayer I had with her mum before, she knew that I always have special prayer time with her before I leave the house.

So, she made request for her prayer session too that is specially for her alone.

 

This started in the month of January while we were in a period of fasting and prayer for 21 days that was observed by the denomination I attended. In the course of the fasting and prayer period, I was instructed during that period that I should always have a prayer session with her every morning on a daily basis which I was able to carry out to a large extent.

Then I turned back, hold her head and invoke powerful prayer points into her life early in the morning before I bid her and her mum goodbye while they continued getting set to leave the house for the office and for her school.

 

Since then, she has mastered it and several times she has been the one demanding for it whenever I am about leaving the house in the morning.

 

As young and minor she is, it has mastered her and she has gotten an understanding and an affinity for what is  good, meaningful and profitable at a tender age.

 

It started like a joke in the month of January but it is gradually becoming a lifestyle and a culture to her which she always remembers to demand for early in the morning whenever I am about to leave for work.

 

 

 

Parenting as it is the bedrock and a viable determinant of realities in any society. It determines the fate of inhabitants of every society. A good society is a society that is being influenced by good parenting and any bad society is a society that is being influenced by bad or improper mode of parenting.

 

It was due to the fact that the older generation has lost premium for what is good and reliable that made our world to be in total disarray at this moment which has made lack of good parenting that will build our wards in getting prepared to ensure that the world we live in to become better to be the bane of developing an egalitarian society.

 

It is quite wrong and unacceptable seeing juveniles and teenagers constituting public disturbance and nuisance in every nooks and crannies of our society.

 

Anytime I am in contact with teenagers hawking on the highways and some begging for alms, I always feel bad to the point of asking myself about what their parents are doing to salvage the future of their kids from being affected and influenced negatively.

 

To an extent, the issue of teenagers being forced to labor at a minor or tender age has to do with parents who lack basic understanding and knowledge of what is necessary in life.

 

 

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It is wrong given birth to many children all in the name of what is en- vogue at the moment that having more than one children makes someone to be acceptable by the standards of the society. Every parent must be able to analyze and know about the strength inherent in them to provide and take care of the numbers of children that have the ability and muscular capacity for in terms of financial provision.

 

A situation whereby a parent has many children but they are unable to meet up with the demand of their provision and needs is quite appalling, selfish and unacceptable making it a source of concern and burden to the entire society.

 

How can a teenager or a juvenile being on the street begging alms around 08:00 PM in the evening?

What are the parents of such a child doing to monitor and improve the well-being and welfare of their children?

 

It is inappropriate to subject any child to the rigor of the present realities and it is out of place given them the orientation that their future is blur and bleak.

 

Every parent that desire to be responsive and responsible should be aware of the principle of cutting their cloth according to their sizes in ensuring that the numbers of children they will give birth to can be accommodated by what is in their purse and pocket.

 

It is wrong giving birth to children that will lack basic needs of life just because their parents cannot control their urge and orgy for sex that made them to give birth to children expected to be a blessing but due to lack of understanding and wisdom, many become a subject of pity to themselves and a source of concern to the entire society.

 

It is not wrong to have many children once there are provisions for their up-keeps but it becomes unreasonable whereby when the game of love making that leads to pregnancy is on course, no one was invited but when the products of the goals scored in the course of the game arrives, the set of people that played and scored the goals will end up expecting people that did not participate in the game will bear the brunch of the products of the game played.

 

Parenting is an all-encompassing field of responsibility that needs attention, concentration and affection accompany with the ability and strength to nurture and groom our children in the right path. For anyone to show the right path in the course of parenting demands that such a person must be in light and be enlightened enough to know the right path. No one can give out what there is no provision for. Provision precedes giving and it is through provision that the ability to give is provided for.

 

 

Any desire for good parenting must be garnished with the desire to know what it takes to be a good parent because good parenting is the only means by which good children can be raised.

 

One of the basic necessities for good children to be groomed through good parenting is through the presence of good spiritual structure that will make our children to walk in the path of light and not on the path of destruction. This becomes easy and possible when we are able to initiate the entirety of their existence to the reality and practicality of good spiritual understanding and growth from the early stage of their existence.

 

This simply boost and enhances their full potential to be developed independently. A child that lacks good and sound spiritual understanding and knowledge will end up becoming a nuisance to the society and the society will end up being destroyed by the terror of such child carried out on the platform of vices and crimes.

 

This becomes essential for every parent to understand the viable role of spirituality in the development of any child at a particular moment in time.

 

 

 

A child that is denied a strong spiritual footing might find it difficult to handle series of challenges that will burst out in the course of sojourning on earth which are known to be unexpected in approaches, contents and contexts.

 

A strong and deep spiritual grip makes a child to stand strong in the journey of life.

 

With this, it becomes a necessity and an obligation for every parent that wants the best for their wards to become deep and strong spiritually because no one gives out what is unavailable.

 

In conclusion, it is the generosity of spirituality possessed by a parent that will make a child from such a parent to be spiritual and sound in becoming a blessing to the present generation and the generation unborn.

 

Give your child a strong spiritual footing and foundations.

 

A child with a strong spiritual footings and foundation is a child that is prepared in all ramifications to face the challenges life would bring along in the course of life’s sojourn that no one born of a woman could dodge or avoid because human life is essentially meaningful as it has the ability to solve one challenge or the other in the course of existence on earth.

 

 

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There is a need for parenting to be channeled and directed towards grooming a complete and total child that is ready to take charge of any form of reality that would surface in the course of existence on earth. This needs a guide that could only be provided when the tutelage offered by parents has its stand and stance on firm spiritual upbringing and foundation.

 

It is through spiritual development that the future of a child is protected and it is through this also that the realities of the future is provided for.

 

Parents become restful with peace of mind once the spiritual upbringing of their wards are provided for which enhances the birth of a society that would end up being a resourceful platform for any nation to achieve its developmental goals and aspiration.

 

Developmental goals and aspirations of a nation becomes achievable at the point whereby the inhabitants of such society have a mind that is free of vices and crimes.

 

For any mind to be free of crimes and vices, there is a need for parenting to be tailored towards the development of a mindset that see reasons to develop the spiritual understanding of those that will end up becoming leaders of tomorrow.

 

Leaders of tomorrow must be empowered spiritually and given every reason why they are being tutored to champion a course of endeavor that will enhance total development of the society and the crux of making this a reality in a given society lies in the kind of parenting that is responsible for grooming such a child.

 

Good parenting offers good society and good society becomes a reality through good parenting thereby enhancing good developmental realities that will build an egalitarian society whereby every human is seeing as one indivisible entity accompany with a sense of belonging and equality of all.

 

 

MLST ARTICLE:Domestic Negligience!!!How guilty are you?—(7 minutes read).

It has been only domestic violence that has received deep concern by the generality of people across the length and breadth of the entire world which is always hyped by the media especially the social media.

 

Recently and not quite long,even though I have been observing it long time ago.It is high time the conscience of many people who are culpable of any form of domestic negligence to be challenged just as domestic violence is being challenged and frowned against by the entire world.

 

Many people might have a clean sheet in relation to domestic violence but their score sheet in relation to domestic negligence might be reddish in color which simply signifies failure.

 

You might be asking yourself how possible is this since you are responsive and responsible in taken good care of your family members with your ability to teach your wards the way of God coupled with your gift in inculcating the fear of God in all your family members.

 

You might be right but you might also be wrong until you take a closer look at a particular non-member of your family that you are fond of treating with disrespect and disdain knowingly or unknowingly.

 

Who is this non-member?

 

It was in the course of the year that I had an appointment with a friend in one of the mall in the city, and while we were busy dining and wining in one of the eateries, my eyes just shifted from my food and I observed a particular family entering the shopping mall on this fateful day.

 

While all their children were tush in appearance,I observed a young innocent girl that looked tattered,unkempt and worn-out.

 

Without any further observation,I knew that a tag has been placed on this little girl which made her to be easily identified as HOUSE-HELP or HOUSE MAID.

 

Just of recent,I observed another girl that is always looking unkempt and uncared for.She is also a domestic staff or a house-help putting on the same cloth all the time.

 

It is quite ungodly,unacceptable and unreasonable to ensure that all your relatives are well taken care of but your house-help is always looking tattered and haggard.

 

A good person or a responsible mind should not allow any form of segregation and separation to occur underneath his or her roof.

 

You should ensure that as long as your children and families have access to basic necessities of life,so also your domestic staffs must have equal access to such necessities.What is sauce for the goose is also sauce for the gander.

 

 

 

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This is how a practical religion built on good conscience should be carried out and not the other way round.

 

Even in the church of God,it is easier to observe from distance members of a family and non-members of a family because of the dirty attire and the look of weariness on the faces of house-helps always say it all.

 

How can your house-helps look dirty and weak but you are free to come to the church like that?

 

This is nothing but a display of wickedness and negligence that must be addressed and corrected by anyone who has a conscience.

 

If you knew from the onset that you cannot take care of your house-helps that way you are taken care of your children,why do yo have to employ their service?

 

Segregation along this line makes the existence of humanity to be sitting down on a life bomb that can explode anytime because this sort of apartheid will build a psychological imbalance and abuse in the mind of the victims making them to believe that life is unfair.

 

Let’s make judicious efforts to treat every human the same. This will help in building an egalitarian society that is conscious and sensitive to the fact that equality of all men will ensure a safer and a secured society.

 

Equality and equity make a complete man to emerge in a complete society whereby sanity remains essential focal point of anyone living in such society.

 

Stop being guilty of domestic negligence which simply connotes domestic wickedness.

 

Treat your house-helps the way and manner you are treating your own children.

 

Domestic negligence is an abuse of human right.

 

Domestic negligence towards your maid is an apartheid against humanity.

 

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MLST ARTICLE:CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7—JUNE 1ST MUSING—(10 Minutes Read)

It was a cool Friday Morning of 1st of June 2018 that everybody around woke up to the reality of another beginning that marked the commencement of a new month after the expiration of the fifth month that span for a period of good thirty-one days.

 

Without any doubt,everyone petition to God at this moment was all about gratitude and appreciation to the maker of heaven and earth who made it possible for many people who are fortunate to be alive or to have woken up to the bright side of life.

 

As it was in other families,so it was also in my family.We woke up early to get prepared to face our daily obligation of being at our different places of work on time with our little daughter being prepared for her to be in the school before 8:00 AM in the morning.

 

 

 

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CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

As usual,as it was a culture and an important  daily spiritual obligation for the whole family to gather together  offering prayer before embarking on anything in the morning,since,the morning of June 1st was special being the first day in the month of June 2018,the entire family  apportion and spent more time to pray  seeking the face of God for another journey that has just started and which will last for a period of 30 days.

 

While I and my beloved were busy for some few minutes observing our prayer session, our little daughter was busy sleeping and enjoying the coolness of the natural early morning breeze without any disturbance which will lapse as soon as our early morning prayer session end.

 

After,the early morning prayers have been offered and terminated,she entered the kitchen to start preparing breakfast for our daughter while I was in my bathroom cleaning up in order to meet up with my personal and official obligation for the day.

 

Few minutes after,I dashed out of the bathroom, refreshed and cleaned up, and I moved ahead to put my cloth on in preparation for my official duty which starts 7:00 AM in the morning.

 

At around  few minutes after 6:00 AM, I arranged my bag and made sure that nothing is left behind untouched and unattended to in the course of my preparation.

 

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CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

At this point,while I was getting ready to dash out of the house,she has woken up and her mum has helped in attending to her to a large extent with water being boiled in the Kitchen in order to make her tea.

 

As I was exiting the house,all I heard behind me was my wife telling me this:

 

It goes thus:

 

“Daddy!Daddy!!Daddy!!!

 

We haven’t prayed.She submitted.

 

Immediately I turned back and walked back to meet her telling her that we have prayed but she was busy sleeping then.Not that I didn’t understand what she was asking for and not that she didn’t know what she was talking about.

 

She knew that apart from the prayer I had with her mum before,she knew that I always have special prayer time with her before I leave the house.So,she made request for her prayer session too that is specially for her alone.

 

This started in the month of January while we were in a period of fasting and prayer for 21 days that was observed by the denomination  I attended.In the course of the fasting and prayer period,I was instructed during that period that I should always have a prayer session with her every morning on a daily basis which I was able to carry out to a large extent.

my daughter 5
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

Then I turned back,hold her head and invoke powerful prayer points into her life early in the morning before I bid her and her mum goodbye while they continued getting set to leave the house for the office and for her school.

 

Since then, she has mastered it and several times she has been the one demanding for it whenever I am about leaving the house in the morning.

 

As young and minor she is,it has mastered her and she has gotten an understanding and an affinity for what is  good,meaningful and profitable at a tender age.

 

It started like a joke in the month of January but it is gradually becoming a lifestyle and a culture to her which she always remember to demand for early in the morning whenever I am about to leave for work.

 

WHAT IS THE ROLE OF PARENTING?

 

 

Parenting as it is is the bedrock and a viable determinant of realities in any society.It determines the fate of inhabitants of every society.A good society is a society that is being influenced by good parenting and any bad society is a society that is being influenced by bad or improper mode of parenting.

 

It was due to the fact that the older generation has lost premium for what is good and reliable that made our world to be in total disarray  at this moment which has made lack of good parenting that will build our wards in getting prepared to ensure that the world we live in to become better to be the bane of developing an egalitarian society.

 

It is quite wrong and unacceptable seeing juveniles and teenagers constituting public disturbance and nuisance in every nooks and crannies of our society.

 

Anytime I am in contact with teenagers hawking on the highways and some begging for alms,I always feel bad to the point of asking myself about what their parents are doing to salvage the future of their kids from being affected and influenced negatively.

 

To an extent,the issue of teenagers being forced to labor at a minor or tender age has to do with parents who lack basic understanding and knowledge of what is necessary in life.

 

It is wrong given birth to many children all in the name of what is en vogue at the moment that having more than one children makes someone to be acceptable by the standards of the society.Every parent must be able to analyse and know about the strength inherent in them to provide and take care of the numbers of children that have the ability and muscular capacity for in terms of financial provision.

 

A situation whereby a parent has many children but they are unable to meet up with the demand of their provision and needs is quite appalling,selfish and unacceptable making it a source of concern and burden to the entire society.

 

How can a teenager or a juvenile being on the street begging alms around 08:00 PM in the evening?What are the parents of such a child doing to monitor and improve the well-being and welfare of their children?

 

It is inappropriate to subject any child to the rigor of the present realities and it is out of place given them the orientation that their future is blur and bleak.

 

Every parent that desire to be responsive and responsible should be aware of the principle of cutting their cloth according to their sizes in ensuring that the numbers of children they will give birth to can be accommodated by what is in their purse and pocket.

 

It is wrong giving birth to children that will lack basic needs of life just because their parents cannot control their urge and orgy for sex that made them to give birth to children expected to be a blessing but due to lack of understanding and wisdom,many become a subject of pity to themselves and a source of concern to the entire society.

 

It is not wrong to have many children once there are provisions for their up-keeps but it becomes unreasonable whereby when the game of love making that leads to pregnancy is on course,no one was invited but when the products of the goals scored in the course of the game arrives,the set of people that played and scored the goals will end up expecting people that did not participate in the game will bear the brunch of the products of the game played.

 

Parenting is an all-encompassing field of responsibility that needs attention,concentration and affection accompany with the ability and strength to nurture and groom our children in the right path.For anyone to show the right path in the course of parenting demands that such a person must be in light and be enlightened enough to know the right path.No one can give out what there is no provision for.Provision precedes giving and it is through provision that the ability to give is provided for.

 

 

 

my daughter 2
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

Any desire for good parenting must be garnished with the desire to know what it takes to be a good parent because good parenting is the only means by which good children can be raised.

 

One of the basic necessity for good children to be groomed through good parenting is through the presence of good spiritual structure that will make our children to walk in the path of light and not on the path of destruction.This becomes easy and possible when we are able to initiate the entirety of their existence to the reality and practicality of good spiritual understanding and growth from the early stage of their existence.

 

This simply boost and enhances their full potential to be developed independently.A child that lacks good and sound spiritual understanding and knowledge will end up becoming a nuisance to the society and the society will end up being destroyed by the terror of such child carried out on the platform of vices and crimes.

 

This becomes essential for every parent to understand the viable role of spirituality in the development of any child at a particular moments in time.

 

 

 

my daughter 3
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

A child that is denied a strong spiritual footings might find it difficult to handle series of challenges that will burst out in the course of sojourning on earth which are known to be unexpected in approaches,contents and contexts.

 

A strong and deep spiritual grip makes a child to stand strong in the journey of life.

 

With this, it becomes a necessity and an obligation for every parent that wants the best for their wards to become deep and strong spiritually because no one gives out what is unavailable.

 

In conclusion,it is the generosity of spirituality possessed by a parent that will make a child from such a parent to be spiritual and sound in becoming a blessing to the present generation and the generation unborn.

 

Give your child a strong spiritual footing and foundations.

 

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#Parenting#

 

#Spirituality#

 

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MLST ARTICLE:CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7—JUNE 1ST MUSING—(10 Minutes Read)

It was a cool Friday Morning of 1st of June 2018 that everybody around woke up to the reality of another beginning that marked the commencement of a new month after the expiration of the fifth month that span for a period of good thirty-one days.

 

Without any doubt,everyone petition to God at this moment was all about gratitude and appreciation to the maker of heaven and earth who made it possible for many people who are fortunate to be alive or to have woken up to the bright side of life.

 

As it was in other families,so it was also in my family.We woke up early to get prepared to face our daily obligation of being at our different places of work on time with our little daughter being prepared for her to be in the school before 8:00 AM in the morning.

 

 

 

my daughter 6
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

As usual,as it was a culture and an important  daily spiritual obligation for the whole family to gather together  offering prayer before embarking on anything in the morning,since,the morning of June 1st was special being the first day in the month of June 2018,the entire family  apportion and spent more time to pray  seeking the face of God for another journey that has just started and which will last for a period of 30 days.

 

While I and my beloved were busy for some few minutes observing our prayer session, our little daughter was busy sleeping and enjoying the coolness of the natural early morning breeze without any disturbance which will lapse as soon as our early morning prayer session end.

 

After,the early morning prayers have been offered and terminated,she entered the kitchen to start preparing breakfast for our daughter while I was in my bathroom cleaning up in order to meet up with my personal and official obligation for the day.

 

Few minutes after,I dashed out of the bathroom, refreshed and cleaned up, and I moved ahead to put my cloth on in preparation for my official duty which starts 7:00 AM in the morning.

 

At around  few minutes after 6:00 AM, I arranged my bag and made sure that nothing is left behind untouched and unattended to in the course of my preparation.

 

my daughter 5
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

At this point,while I was getting ready to dash out of the house,she has woken up and her mum has helped in attending to her to a large extent with water being boiled in the Kitchen in order to make her tea.

 

As I was exiting the house,all I heard behind me was my wife telling me this:

 

It goes thus:

 

“Daddy!Daddy!!Daddy!!!

 

We haven’t prayed.She submitted.

 

Immediately I turned back and walked back to meet her telling her that we have prayed but she was busy sleeping then.Not that I didn’t understand what she was asking for and not that she didn’t know what she was talking about.

 

She knew that apart from the prayer I had with her mum before,she knew that I always have special prayer time with her before I leave the house.So,she made request for her prayer session too that is specially for her alone.

 

This started in the month of January while we were in a period of fasting and prayer for 21 days that was observed by the denomination  I attended.In the course of the fasting and prayer period,I was instructed during that period that I should always have a prayer session with her every morning on a daily basis which I was able to carry out to a large extent.

my daughter 5
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

Then I turned back,hold her head and invoke powerful prayer points into her life early in the morning before I bid her and her mum goodbye while they continued getting set to leave the house for the office and for her school.

 

Since then, she has mastered it and several times she has been the one demanding for it whenever I am about leaving the house in the morning.

 

As young and minor she is,it has mastered her and she has gotten an understanding and an affinity for what is  good,meaningful and profitable at a tender age.

 

It started like a joke in the month of January but it is gradually becoming a lifestyle and a culture to her which she always remember to demand for early in the morning whenever I am about to leave for work.

 

WHAT IS THE ROLE OF PARENTING?

 

 

Parenting as it is is the bedrock and a viable determinant of realities in any society.It determines the fate of inhabitants of every society.A good society is a society that is being influenced by good parenting and any bad society is a society that is being influenced by bad or improper mode of parenting.

 

It was due to the fact that the older generation has lost premium for what is good and reliable that made our world to be in total disarray  at this moment which has made lack of good parenting that will build our wards in getting prepared to ensure that the world we live in to become better to be the bane of developing an egalitarian society.

 

It is quite wrong and unacceptable seeing juveniles and teenagers constituting public disturbance and nuisance in every nooks and crannies of our society.

 

Anytime I am in contact with teenagers hawking on the highways and some begging for alms,I always feel bad to the point of asking myself about what their parents are doing to salvage the future of their kids from being affected and influenced negatively.

 

To an extent,the issue of teenagers being forced to labor at a minor or tender age has to do with parents who lack basic understanding and knowledge of what is necessary in life.

 

It is wrong given birth to many children all in the name of what is en vogue at the moment that having more than one children makes someone to be acceptable by the standards of the society.Every parent must be able to analyse and know about the strength inherent in them to provide and take care of the numbers of children that have the ability and muscular capacity for in terms of financial provision.

 

A situation whereby a parent has many children but they are unable to meet up with the demand of their provision and needs is quite appalling,selfish and unacceptable making it a source of concern and burden to the entire society.

 

How can a teenager or a juvenile being on the street begging alms around 08:00 PM in the evening?What are the parents of such a child doing to monitor and improve the well-being and welfare of their children?

 

It is inappropriate to subject any child to the rigor of the present realities and it is out of place given them the orientation that their future is blur and bleak.

 

Every parent that desire to be responsive and responsible should be aware of the principle of cutting their cloth according to their sizes in ensuring that the numbers of children they will give birth to can be accommodated by what is in their purse and pocket.

 

It is wrong giving birth to children that will lack basic needs of life just because their parents cannot control their urge and orgy for sex that made them to give birth to children expected to be a blessing but due to lack of understanding and wisdom,many become a subject of pity to themselves and a source of concern to the entire society.

 

It is not wrong to have many children once there are provisions for their up-keeps but it becomes unreasonable whereby when the game of love making that leads to pregnancy is on course,no one was invited but when the products of the goals scored in the course of the game arrives,the set of people that played and scored the goals will end up expecting people that did not participate in the game will bear the brunch of the products of the game played.

 

Parenting is an all-encompassing field of responsibility that needs attention,concentration and affection accompany with the ability and strength to nurture and groom our children in the right path.For anyone to show the right path in the course of parenting demands that such a person must be in light and be enlightened enough to know the right path.No one can give out what there is no provision for.Provision precedes giving and it is through provision that the ability to give is provided for.

 

 

 

my daughter 2
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

Any desire for good parenting must be garnished with the desire to know what it takes to be a good parent because good parenting is the only means by which good children can be raised.

 

One of the basic necessity for good children to be groomed through good parenting is through the presence of good spiritual structure that will make our children to walk in the path of light and not on the path of destruction.This becomes easy and possible when we are able to initiate the entirety of their existence to the reality and practicality of good spiritual understanding and growth from the early stage of their existence.

 

This simply boost and enhances their full potential to be developed independently.A child that lacks good and sound spiritual understanding and knowledge will end up becoming a nuisance to the society and the society will end up being destroyed by the terror of such child carried out on the platform of vices and crimes.

 

This becomes essential for every parent to understand the viable role of spirituality in the development of any child at a particular moments in time.

 

 

 

my daughter 3
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

A child that is denied a strong spiritual footings might find it difficult to handle series of challenges that will burst out in the course of sojourning on earth which are known to be unexpected in approaches,contents and contexts.

 

A strong and deep spiritual grip makes a child to stand strong in the journey of life.

 

With this, it becomes a necessity and an obligation for every parent that wants the best for their wards to become deep and strong spiritually because no one gives out what is unavailable.

 

In conclusion,it is the generosity of spirituality possessed by a parent that will make a child from such a parent to be spiritual and sound in becoming a blessing to the present generation and the generation unborn.

 

Give your child a strong spiritual footing and foundations.

 

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#Parenting#

 

#Spirituality#

 

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MLST ARTICLE:CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7—JUNE 1ST MUSING—(10 Minutes Read)

It was a cool Friday Morning of 1st of June 2018 that everybody around woke up to the reality of another beginning that marked the commencement of a new month after the expiration of the fifth month that span for a period of good thirty-one days.

 

Without any doubt,everyone petition to God at this moment was all about gratitude and appreciation to the maker of heaven and earth who made it possible for many people who are fortunate to be alive or to have woken up to the bright side of life.

 

As it was in other families,so it was also in my family.We woke up early to get prepared to face our daily obligation of being at our different places of work on time with our little daughter being prepared for her to be in the school before 8:00 AM in the morning.

 

 

 

my daughter 6
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

As usual,as it was a culture and an important  daily spiritual obligation for the whole family to gather together  offering prayer before embarking on anything in the morning,since,the morning of June 1st was special being the first day in the month of June 2018,the entire family  apportion and spent more time to pray  seeking the face of God for another journey that has just started and which will last for a period of 30 days.

 

While I and my beloved were busy for some few minutes observing our prayer session, our little daughter was busy sleeping and enjoying the coolness of the natural early morning breeze without any disturbance which will lapse as soon as our early morning prayer session end.

 

After,the early morning prayers have been offered and terminated,she entered the kitchen to start preparing breakfast for our daughter while I was in my bathroom cleaning up in order to meet up with my personal and official obligation for the day.

 

Few minutes after,I dashed out of the bathroom, refreshed and cleaned up, and I moved ahead to put my cloth on in preparation for my official duty which starts 7:00 AM in the morning.

 

At around  few minutes after 6:00 AM, I arranged my bag and made sure that nothing is left behind untouched and unattended to in the course of my preparation.

 

my daughter 5
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

At this point,while I was getting ready to dash out of the house,she has woken up and her mum has helped in attending to her to a large extent with water being boiled in the Kitchen in order to make her tea.

 

As I was exiting the house,all I heard behind me was my wife telling me this:

 

It goes thus:

 

“Daddy!Daddy!!Daddy!!!

 

We haven’t prayed.She submitted.

 

Immediately I turned back and walked back to meet her telling her that we have prayed but she was busy sleeping then.Not that I didn’t understand what she was asking for and not that she didn’t know what she was talking about.

 

She knew that apart from the prayer I had with her mum before,she knew that I always have special prayer time with her before I leave the house.So,she made request for her prayer session too that is specially for her alone.

 

This started in the month of January while we were in a period of fasting and prayer for 21 days that was observed by the denomination  I attended.In the course of the fasting and prayer period,I was instructed during that period that I should always have a prayer session with her every morning on a daily basis which I was able to carry out to a large extent.

my daughter 5
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

Then I turned back,hold her head and invoke powerful prayer points into her life early in the morning before I bid her and her mum goodbye while they continued getting set to leave the house for the office and for her school.

 

Since then, she has mastered it and several times she has been the one demanding for it whenever I am about leaving the house in the morning.

 

As young and minor she is,it has mastered her and she has gotten an understanding and an affinity for what is  good,meaningful and profitable at a tender age.

 

It started like a joke in the month of January but it is gradually becoming a lifestyle and a culture to her which she always remember to demand for early in the morning whenever I am about to leave for work.

 

WHAT IS THE ROLE OF PARENTING?

 

 

Parenting as it is is the bedrock and a viable determinant of realities in any society.It determines the fate of inhabitants of every society.A good society is a society that is being influenced by good parenting and any bad society is a society that is being influenced by bad or improper mode of parenting.

 

It was due to the fact that the older generation has lost premium for what is good and reliable that made our world to be in total disarray  at this moment which has made lack of good parenting that will build our wards in getting prepared to ensure that the world we live in to become better to be the bane of developing an egalitarian society.

 

It is quite wrong and unacceptable seeing juveniles and teenagers constituting public disturbance and nuisance in every nooks and crannies of our society.

 

Anytime I am in contact with teenagers hawking on the highways and some begging for alms,I always feel bad to the point of asking myself about what their parents are doing to salvage the future of their kids from being affected and influenced negatively.

 

To an extent,the issue of teenagers being forced to labor at a minor or tender age has to do with parents who lack basic understanding and knowledge of what is necessary in life.

 

It is wrong given birth to many children all in the name of what is en vogue at the moment that having more than one children makes someone to be acceptable by the standards of the society.Every parent must be able to analyse and know about the strength inherent in them to provide and take care of the numbers of children that have the ability and muscular capacity for in terms of financial provision.

 

A situation whereby a parent has many children but they are unable to meet up with the demand of their provision and needs is quite appalling,selfish and unacceptable making it a source of concern and burden to the entire society.

 

How can a teenager or a juvenile being on the street begging alms around 08:00 PM in the evening?What are the parents of such a child doing to monitor and improve the well-being and welfare of their children?

 

It is inappropriate to subject any child to the rigor of the present realities and it is out of place given them the orientation that their future is blur and bleak.

 

Every parent that desire to be responsive and responsible should be aware of the principle of cutting their cloth according to their sizes in ensuring that the numbers of children they will give birth to can be accommodated by what is in their purse and pocket.

 

It is wrong giving birth to children that will lack basic needs of life just because their parents cannot control their urge and orgy for sex that made them to give birth to children expected to be a blessing but due to lack of understanding and wisdom,many become a subject of pity to themselves and a source of concern to the entire society.

 

It is not wrong to have many children once there are provisions for their up-keeps but it becomes unreasonable whereby when the game of love making that leads to pregnancy is on course,no one was invited but when the products of the goals scored in the course of the game arrives,the set of people that played and scored the goals will end up expecting people that did not participate in the game will bear the brunch of the products of the game played.

 

Parenting is an all-encompassing field of responsibility that needs attention,concentration and affection accompany with the ability and strength to nurture and groom our children in the right path.For anyone to show the right path in the course of parenting demands that such a person must be in light and be enlightened enough to know the right path.No one can give out what there is no provision for.Provision precedes giving and it is through provision that the ability to give is provided for.

 

 

 

my daughter 2
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

Any desire for good parenting must be garnished with the desire to know what it takes to be a good parent because good parenting is the only means by which good children can be raised.

 

One of the basic necessity for good children to be groomed through good parenting is through the presence of good spiritual structure that will make our children to walk in the path of light and not on the path of destruction.This becomes easy and possible when we are able to initiate the entirety of their existence to the reality and practicality of good spiritual understanding and growth from the early stage of their existence.

 

This simply boost and enhances their full potential to be developed independently.A child that lacks good and sound spiritual understanding and knowledge will end up becoming a nuisance to the society and the society will end up being destroyed by the terror of such child carried out on the platform of vices and crimes.

 

This becomes essential for every parent to understand the viable role of spirituality in the development of any child at a particular moments in time.

 

 

 

my daughter 3
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

A child that is denied a strong spiritual footings might find it difficult to handle series of challenges that will burst out in the course of sojourning on earth which are known to be unexpected in approaches,contents and contexts.

 

A strong and deep spiritual grip makes a child to stand strong in the journey of life.

 

With this, it becomes a necessity and an obligation for every parent that wants the best for their wards to become deep and strong spiritually because no one gives out what is unavailable.

 

In conclusion,it is the generosity of spirituality possessed by a parent that will make a child from such a parent to be spiritual and sound in becoming a blessing to the present generation and the generation unborn.

 

Give your child a strong spiritual footing and foundations.

 

TAG:

 

#Parenting#

 

#Spirituality#

 

Ref:

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MLST ARTICLE:CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7—JUNE 1ST MUSING—(10 Minutes Read)

It was a cool Friday Morning of 1st of June 2018 that everybody around woke up to the reality of another beginning that marked the commencement of a new month after the expiration of the fifth month that span for a period of good thirty-one days.

 

Without any doubt,everyone petition to God at this moment was all about gratitude and appreciation to the maker of heaven and earth who made it possible for many people who are fortunate to be alive or to have woken up to the bright side of life.

 

As it was in other families,so it was also in my family.We woke up early to get prepared to face our daily obligation of being at our different places of work on time with our little daughter being prepared for her to be in the school before 8:00 AM in the morning.

 

 

 

my daughter 6
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

As usual,as it was a culture and an important  daily spiritual obligation for the whole family to gather together  offering prayer before embarking on anything in the morning,since,the morning of June 1st was special being the first day in the month of June 2018,the entire family  apportion and spent more time to pray  seeking the face of God for another journey that has just started and which will last for a period of 30 days.

 

While I and my beloved were busy for some few minutes observing our prayer session, our little daughter was busy sleeping and enjoying the coolness of the natural early morning breeze without any disturbance which will lapse as soon as our early morning prayer session end.

 

After,the early morning prayers have been offered and terminated,she entered the kitchen to start preparing breakfast for our daughter while I was in my bathroom cleaning up in order to meet up with my personal and official obligation for the day.

 

Few minutes after,I dashed out of the bathroom, refreshed and cleaned up, and I moved ahead to put my cloth on in preparation for my official duty which starts 7:00 AM in the morning.

 

At around  few minutes after 6:00 AM, I arranged my bag and made sure that nothing is left behind untouched and unattended to in the course of my preparation.

 

my daughter 5
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

At this point,while I was getting ready to dash out of the house,she has woken up and her mum has helped in attending to her to a large extent with water being boiled in the Kitchen in order to make her tea.

 

As I was exiting the house,all I heard behind me was my wife telling me this:

 

It goes thus:

 

“Daddy!Daddy!!Daddy!!!

 

We haven’t prayed.She submitted.

 

Immediately I turned back and walked back to meet her telling her that we have prayed but she was busy sleeping then.Not that I didn’t understand what she was asking for and not that she didn’t know what she was talking about.

 

She knew that apart from the prayer I had with her mum before,she knew that I always have special prayer time with her before I leave the house.So,she made request for her prayer session too that is specially for her alone.

 

This started in the month of January while we were in a period of fasting and prayer for 21 days that was observed by the denomination  I attended.In the course of the fasting and prayer period,I was instructed during that period that I should always have a prayer session with her every morning on a daily basis which I was able to carry out to a large extent.

my daughter 5
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

Then I turned back,hold her head and invoke powerful prayer points into her life early in the morning before I bid her and her mum goodbye while they continued getting set to leave the house for the office and for her school.

 

Since then, she has mastered it and several times she has been the one demanding for it whenever I am about leaving the house in the morning.

 

As young and minor she is,it has mastered her and she has gotten an understanding and an affinity for what is  good,meaningful and profitable at a tender age.

 

It started like a joke in the month of January but it is gradually becoming a lifestyle and a culture to her which she always remember to demand for early in the morning whenever I am about to leave for work.

 

WHAT IS THE ROLE OF PARENTING?

 

 

Parenting as it is is the bedrock and a viable determinant of realities in any society.It determines the fate of inhabitants of every society.A good society is a society that is being influenced by good parenting and any bad society is a society that is being influenced by bad or improper mode of parenting.

 

It was due to the fact that the older generation has lost premium for what is good and reliable that made our world to be in total disarray  at this moment which has made lack of good parenting that will build our wards in getting prepared to ensure that the world we live in to become better to be the bane of developing an egalitarian society.

 

It is quite wrong and unacceptable seeing juveniles and teenagers constituting public disturbance and nuisance in every nooks and crannies of our society.

 

Anytime I am in contact with teenagers hawking on the highways and some begging for alms,I always feel bad to the point of asking myself about what their parents are doing to salvage the future of their kids from being affected and influenced negatively.

 

To an extent,the issue of teenagers being forced to labor at a minor or tender age has to do with parents who lack basic understanding and knowledge of what is necessary in life.

 

It is wrong given birth to many children all in the name of what is en vogue at the moment that having more than one children makes someone to be acceptable by the standards of the society.Every parent must be able to analyse and know about the strength inherent in them to provide and take care of the numbers of children that have the ability and muscular capacity for in terms of financial provision.

 

A situation whereby a parent has many children but they are unable to meet up with the demand of their provision and needs is quite appalling,selfish and unacceptable making it a source of concern and burden to the entire society.

 

How can a teenager or a juvenile being on the street begging alms around 08:00 PM in the evening?What are the parents of such a child doing to monitor and improve the well-being and welfare of their children?

 

It is inappropriate to subject any child to the rigor of the present realities and it is out of place given them the orientation that their future is blur and bleak.

 

Every parent that desire to be responsive and responsible should be aware of the principle of cutting their cloth according to their sizes in ensuring that the numbers of children they will give birth to can be accommodated by what is in their purse and pocket.

 

It is wrong giving birth to children that will lack basic needs of life just because their parents cannot control their urge and orgy for sex that made them to give birth to children expected to be a blessing but due to lack of understanding and wisdom,many become a subject of pity to themselves and a source of concern to the entire society.

 

It is not wrong to have many children once there are provisions for their up-keeps but it becomes unreasonable whereby when the game of love making that leads to pregnancy is on course,no one was invited but when the products of the goals scored in the course of the game arrives,the set of people that played and scored the goals will end up expecting people that did not participate in the game will bear the brunch of the products of the game played.

 

Parenting is an all-encompassing field of responsibility that needs attention,concentration and affection accompany with the ability and strength to nurture and groom our children in the right path.For anyone to show the right path in the course of parenting demands that such a person must be in light and be enlightened enough to know the right path.No one can give out what there is no provision for.Provision precedes giving and it is through provision that the ability to give is provided for.

 

 

 

my daughter 2
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

Any desire for good parenting must be garnished with the desire to know what it takes to be a good parent because good parenting is the only means by which good children can be raised.

 

One of the basic necessity for good children to be groomed through good parenting is through the presence of good spiritual structure that will make our children to walk in the path of light and not on the path of destruction.This becomes easy and possible when we are able to initiate the entirety of their existence to the reality and practicality of good spiritual understanding and growth from the early stage of their existence.

 

This simply boost and enhances their full potential to be developed independently.A child that lacks good and sound spiritual understanding and knowledge will end up becoming a nuisance to the society and the society will end up being destroyed by the terror of such child carried out on the platform of vices and crimes.

 

This becomes essential for every parent to understand the viable role of spirituality in the development of any child at a particular moments in time.

 

 

 

my daughter 3
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

A child that is denied a strong spiritual footings might find it difficult to handle series of challenges that will burst out in the course of sojourning on earth which are known to be unexpected in approaches,contents and contexts.

 

A strong and deep spiritual grip makes a child to stand strong in the journey of life.

 

With this, it becomes a necessity and an obligation for every parent that wants the best for their wards to become deep and strong spiritually because no one gives out what is unavailable.

 

In conclusion,it is the generosity of spirituality possessed by a parent that will make a child from such a parent to be spiritual and sound in becoming a blessing to the present generation and the generation unborn.

 

Give your child a strong spiritual footing and foundations.

 

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#Parenting#

 

#Spirituality#

 

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MLST ARTICLE:CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7—JUNE 1ST MUSING—(10 Minutes Read)

It was a cool Friday Morning of 1st of June 2018 that everybody around woke up to the reality of another beginning that marked the commencement of a new month after the expiration of the fifth month that span for a period of good thirty-one days.

 

Without any doubt,everyone petition to God at this moment was all about gratitude and appreciation to the maker of heaven and earth who made it possible for many people who are fortunate to be alive or to have woken up to the bright side of life.

 

As it was in other families,so it was also in my family.We woke up early to get prepared to face our daily obligation of being at our different places of work on time with our little daughter being prepared for her to be in the school before 8:00 AM in the morning.

 

 

 

my daughter 6
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

As usual,as it was a culture and an important  daily spiritual obligation for the whole family to gather together  offering prayer before embarking on anything in the morning,since,the morning of June 1st was special being the first day in the month of June 2018,the entire family  apportion and spent more time to pray  seeking the face of God for another journey that has just started and which will last for a period of 30 days.

 

While I and my beloved were busy for some few minutes observing our prayer session, our little daughter was busy sleeping and enjoying the coolness of the natural early morning breeze without any disturbance which will lapse as soon as our early morning prayer session end.

 

After,the early morning prayers have been offered and terminated,she entered the kitchen to start preparing breakfast for our daughter while I was in my bathroom cleaning up in order to meet up with my personal and official obligation for the day.

 

Few minutes after,I dashed out of the bathroom, refreshed and cleaned up, and I moved ahead to put my cloth on in preparation for my official duty which starts 7:00 AM in the morning.

 

At around  few minutes after 6:00 AM, I arranged my bag and made sure that nothing is left behind untouched and unattended to in the course of my preparation.

 

my daughter 5
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

At this point,while I was getting ready to dash out of the house,she has woken up and her mum has helped in attending to her to a large extent with water being boiled in the Kitchen in order to make her tea.

 

As I was exiting the house,all I heard behind me was my wife telling me this:

 

It goes thus:

 

“Daddy!Daddy!!Daddy!!!

 

We haven’t prayed.She submitted.

 

Immediately I turned back and walked back to meet her telling her that we have prayed but she was busy sleeping then.Not that I didn’t understand what she was asking for and not that she didn’t know what she was talking about.

 

She knew that apart from the prayer I had with her mum before,she knew that I always have special prayer time with her before I leave the house.So,she made request for her prayer session too that is specially for her alone.

 

This started in the month of January while we were in a period of fasting and prayer for 21 days that was observed by the denomination  I attended.In the course of the fasting and prayer period,I was instructed during that period that I should always have a prayer session with her every morning on a daily basis which I was able to carry out to a large extent.

my daughter 5
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

Then I turned back,hold her head and invoke powerful prayer points into her life early in the morning before I bid her and her mum goodbye while they continued getting set to leave the house for the office and for her school.

 

Since then, she has mastered it and several times she has been the one demanding for it whenever I am about leaving the house in the morning.

 

As young and minor she is,it has mastered her and she has gotten an understanding and an affinity for what is  good,meaningful and profitable at a tender age.

 

It started like a joke in the month of January but it is gradually becoming a lifestyle and a culture to her which she always remember to demand for early in the morning whenever I am about to leave for work.

 

WHAT IS THE ROLE OF PARENTING?

 

 

Parenting as it is is the bedrock and a viable determinant of realities in any society.It determines the fate of inhabitants of every society.A good society is a society that is being influenced by good parenting and any bad society is a society that is being influenced by bad or improper mode of parenting.

 

It was due to the fact that the older generation has lost premium for what is good and reliable that made our world to be in total disarray  at this moment which has made lack of good parenting that will build our wards in getting prepared to ensure that the world we live in to become better to be the bane of developing an egalitarian society.

 

It is quite wrong and unacceptable seeing juveniles and teenagers constituting public disturbance and nuisance in every nooks and crannies of our society.

 

Anytime I am in contact with teenagers hawking on the highways and some begging for alms,I always feel bad to the point of asking myself about what their parents are doing to salvage the future of their kids from being affected and influenced negatively.

 

To an extent,the issue of teenagers being forced to labor at a minor or tender age has to do with parents who lack basic understanding and knowledge of what is necessary in life.

 

It is wrong given birth to many children all in the name of what is en vogue at the moment that having more than one children makes someone to be acceptable by the standards of the society.Every parent must be able to analyse and know about the strength inherent in them to provide and take care of the numbers of children that have the ability and muscular capacity for in terms of financial provision.

 

A situation whereby a parent has many children but they are unable to meet up with the demand of their provision and needs is quite appalling,selfish and unacceptable making it a source of concern and burden to the entire society.

 

How can a teenager or a juvenile being on the street begging alms around 08:00 PM in the evening?What are the parents of such a child doing to monitor and improve the well-being and welfare of their children?

 

It is inappropriate to subject any child to the rigor of the present realities and it is out of place given them the orientation that their future is blur and bleak.

 

Every parent that desire to be responsive and responsible should be aware of the principle of cutting their cloth according to their sizes in ensuring that the numbers of children they will give birth to can be accommodated by what is in their purse and pocket.

 

It is wrong giving birth to children that will lack basic needs of life just because their parents cannot control their urge and orgy for sex that made them to give birth to children expected to be a blessing but due to lack of understanding and wisdom,many become a subject of pity to themselves and a source of concern to the entire society.

 

It is not wrong to have many children once there are provisions for their up-keeps but it becomes unreasonable whereby when the game of love making that leads to pregnancy is on course,no one was invited but when the products of the goals scored in the course of the game arrives,the set of people that played and scored the goals will end up expecting people that did not participate in the game will bear the brunch of the products of the game played.

 

Parenting is an all-encompassing field of responsibility that needs attention,concentration and affection accompany with the ability and strength to nurture and groom our children in the right path.For anyone to show the right path in the course of parenting demands that such a person must be in light and be enlightened enough to know the right path.No one can give out what there is no provision for.Provision precedes giving and it is through provision that the ability to give is provided for.

 

 

 

my daughter 2
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

Any desire for good parenting must be garnished with the desire to know what it takes to be a good parent because good parenting is the only means by which good children can be raised.

 

One of the basic necessity for good children to be groomed through good parenting is through the presence of good spiritual structure that will make our children to walk in the path of light and not on the path of destruction.This becomes easy and possible when we are able to initiate the entirety of their existence to the reality and practicality of good spiritual understanding and growth from the early stage of their existence.

 

This simply boost and enhances their full potential to be developed independently.A child that lacks good and sound spiritual understanding and knowledge will end up becoming a nuisance to the society and the society will end up being destroyed by the terror of such child carried out on the platform of vices and crimes.

 

This becomes essential for every parent to understand the viable role of spirituality in the development of any child at a particular moments in time.

 

 

 

my daughter 3
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

A child that is denied a strong spiritual footings might find it difficult to handle series of challenges that will burst out in the course of sojourning on earth which are known to be unexpected in approaches,contents and contexts.

 

A strong and deep spiritual grip makes a child to stand strong in the journey of life.

 

With this, it becomes a necessity and an obligation for every parent that wants the best for their wards to become deep and strong spiritually because no one gives out what is unavailable.

 

In conclusion,it is the generosity of spirituality possessed by a parent that will make a child from such a parent to be spiritual and sound in becoming a blessing to the present generation and the generation unborn.

 

Give your child a strong spiritual footing and foundations.

 

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#Spirituality#

 

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MLST ARTICLE:CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7—JUNE 1ST MUSING—(10 Minutes Read)

It was a cool Friday Morning of 1st of June 2018 that everybody around woke up to the reality of another beginning that marked the commencement of a new month after the expiration of the fifth month that span for a period of good thirty-one days.

 

Without any doubt,everyone petition to God at this moment was all about gratitude and appreciation to the maker of heaven and earth who made it possible for many people who are fortunate to be alive or to have woken up to the bright side of life.

 

As it was in other families,so it was also in my family.We woke up early to get prepared to face our daily obligation of being at our different places of work on time with our little daughter being prepared for her to be in the school before 8:00 AM in the morning.

 

 

 

my daughter 6
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

As usual,as it was a culture and an important  daily spiritual obligation for the whole family to gather together  offering prayer before embarking on anything in the morning,since,the morning of June 1st was special being the first day in the month of June 2018,the entire family  apportion and spent more time to pray  seeking the face of God for another journey that has just started and which will last for a period of 30 days.

 

While I and my beloved were busy for some few minutes observing our prayer session, our little daughter was busy sleeping and enjoying the coolness of the natural early morning breeze without any disturbance which will lapse as soon as our early morning prayer session end.

 

After,the early morning prayers have been offered and terminated,she entered the kitchen to start preparing breakfast for our daughter while I was in my bathroom cleaning up in order to meet up with my personal and official obligation for the day.

 

Few minutes after,I dashed out of the bathroom, refreshed and cleaned up, and I moved ahead to put my cloth on in preparation for my official duty which starts 7:00 AM in the morning.

 

At around  few minutes after 6:00 AM, I arranged my bag and made sure that nothing is left behind untouched and unattended to in the course of my preparation.

 

my daughter 5
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

At this point,while I was getting ready to dash out of the house,she has woken up and her mum has helped in attending to her to a large extent with water being boiled in the Kitchen in order to make her tea.

 

As I was exiting the house,all I heard behind me was my wife telling me this:

 

It goes thus:

 

“Daddy!Daddy!!Daddy!!!

 

We haven’t prayed.She submitted.

 

Immediately I turned back and walked back to meet her telling her that we have prayed but she was busy sleeping then.Not that I didn’t understand what she was asking for and not that she didn’t know what she was talking about.

 

She knew that apart from the prayer I had with her mum before,she knew that I always have special prayer time with her before I leave the house.So,she made request for her prayer session too that is specially for her alone.

 

This started in the month of January while we were in a period of fasting and prayer for 21 days that was observed by the denomination  I attended.In the course of the fasting and prayer period,I was instructed during that period that I should always have a prayer session with her every morning on a daily basis which I was able to carry out to a large extent.

my daughter 5
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

Then I turned back,hold her head and invoke powerful prayer points into her life early in the morning before I bid her and her mum goodbye while they continued getting set to leave the house for the office and for her school.

 

Since then, she has mastered it and several times she has been the one demanding for it whenever I am about leaving the house in the morning.

 

As young and minor she is,it has mastered her and she has gotten an understanding and an affinity for what is  good,meaningful and profitable at a tender age.

 

It started like a joke in the month of January but it is gradually becoming a lifestyle and a culture to her which she always remember to demand for early in the morning whenever I am about to leave for work.

 

WHAT IS THE ROLE OF PARENTING?

 

 

Parenting as it is is the bedrock and a viable determinant of realities in any society.It determines the fate of inhabitants of every society.A good society is a society that is being influenced by good parenting and any bad society is a society that is being influenced by bad or improper mode of parenting.

 

It was due to the fact that the older generation has lost premium for what is good and reliable that made our world to be in total disarray  at this moment which has made lack of good parenting that will build our wards in getting prepared to ensure that the world we live in to become better to be the bane of developing an egalitarian society.

 

It is quite wrong and unacceptable seeing juveniles and teenagers constituting public disturbance and nuisance in every nooks and crannies of our society.

 

Anytime I am in contact with teenagers hawking on the highways and some begging for alms,I always feel bad to the point of asking myself about what their parents are doing to salvage the future of their kids from being affected and influenced negatively.

 

To an extent,the issue of teenagers being forced to labor at a minor or tender age has to do with parents who lack basic understanding and knowledge of what is necessary in life.

 

It is wrong given birth to many children all in the name of what is en vogue at the moment that having more than one children makes someone to be acceptable by the standards of the society.Every parent must be able to analyse and know about the strength inherent in them to provide and take care of the numbers of children that have the ability and muscular capacity for in terms of financial provision.

 

A situation whereby a parent has many children but they are unable to meet up with the demand of their provision and needs is quite appalling,selfish and unacceptable making it a source of concern and burden to the entire society.

 

How can a teenager or a juvenile being on the street begging alms around 08:00 PM in the evening?What are the parents of such a child doing to monitor and improve the well-being and welfare of their children?

 

It is inappropriate to subject any child to the rigor of the present realities and it is out of place given them the orientation that their future is blur and bleak.

 

Every parent that desire to be responsive and responsible should be aware of the principle of cutting their cloth according to their sizes in ensuring that the numbers of children they will give birth to can be accommodated by what is in their purse and pocket.

 

It is wrong giving birth to children that will lack basic needs of life just because their parents cannot control their urge and orgy for sex that made them to give birth to children expected to be a blessing but due to lack of understanding and wisdom,many become a subject of pity to themselves and a source of concern to the entire society.

 

It is not wrong to have many children once there are provisions for their up-keeps but it becomes unreasonable whereby when the game of love making that leads to pregnancy is on course,no one was invited but when the products of the goals scored in the course of the game arrives,the set of people that played and scored the goals will end up expecting people that did not participate in the game will bear the brunch of the products of the game played.

 

Parenting is an all-encompassing field of responsibility that needs attention,concentration and affection accompany with the ability and strength to nurture and groom our children in the right path.For anyone to show the right path in the course of parenting demands that such a person must be in light and be enlightened enough to know the right path.No one can give out what there is no provision for.Provision precedes giving and it is through provision that the ability to give is provided for.

 

 

 

my daughter 2
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

Any desire for good parenting must be garnished with the desire to know what it takes to be a good parent because good parenting is the only means by which good children can be raised.

 

One of the basic necessity for good children to be groomed through good parenting is through the presence of good spiritual structure that will make our children to walk in the path of light and not on the path of destruction.This becomes easy and possible when we are able to initiate the entirety of their existence to the reality and practicality of good spiritual understanding and growth from the early stage of their existence.

 

This simply boost and enhances their full potential to be developed independently.A child that lacks good and sound spiritual understanding and knowledge will end up becoming a nuisance to the society and the society will end up being destroyed by the terror of such child carried out on the platform of vices and crimes.

 

This becomes essential for every parent to understand the viable role of spirituality in the development of any child at a particular moments in time.

 

 

 

my daughter 3
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

A child that is denied a strong spiritual footings might find it difficult to handle series of challenges that will burst out in the course of sojourning on earth which are known to be unexpected in approaches,contents and contexts.

 

A strong and deep spiritual grip makes a child to stand strong in the journey of life.

 

With this, it becomes a necessity and an obligation for every parent that wants the best for their wards to become deep and strong spiritually because no one gives out what is unavailable.

 

In conclusion,it is the generosity of spirituality possessed by a parent that will make a child from such a parent to be spiritual and sound in becoming a blessing to the present generation and the generation unborn.

 

Give your child a strong spiritual footing and foundations.

 

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#Parenting#

 

#Spirituality#

 

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MLST ARTICLE:CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7—JUNE 1ST MUSING—(10 Minutes Read)

It was a cool Friday Morning of 1st of June 2018 that everybody around woke up to the reality of another beginning that marked the commencement of a new month after the expiration of the fifth month that span for a period of good thirty-one days.

 

Without any doubt,everyone petition to God at this moment was all about gratitude and appreciation to the maker of heaven and earth who made it possible for many people who are fortunate to be alive or to have woken up to the bright side of life.

 

As it was in other families,so it was also in my family.We woke up early to get prepared to face our daily obligation of being at our different places of work on time with our little daughter being prepared for her to be in the school before 8:00 AM in the morning.

 

 

 

my daughter 6
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

As usual,as it was a culture and an important  daily spiritual obligation for the whole family to gather together  offering prayer before embarking on anything in the morning,since,the morning of June 1st was special being the first day in the month of June 2018,the entire family  apportion and spent more time to pray  seeking the face of God for another journey that has just started and which will last for a period of 30 days.

 

While I and my beloved were busy for some few minutes observing our prayer session, our little daughter was busy sleeping and enjoying the coolness of the natural early morning breeze without any disturbance which will lapse as soon as our early morning prayer session end.

 

After,the early morning prayers have been offered and terminated,she entered the kitchen to start preparing breakfast for our daughter while I was in my bathroom cleaning up in order to meet up with my personal and official obligation for the day.

 

Few minutes after,I dashed out of the bathroom, refreshed and cleaned up, and I moved ahead to put my cloth on in preparation for my official duty which starts 7:00 AM in the morning.

 

At around  few minutes after 6:00 AM, I arranged my bag and made sure that nothing is left behind untouched and unattended to in the course of my preparation.

 

my daughter 5
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

At this point,while I was getting ready to dash out of the house,she has woken up and her mum has helped in attending to her to a large extent with water being boiled in the Kitchen in order to make her tea.

 

As I was exiting the house,all I heard behind me was my wife telling me this:

 

It goes thus:

 

“Daddy!Daddy!!Daddy!!!

 

We haven’t prayed.She submitted.

 

Immediately I turned back and walked back to meet her telling her that we have prayed but she was busy sleeping then.Not that I didn’t understand what she was asking for and not that she didn’t know what she was talking about.

 

She knew that apart from the prayer I had with her mum before,she knew that I always have special prayer time with her before I leave the house.So,she made request for her prayer session too that is specially for her alone.

 

This started in the month of January while we were in a period of fasting and prayer for 21 days that was observed by the denomination  I attended.In the course of the fasting and prayer period,I was instructed during that period that I should always have a prayer session with her every morning on a daily basis which I was able to carry out to a large extent.

my daughter 5
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

Then I turned back,hold her head and invoke powerful prayer points into her life early in the morning before I bid her and her mum goodbye while they continued getting set to leave the house for the office and for her school.

 

Since then, she has mastered it and several times she has been the one demanding for it whenever I am about leaving the house in the morning.

 

As young and minor she is,it has mastered her and she has gotten an understanding and an affinity for what is  good,meaningful and profitable at a tender age.

 

It started like a joke in the month of January but it is gradually becoming a lifestyle and a culture to her which she always remember to demand for early in the morning whenever I am about to leave for work.

 

WHAT IS THE ROLE OF PARENTING?

 

 

Parenting as it is is the bedrock and a viable determinant of realities in any society.It determines the fate of inhabitants of every society.A good society is a society that is being influenced by good parenting and any bad society is a society that is being influenced by bad or improper mode of parenting.

 

It was due to the fact that the older generation has lost premium for what is good and reliable that made our world to be in total disarray  at this moment which has made lack of good parenting that will build our wards in getting prepared to ensure that the world we live in to become better to be the bane of developing an egalitarian society.

 

It is quite wrong and unacceptable seeing juveniles and teenagers constituting public disturbance and nuisance in every nooks and crannies of our society.

 

Anytime I am in contact with teenagers hawking on the highways and some begging for alms,I always feel bad to the point of asking myself about what their parents are doing to salvage the future of their kids from being affected and influenced negatively.

 

To an extent,the issue of teenagers being forced to labor at a minor or tender age has to do with parents who lack basic understanding and knowledge of what is necessary in life.

 

It is wrong given birth to many children all in the name of what is en vogue at the moment that having more than one children makes someone to be acceptable by the standards of the society.Every parent must be able to analyse and know about the strength inherent in them to provide and take care of the numbers of children that have the ability and muscular capacity for in terms of financial provision.

 

A situation whereby a parent has many children but they are unable to meet up with the demand of their provision and needs is quite appalling,selfish and unacceptable making it a source of concern and burden to the entire society.

 

How can a teenager or a juvenile being on the street begging alms around 08:00 PM in the evening?What are the parents of such a child doing to monitor and improve the well-being and welfare of their children?

 

It is inappropriate to subject any child to the rigor of the present realities and it is out of place given them the orientation that their future is blur and bleak.

 

Every parent that desire to be responsive and responsible should be aware of the principle of cutting their cloth according to their sizes in ensuring that the numbers of children they will give birth to can be accommodated by what is in their purse and pocket.

 

It is wrong giving birth to children that will lack basic needs of life just because their parents cannot control their urge and orgy for sex that made them to give birth to children expected to be a blessing but due to lack of understanding and wisdom,many become a subject of pity to themselves and a source of concern to the entire society.

 

It is not wrong to have many children once there are provisions for their up-keeps but it becomes unreasonable whereby when the game of love making that leads to pregnancy is on course,no one was invited but when the products of the goals scored in the course of the game arrives,the set of people that played and scored the goals will end up expecting people that did not participate in the game will bear the brunch of the products of the game played.

 

Parenting is an all-encompassing field of responsibility that needs attention,concentration and affection accompany with the ability and strength to nurture and groom our children in the right path.For anyone to show the right path in the course of parenting demands that such a person must be in light and be enlightened enough to know the right path.No one can give out what there is no provision for.Provision precedes giving and it is through provision that the ability to give is provided for.

 

 

 

my daughter 2
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

Any desire for good parenting must be garnished with the desire to know what it takes to be a good parent because good parenting is the only means by which good children can be raised.

 

One of the basic necessity for good children to be groomed through good parenting is through the presence of good spiritual structure that will make our children to walk in the path of light and not on the path of destruction.This becomes easy and possible when we are able to initiate the entirety of their existence to the reality and practicality of good spiritual understanding and growth from the early stage of their existence.

 

This simply boost and enhances their full potential to be developed independently.A child that lacks good and sound spiritual understanding and knowledge will end up becoming a nuisance to the society and the society will end up being destroyed by the terror of such child carried out on the platform of vices and crimes.

 

This becomes essential for every parent to understand the viable role of spirituality in the development of any child at a particular moments in time.

 

 

 

my daughter 3
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

A child that is denied a strong spiritual footings might find it difficult to handle series of challenges that will burst out in the course of sojourning on earth which are known to be unexpected in approaches,contents and contexts.

 

A strong and deep spiritual grip makes a child to stand strong in the journey of life.

 

With this, it becomes a necessity and an obligation for every parent that wants the best for their wards to become deep and strong spiritually because no one gives out what is unavailable.

 

In conclusion,it is the generosity of spirituality possessed by a parent that will make a child from such a parent to be spiritual and sound in becoming a blessing to the present generation and the generation unborn.

 

Give your child a strong spiritual footing and foundations.

 

TAG:

 

#Parenting#

 

#Spirituality#

 

Ref:

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MLST ARTICLE:CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7—JUNE 1ST MUSING—(10 Minutes Read)

It was a cool Friday Morning of 1st of June 2018 that everybody around woke up to the reality of another beginning that marked the commencement of a new month after the expiration of the fifth month that span for a period of good thirty-one days.

 

Without any doubt,everyone petition to God at this moment was all about gratitude and appreciation to the maker of heaven and earth who made it possible for many people who are fortunate to be alive or to have woken up to the bright side of life.

 

As it was in other families,so it was also in my family.We woke up early to get prepared to face our daily obligation of being at our different places of work on time with our little daughter being prepared for her to be in the school before 8:00 AM in the morning.

 

 

 

my daughter 6
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

As usual,as it was a culture and an important  daily spiritual obligation for the whole family to gather together  offering prayer before embarking on anything in the morning,since,the morning of June 1st was special being the first day in the month of June 2018,the entire family  apportion and spent more time to pray  seeking the face of God for another journey that has just started and which will last for a period of 30 days.

 

While I and my beloved were busy for some few minutes observing our prayer session, our little daughter was busy sleeping and enjoying the coolness of the natural early morning breeze without any disturbance which will lapse as soon as our early morning prayer session end.

 

After,the early morning prayers have been offered and terminated,she entered the kitchen to start preparing breakfast for our daughter while I was in my bathroom cleaning up in order to meet up with my personal and official obligation for the day.

 

Few minutes after,I dashed out of the bathroom, refreshed and cleaned up, and I moved ahead to put my cloth on in preparation for my official duty which starts 7:00 AM in the morning.

 

At around  few minutes after 6:00 AM, I arranged my bag and made sure that nothing is left behind untouched and unattended to in the course of my preparation.

 

my daughter 5
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

At this point,while I was getting ready to dash out of the house,she has woken up and her mum has helped in attending to her to a large extent with water being boiled in the Kitchen in order to make her tea.

 

As I was exiting the house,all I heard behind me was my wife telling me this:

 

It goes thus:

 

“Daddy!Daddy!!Daddy!!!

 

We haven’t prayed.She submitted.

 

Immediately I turned back and walked back to meet her telling her that we have prayed but she was busy sleeping then.Not that I didn’t understand what she was asking for and not that she didn’t know what she was talking about.

 

She knew that apart from the prayer I had with her mum before,she knew that I always have special prayer time with her before I leave the house.So,she made request for her prayer session too that is specially for her alone.

 

This started in the month of January while we were in a period of fasting and prayer for 21 days that was observed by the denomination  I attended.In the course of the fasting and prayer period,I was instructed during that period that I should always have a prayer session with her every morning on a daily basis which I was able to carry out to a large extent.

my daughter 5
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

Then I turned back,hold her head and invoke powerful prayer points into her life early in the morning before I bid her and her mum goodbye while they continued getting set to leave the house for the office and for her school.

 

Since then, she has mastered it and several times she has been the one demanding for it whenever I am about leaving the house in the morning.

 

As young and minor she is,it has mastered her and she has gotten an understanding and an affinity for what is  good,meaningful and profitable at a tender age.

 

It started like a joke in the month of January but it is gradually becoming a lifestyle and a culture to her which she always remember to demand for early in the morning whenever I am about to leave for work.

 

WHAT IS THE ROLE OF PARENTING?

 

 

Parenting as it is is the bedrock and a viable determinant of realities in any society.It determines the fate of inhabitants of every society.A good society is a society that is being influenced by good parenting and any bad society is a society that is being influenced by bad or improper mode of parenting.

 

It was due to the fact that the older generation has lost premium for what is good and reliable that made our world to be in total disarray  at this moment which has made lack of good parenting that will build our wards in getting prepared to ensure that the world we live in to become better to be the bane of developing an egalitarian society.

 

It is quite wrong and unacceptable seeing juveniles and teenagers constituting public disturbance and nuisance in every nooks and crannies of our society.

 

Anytime I am in contact with teenagers hawking on the highways and some begging for alms,I always feel bad to the point of asking myself about what their parents are doing to salvage the future of their kids from being affected and influenced negatively.

 

To an extent,the issue of teenagers being forced to labor at a minor or tender age has to do with parents who lack basic understanding and knowledge of what is necessary in life.

 

It is wrong given birth to many children all in the name of what is en vogue at the moment that having more than one children makes someone to be acceptable by the standards of the society.Every parent must be able to analyse and know about the strength inherent in them to provide and take care of the numbers of children that have the ability and muscular capacity for in terms of financial provision.

 

A situation whereby a parent has many children but they are unable to meet up with the demand of their provision and needs is quite appalling,selfish and unacceptable making it a source of concern and burden to the entire society.

 

How can a teenager or a juvenile being on the street begging alms around 08:00 PM in the evening?What are the parents of such a child doing to monitor and improve the well-being and welfare of their children?

 

It is inappropriate to subject any child to the rigor of the present realities and it is out of place given them the orientation that their future is blur and bleak.

 

Every parent that desire to be responsive and responsible should be aware of the principle of cutting their cloth according to their sizes in ensuring that the numbers of children they will give birth to can be accommodated by what is in their purse and pocket.

 

It is wrong giving birth to children that will lack basic needs of life just because their parents cannot control their urge and orgy for sex that made them to give birth to children expected to be a blessing but due to lack of understanding and wisdom,many become a subject of pity to themselves and a source of concern to the entire society.

 

It is not wrong to have many children once there are provisions for their up-keeps but it becomes unreasonable whereby when the game of love making that leads to pregnancy is on course,no one was invited but when the products of the goals scored in the course of the game arrives,the set of people that played and scored the goals will end up expecting people that did not participate in the game will bear the brunch of the products of the game played.

 

Parenting is an all-encompassing field of responsibility that needs attention,concentration and affection accompany with the ability and strength to nurture and groom our children in the right path.For anyone to show the right path in the course of parenting demands that such a person must be in light and be enlightened enough to know the right path.No one can give out what there is no provision for.Provision precedes giving and it is through provision that the ability to give is provided for.

 

 

 

my daughter 2
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

Any desire for good parenting must be garnished with the desire to know what it takes to be a good parent because good parenting is the only means by which good children can be raised.

 

One of the basic necessity for good children to be groomed through good parenting is through the presence of good spiritual structure that will make our children to walk in the path of light and not on the path of destruction.This becomes easy and possible when we are able to initiate the entirety of their existence to the reality and practicality of good spiritual understanding and growth from the early stage of their existence.

 

This simply boost and enhances their full potential to be developed independently.A child that lacks good and sound spiritual understanding and knowledge will end up becoming a nuisance to the society and the society will end up being destroyed by the terror of such child carried out on the platform of vices and crimes.

 

This becomes essential for every parent to understand the viable role of spirituality in the development of any child at a particular moments in time.

 

 

 

my daughter 3
CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 7

 

A child that is denied a strong spiritual footings might find it difficult to handle series of challenges that will burst out in the course of sojourning on earth which are known to be unexpected in approaches,contents and contexts.

 

A strong and deep spiritual grip makes a child to stand strong in the journey of life.

 

With this, it becomes a necessity and an obligation for every parent that wants the best for their wards to become deep and strong spiritually because no one gives out what is unavailable.

 

In conclusion,it is the generosity of spirituality possessed by a parent that will make a child from such a parent to be spiritual and sound in becoming a blessing to the present generation and the generation unborn.

 

Give your child a strong spiritual footing and foundations.

 

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5 BASIC EFFECTS OF GOOD PARENTING ON SOCIETAL DEVELOPMENT.—(8 MINUTES READ).

The recent happennings overwhelming the entire human race made someone to have a critical perspective and look about what could have been the reason and rationale  behind  a teenager going to the extreme in taking up to arms and ammunitions that ended up being used in commiting crimes and vices.

 

The rate at which youth of this generation are having their hands and palms being soiled and stained with blood is quite alarming,appalling and disheartning.

 

Good Parenting 3

 

 

A situation whereby seventeen innocent lifes were lost to the cold hand of death recently which was orchestrated by a 19-year-old boy is an issue that is quite unacceptable and unexpected and it will remain a burden in the mind of anyone who has a right conscience that is still sensitive and proactively functioning.

 

The alarming rate at which social vices is eating up the fabrics of the entire human society is something that no one should shy away from.It has become a kind of reality that is quite difficult to dodge because of the depth of its effect on the entire human society.

 

In a bid to have an indepth knowledge about what could have been the missing link, it is imperative and important for someone to look extensively into an aspect of human existence that could have been a major contributory factor  responsible in making a murder and a criminal out of a 19-year -old teenager.

 

Besides the recent mass-shooting that occured in Parkland Schools in Florida in the United States of America,many evil and criminalities has been chronicled to be perpetrated by the millenia and it is on increase without any control.

 

The contributory factor that is making a major impact in fanning the amber of criminality and vices could be traced to the inability of the society to understand the concept of parenting and the lack of adequate knowledge about the essentials of parenting.

 

This has constituted a clog in the desire of humanity in achieving an all encompassing human capital development that is buoyant and flexible enough to entrench and establish a form of societal development that will cut across every facets of human endeavour.

 

If the concept of good parenting is maximized properly, it would have been a good avenue and a good channel whereby humanity would have evolved into a kind a maturity that will be viable enough to proffer full development of human mind to the extent that everyone living will be able to understand that hatred and every trace of it is not in any way necessary for anyone to achieve any form of desire.

 

As the family is known as the microcosym of the society; and  as it is also known as the greatest masterpiece God gave to humanity for continuity accompanied with the establishment and entrenchment of virtues and trainings that will trigger the emergence of a complete and total human being,it is of essence to note that  the desire for  a good family remain impossible without the desire for good parenting which if maximized appropriately will be viable enough to build a good society that will contribute to the development of a complete human being having good deeds as a trademark.

 

The absence of good parenting and the total relegation of parenting that is good in all concept and context is the main reason whereby the entire human society has been thrown into a kind of topsy-turvy exhibited in terms of confusion that is being experienced at this moment with many people being caught unaware in the midst of this confusion.

 

WHAT ARE THE BASIC EFFECTS OF GOOD PARENTING TO THE ENTIRE HUMAN SOCIETY.

 

1.Good Parenting is a necessity for a peaceful society that will end up being a raw material in building an eggalitarian society.

 

2.Good Parenting contributes immensely in human development that will be a good source of addition in making every human a useful tool that will help in societal development.

 

3.Good Parenting remains one of the basic and vital antidote in developing human beings that will have a mind free of criminalities and vices.

 

4.Good Parenting contributes immensely in building a responsive and a responsible generation of young minds that believes in evolution rather than revolution.

 

5.Good Parenting offers help in building a society through the contributions of young minds that will believe in innovation and intuitions that will be necessary in total development of human society.

 

Good Parening

 

In conclusion,if the scope of good parenting becomes the aspiration of all and sundry in the society, it will become very easy for the human society to evolve to the point whereby vices and criminalities will n be  less attractive and meaningful to the millenia and the thought of fanning the amber of hatred that will culminate into murder will be fizzle out gradually in the process of time.

 

Every human that will make a head way in being a complete and resourceful in the course of existential on earthly pedestal needs a good guildance and  and a complete counselling from the progenitors so that  posterity will be added to .

 

 

Good Parenting—The only way out to the alarming crimes and vices being committed and perpertrated by the millenia.

 

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5 BASIC EFFECTS OF GOOD PARENTING ON SOCIETAL DEVELOPMENT.—(8 MINUTES READ).

The recent happennings overwhelming the entire human race made someone to have a critical perspective and look about what could have been the reason and rationale  behind  a teenager going to the extreme in taking up to arms and ammunitions that ended up being used in commiting crimes and vices.

 

The rate at which youth of this generation are having their hands and palms being soiled and stained with blood is quite alarming,appalling and disheartning.

 

Good Parenting 3

 

 

A situation whereby seventeen innocent lifes were lost to the cold hand of death recently which was orchestrated by a 19-year-old boy is an issue that is quite unacceptable and unexpected and it will remain a burden in the mind of anyone who has a right conscience that is still sensitive and proactively functioning.

 

The alarming rate at which social vices is eating up the fabrics of the entire human society is something that no one should shy away from.It has become a kind of reality that is quite difficult to dodge because of the depth of its effect on the entire human society.

 

In a bid to have an indepth knowledge about what could have been the missing link, it is imperative and important for someone to look extensively into an aspect of human existence that could have been a major contributory factor  responsible in making a murder and a criminal out of a 19-year -old teenager.

 

Besides the recent mass-shooting that occured in Parkland Schools in Florida in the United States of America,many evil and criminalities has been chronicled to be perpetrated by the millenia and it is on increase without any control.

 

The contributory factor that is making a major impact in fanning the amber of criminality and vices could be traced to the inability of the society to understand the concept of parenting and the lack of adequate knowledge about the essentials of parenting.

 

This has constituted a clog in the desire of humanity in achieving an all encompassing human capital development that is buoyant and flexible enough to entrench and establish a form of societal development that will cut across every facets of human endeavour.

 

If the concept of good parenting is maximized properly, it would have been a good avenue and a good channel whereby humanity would have evolved into a kind a maturity that will be viable enough to proffer full development of human mind to the extent that everyone living will be able to understand that hatred and every trace of it is not in any way necessary for anyone to achieve any form of desire.

 

As the family is known as the microcosym of the society; and  as it is also known as the greatest masterpiece God gave to humanity for continuity accompanied with the establishment and entrenchment of virtues and trainings that will trigger the emergence of a complete and total human being,it is of essence to note that  the desire for  a good family remain impossible without the desire for good parenting which if maximized appropriately will be viable enough to build a good society that will contribute to the development of a complete human being having good deeds as a trademark.

 

The absence of good parenting and the total relegation of parenting that is good in all concept and context is the main reason whereby the entire human society has been thrown into a kind of topsy-turvy exhibited in terms of confusion that is being experienced at this moment with many people being caught unaware in the midst of this confusion.

 

WHAT ARE THE BASIC EFFECTS OF GOOD PARENTING TO THE ENTIRE HUMAN SOCIETY.

 

1.Good Parenting is a necessity for a peaceful society that will end up being a raw material in building an eggalitarian society.

 

2.Good Parenting contributes immensely in human development that will be a good source of addition in making every human a useful tool that will help in societal development.

 

3.Good Parenting remains one of the basic and vital antidote in developing human beings that will have a mind free of criminalities and vices.

 

4.Good Parenting contributes immensely in building a responsive and a responsible generation of young minds that believes in evolution rather than revolution.

 

5.Good Parenting offers help in building a society through the contributions of young minds that will believe in innovation and intuitions that will be necessary in total development of human society.

 

Good Parening

 

In conclusion,if the scope of good parenting becomes the aspiration of all and sundry in the society, it will become very easy for the human society to evolve to the point whereby vices and criminalities will n be  less attractive and meaningful to the millenia and the thought of fanning the amber of hatred that will culminate into murder will be fizzle out gradually in the process of time.

 

Every human that will make a head way in being a complete and resourceful in the course of existential on earthly pedestal needs a good guildance and  and a complete counselling from the progenitors so that  posterity will be added to .

 

 

Good Parenting—The only way out to the alarming crimes and vices being committed and perpertrated by the millenia.

 

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5 BASIC EFFECTS OF GOOD PARENTING ON SOCIETAL DEVELOPMENT.—(8 MINUTES READ).

The recent happennings overwhelming the entire human race made someone to have a critical perspective and look about what could have been the reason and rationale  behind  a teenager going to the extreme in taking up to arms and ammunitions that ended up being used in commiting crimes and vices.

 

The rate at which youth of this generation are having their hands and palms being soiled and stained with blood is quite alarming,appalling and disheartning.

 

Good Parenting 3

 

 

A situation whereby seventeen innocent lifes were lost to the cold hand of death recently which was orchestrated by a 19-year-old boy is an issue that is quite unacceptable and unexpected and it will remain a burden in the mind of anyone who has a right conscience that is still sensitive and proactively functioning.

 

The alarming rate at which social vices is eating up the fabrics of the entire human society is something that no one should shy away from.It has become a kind of reality that is quite difficult to dodge because of the depth of its effect on the entire human society.

 

In a bid to have an indepth knowledge about what could have been the missing link, it is imperative and important for someone to look extensively into an aspect of human existence that could have been a major contributory factor  responsible in making a murder and a criminal out of a 19-year -old teenager.

 

Besides the recent mass-shooting that occured in Parkland Schools in Florida in the United States of America,many evil and criminalities has been chronicled to be perpetrated by the millenia and it is on increase without any control.

 

The contributory factor that is making a major impact in fanning the amber of criminality and vices could be traced to the inability of the society to understand the concept of parenting and the lack of adequate knowledge about the essentials of parenting.

 

This has constituted a clog in the desire of humanity in achieving an all encompassing human capital development that is buoyant and flexible enough to entrench and establish a form of societal development that will cut across every facets of human endeavour.

 

If the concept of good parenting is maximized properly, it would have been a good avenue and a good channel whereby humanity would have evolved into a kind a maturity that will be viable enough to proffer full development of human mind to the extent that everyone living will be able to understand that hatred and every trace of it is not in any way necessary for anyone to achieve any form of desire.

 

As the family is known as the microcosym of the society; and  as it is also known as the greatest masterpiece God gave to humanity for continuity accompanied with the establishment and entrenchment of virtues and trainings that will trigger the emergence of a complete and total human being,it is of essence to note that  the desire for  a good family remain impossible without the desire for good parenting which if maximized appropriately will be viable enough to build a good society that will contribute to the development of a complete human being having good deeds as a trademark.

 

The absence of good parenting and the total relegation of parenting that is good in all concept and context is the main reason whereby the entire human society has been thrown into a kind of topsy-turvy exhibited in terms of confusion that is being experienced at this moment with many people being caught unaware in the midst of this confusion.

 

WHAT ARE THE BASIC EFFECTS OF GOOD PARENTING TO THE ENTIRE HUMAN SOCIETY.

 

1.Good Parenting is a necessity for a peaceful society that will end up being a raw material in building an eggalitarian society.

 

2.Good Parenting contributes immensely in human development that will be a good source of addition in making every human a useful tool that will help in societal development.

 

3.Good Parenting remains one of the basic and vital antidote in developing human beings that will have a mind free of criminalities and vices.

 

4.Good Parenting contributes immensely in building a responsive and a responsible generation of young minds that believes in evolution rather than revolution.

 

5.Good Parenting offers help in building a society through the contributions of young minds that will believe in innovation and intuitions that will be necessary in total development of human society.

 

Good Parening

 

In conclusion,if the scope of good parenting becomes the aspiration of all and sundry in the society, it will become very easy for the human society to evolve to the point whereby vices and criminalities will n be  less attractive and meaningful to the millenia and the thought of fanning the amber of hatred that will culminate into murder will be fizzle out gradually in the process of time.

 

Every human that will make a head way in being a complete and resourceful in the course of existential on earthly pedestal needs a good guildance and  and a complete counselling from the progenitors so that  posterity will be added to .

 

 

Good Parenting—The only way out to the alarming crimes and vices being committed and perpertrated by the millenia.

 

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5 BASIC EFFECTS OF GOOD PARENTING ON SOCIETAL DEVELOPMENT.—(8 MINUTES READ).

The recent happennings overwhelming the entire human race made someone to have a critical perspective and look about what could have been the reason and rationale  behind  a teenager going to the extreme in taking up to arms and ammunitions that ended up being used in commiting crimes and vices.

 

The rate at which youth of this generation are having their hands and palms being soiled and stained with blood is quite alarming,appalling and disheartning.

 

Good Parenting 3

 

 

A situation whereby seventeen innocent lifes were lost to the cold hand of death recently which was orchestrated by a 19-year-old boy is an issue that is quite unacceptable and unexpected and it will remain a burden in the mind of anyone who has a right conscience that is still sensitive and proactively functioning.

 

The alarming rate at which social vices is eating up the fabrics of the entire human society is something that no one should shy away from.It has become a kind of reality that is quite difficult to dodge because of the depth of its effect on the entire human society.

 

In a bid to have an indepth knowledge about what could have been the missing link, it is imperative and important for someone to look extensively into an aspect of human existence that could have been a major contributory factor  responsible in making a murder and a criminal out of a 19-year -old teenager.

 

Besides the recent mass-shooting that occured in Parkland Schools in Florida in the United States of America,many evil and criminalities has been chronicled to be perpetrated by the millenia and it is on increase without any control.

 

The contributory factor that is making a major impact in fanning the amber of criminality and vices could be traced to the inability of the society to understand the concept of parenting and the lack of adequate knowledge about the essentials of parenting.

 

This has constituted a clog in the desire of humanity in achieving an all encompassing human capital development that is buoyant and flexible enough to entrench and establish a form of societal development that will cut across every facets of human endeavour.

 

If the concept of good parenting is maximized properly, it would have been a good avenue and a good channel whereby humanity would have evolved into a kind a maturity that will be viable enough to proffer full development of human mind to the extent that everyone living will be able to understand that hatred and every trace of it is not in any way necessary for anyone to achieve any form of desire.

 

As the family is known as the microcosym of the society; and  as it is also known as the greatest masterpiece God gave to humanity for continuity accompanied with the establishment and entrenchment of virtues and trainings that will trigger the emergence of a complete and total human being,it is of essence to note that  the desire for  a good family remain impossible without the desire for good parenting which if maximized appropriately will be viable enough to build a good society that will contribute to the development of a complete human being having good deeds as a trademark.

 

The absence of good parenting and the total relegation of parenting that is good in all concept and context is the main reason whereby the entire human society has been thrown into a kind of topsy-turvy exhibited in terms of confusion that is being experienced at this moment with many people being caught unaware in the midst of this confusion.

 

WHAT ARE THE BASIC EFFECTS OF GOOD PARENTING TO THE ENTIRE HUMAN SOCIETY.

 

1.Good Parenting is a necessity for a peaceful society that will end up being a raw material in building an eggalitarian society.

 

2.Good Parenting contributes immensely in human development that will be a good source of addition in making every human a useful tool that will help in societal development.

 

3.Good Parenting remains one of the basic and vital antidote in developing human beings that will have a mind free of criminalities and vices.

 

4.Good Parenting contributes immensely in building a responsive and a responsible generation of young minds that believes in evolution rather than revolution.

 

5.Good Parenting offers help in building a society through the contributions of young minds that will believe in innovation and intuitions that will be necessary in total development of human society.

 

Good Parening

 

In conclusion,if the scope of good parenting becomes the aspiration of all and sundry in the society, it will become very easy for the human society to evolve to the point whereby vices and criminalities will n be  less attractive and meaningful to the millenia and the thought of fanning the amber of hatred that will culminate into murder will be fizzle out gradually in the process of time.

 

Every human that will make a head way in being a complete and resourceful in the course of existential on earthly pedestal needs a good guildance and  and a complete counselling from the progenitors so that  posterity will be added to .

 

 

Good Parenting—The only way out to the alarming crimes and vices being committed and perpertrated by the millenia.

 

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5 BASIC EFFECTS OF GOOD PARENTING ON SOCIETAL DEVELOPMENT.—(8 MINUTES READ).

The recent happennings overwhelming the entire human race made someone to have a critical perspective and look about what could have been the reason and rationale  behind  a teenager going to the extreme in taking up to arms and ammunitions that ended up being used in commiting crimes and vices.

 

The rate at which youth of this generation are having their hands and palms being soiled and stained with blood is quite alarming,appalling and disheartning.

 

Good Parenting 3

 

 

A situation whereby seventeen innocent lifes were lost to the cold hand of death recently which was orchestrated by a 19-year-old boy is an issue that is quite unacceptable and unexpected and it will remain a burden in the mind of anyone who has a right conscience that is still sensitive and proactively functioning.

 

The alarming rate at which social vices is eating up the fabrics of the entire human society is something that no one should shy away from.It has become a kind of reality that is quite difficult to dodge because of the depth of its effect on the entire human society.

 

In a bid to have an indepth knowledge about what could have been the missing link, it is imperative and important for someone to look extensively into an aspect of human existence that could have been a major contributory factor  responsible in making a murder and a criminal out of a 19-year -old teenager.

 

Besides the recent mass-shooting that occured in Parkland Schools in Florida in the United States of America,many evil and criminalities has been chronicled to be perpetrated by the millenia and it is on increase without any control.

 

The contributory factor that is making a major impact in fanning the amber of criminality and vices could be traced to the inability of the society to understand the concept of parenting and the lack of adequate knowledge about the essentials of parenting.

 

This has constituted a clog in the desire of humanity in achieving an all encompassing human capital development that is buoyant and flexible enough to entrench and establish a form of societal development that will cut across every facets of human endeavour.

 

If the concept of good parenting is maximized properly, it would have been a good avenue and a good channel whereby humanity would have evolved into a kind a maturity that will be viable enough to proffer full development of human mind to the extent that everyone living will be able to understand that hatred and every trace of it is not in any way necessary for anyone to achieve any form of desire.

 

As the family is known as the microcosym of the society; and  as it is also known as the greatest masterpiece God gave to humanity for continuity accompanied with the establishment and entrenchment of virtues and trainings that will trigger the emergence of a complete and total human being,it is of essence to note that  the desire for  a good family remain impossible without the desire for good parenting which if maximized appropriately will be viable enough to build a good society that will contribute to the development of a complete human being having good deeds as a trademark.

 

The absence of good parenting and the total relegation of parenting that is good in all concept and context is the main reason whereby the entire human society has been thrown into a kind of topsy-turvy exhibited in terms of confusion that is being experienced at this moment with many people being caught unaware in the midst of this confusion.

 

WHAT ARE THE BASIC EFFECTS OF GOOD PARENTING TO THE ENTIRE HUMAN SOCIETY.

 

1.Good Parenting is a necessity for a peaceful society that will end up being a raw material in building an eggalitarian society.

 

2.Good Parenting contributes immensely in human development that will be a good source of addition in making every human a useful tool that will help in societal development.

 

3.Good Parenting remains one of the basic and vital antidote in developing human beings that will have a mind free of criminalities and vices.

 

4.Good Parenting contributes immensely in building a responsive and a responsible generation of young minds that believes in evolution rather than revolution.

 

5.Good Parenting offers help in building a society through the contributions of young minds that will believe in innovation and intuitions that will be necessary in total development of human society.

 

Good Parening

 

In conclusion,if the scope of good parenting becomes the aspiration of all and sundry in the society, it will become very easy for the human society to evolve to the point whereby vices and criminalities will n be  less attractive and meaningful to the millenia and the thought of fanning the amber of hatred that will culminate into murder will be fizzle out gradually in the process of time.

 

Every human that will make a head way in being a complete and resourceful in the course of existential on earthly pedestal needs a good guildance and  and a complete counselling from the progenitors so that  posterity will be added to .

 

 

Good Parenting—The only way out to the alarming crimes and vices being committed and perpertrated by the millenia.

 

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TECHNOLOGY IS DESTROYING A CHILDREN’S IMAGINATION.—(3 Minutes Read).

In a recent report published on http://www.femalefirst.co.uk on the 23rd of November 2017.

 

According to a new survey, technology is reportedly killing a children’s imagination following the rapid decrease of imaginary friends.

 

tECHNOLOGY 1

 

A new survey conducted by Snarzaroo has learnt just 17percent of children have imaginary friends,which is a rapid decline from the 2001 record that found almost half of British kids had made up invisible playmate.

 

And the study believes devices,such as iPads and other electronic goods are the culprit and are damaging a child’s creativity.

 

tECHNOLOGY 2

 

Speaking about research, Dr Amanda Gunner-who is the founder and CEO of Fundamentally children- said:

 

“Imaginative play is hugely beneficial for childre-being able to transport themselves into -make believe worlds with imaginary characters can help them make sense of their world or provide an escape from it(something that supports good mental health in later life).

 

“Suspending reality give children the opportunity to think outside of the box and be as creative as they like,with none of the restrictions that are placed on real life activity”.

 

And Gummer has urged parents to encourage “imaginative play” or artistic outlets.

 

She continued:

 

“Parents can help children engage in imaginative play by providing them with a balanced play diet and managing the amount of time children spend as passive receivers of digital contents”.

“Tools such as face paints, building blocks,dressing up clothes and play dough can help to stimulate this”.

 

“Free, child-led play is the super-food of the play diet and can balance the less imaginative play activities that are sometimes found in high toys and screen play”.

 

Culled from www.femalefirst.co.uk

 

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5 BASIC EFFECTS OF GOOD PARENTING ON SOCIETAL DEVELOPMENT.—(8 MINUTES READ).

The recent happennings overwhelming the entire human race made someone to have a critical perspective and look about what could have been the reason and rationale  behind  a teenager going to the extreme in taking up to arms and ammunitions that ended up being used in commiting crimes and vices.

 

The rate at which youth of this generation are having their hands and palms being soiled and stained with blood is quite alarming,appalling and disheartning.

 

Good Parenting 3

 

 

A situation whereby seventeen innocent lifes were lost to the cold hand of death recently which was orchestrated by a 19-year-old boy is an issue that is quite unacceptable and unexpected and it will remain a burden in the mind of anyone who has a right conscience that is still sensitive and proactively functioning.

 

The alarming rate at which social vices is eating up the fabrics of the entire human society is something that no one should shy away from.It has become a kind of reality that is quite difficult to dodge because of the depth of its effect on the entire human society.

 

In a bid to have an indepth knowledge about what could have been the missing link, it is imperative and important for someone to look extensively into an aspect of human existence that could have been a major contributory factor  responsible in making a murder and a criminal out of a 19-year -old teenager.

 

Besides the recent mass-shooting that occured in Parkland Schools in Florida in the United States of America,many evil and criminalities has been chronicled to be perpetrated by the millenia and it is on increase without any control.

 

The contributory factor that is making a major impact in fanning the amber of criminality and vices could be traced to the inability of the society to understand the concept of parenting and the lack of adequate knowledge about the essentials of parenting.

 

This has constituted a clog in the desire of humanity in achieving an all encompassing human capital development that is buoyant and flexible enough to entrench and establish a form of societal development that will cut across every facets of human endeavour.

 

If the concept of good parenting is maximized properly, it would have been a good avenue and a good channel whereby humanity would have evolved into a kind a maturity that will be viable enough to proffer full development of human mind to the extent that everyone living will be able to understand that hatred and every trace of it is not in any way necessary for anyone to achieve any form of desire.

 

As the family is known as the microcosym of the society; and  as it is also known as the greatest masterpiece God gave to humanity for continuity accompanied with the establishment and entrenchment of virtues and trainings that will trigger the emergence of a complete and total human being,it is of essence to note that  the desire for  a good family remain impossible without the desire for good parenting which if maximized appropriately will be viable enough to build a good society that will contribute to the development of a complete human being having good deeds as a trademark.

 

The absence of good parenting and the total relegation of parenting that is good in all concept and context is the main reason whereby the entire human society has been thrown into a kind of topsy-turvy exhibited in terms of confusion that is being experienced at this moment with many people being caught unaware in the midst of this confusion.

 

WHAT ARE THE BASIC EFFECTS OF GOOD PARENTING TO THE ENTIRE HUMAN SOCIETY.

 

1.Good Parenting is a necessity for a peaceful society that will end up being a raw material in building an eggalitarian society.

 

2.Good Parenting contributes immensely in human development that will be a good source of addition in making every human a useful tool that will help in societal development.

 

3.Good Parenting remains one of the basic and vital antidote in developing human beings that will have a mind free of criminalities and vices.

 

4.Good Parenting contributes immensely in building a responsive and a responsible generation of young minds that believes in evolution rather than revolution.

 

5.Good Parenting offers help in building a society through the contributions of young minds that will believe in innovation and intuitions that will be necessary in total development of human society.

 

Good Parening

 

In conclusion,if the scope of good parenting becomes the aspiration of all and sundry in the society, it will become very easy for the human society to evolve to the point whereby vices and criminalities will n be  less attractive and meaningful to the millenia and the thought of fanning the amber of hatred that will culminate into murder will be fizzle out gradually in the process of time.

 

Every human that will make a head way in being a complete and resourceful in the course of existential on earthly pedestal needs a good guildance and  and a complete counselling from the progenitors so that  posterity will be added to .

 

 

Good Parenting—The only way out to the alarming crimes and vices being committed and perpertrated by the millenia.

 

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CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 4.–(5 Minutes Read)

The past episodes of a series tagged:“CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER” had experienced huge acceptance and it has been appreciated from many of our avid readers, followers and viewers.This is just a simple idea that was conceived practically at a point and it is believed it will be and addition to families, relationships and parenting which seems to be an arduous task for some people.

 

Episode 1,2 and 3 have been published and now, here comes the Episode 4.

 

Welcome to the reality of Episode 4.

 

Recently,when ‘my beloved’-my wife was in a coversation with my daughter towards the close of the day.After we have observed prayer before going to bed,my beloved jsut called the attention of my daughter to something that when it started initially, I felt that it might be unimportant and it might be unnecessary for a little girl of her age.

 

Though,it was a mix feeling for me because I was in doubt if her understanding will be in alignment with such exercise, but later I was proofed wrong.

 

This is how her conversation with her mum goes:

 

After prayer had been offered and altered for the night,

 

“Faith”!….Her mum called her.

 

“Ma”……She responded.

“Let’s read the bible”…her mum replied.

 

“When I read,you will chorus it after me”…her mum continued.

 

“Ok”! Ma”….she answered.

katherineschmidt (2).jpg

 

While this conversation was going on, I was fagged out and I wasn’t totally in support but they had the exercise succesfully with my daughter’s response very encouraging.Her mum opened the book of Psalms on her phone and both were busy reading and responding till they got to the last verse of their chosen chapter in the book of Psalms.

 

It was surprising to me when at a point in time recently, even it has been up to two occasions when my daughter had been the one reminding her mum of the need to read the bible after prayers before going to bed, even up till now.

 

“Mummy”!

 

“Let’s read the bible…she demanded.

 

And her mum will be reading and she always chorus it along with her.

 

It was quite surprisng to me that such a simple trial that was carried out and experimented by her mum has become something that she is in love with without anybody forcing her or coaxing her on the need to .

 

No wonder the bible admonished us to be like the little children because the kingdom of God belong to them.

 

With this practical experience, I learnt a lesson of my life that parenting is all about the kind of exposure our ward are given out to and the best period of their life when they can yield to our instructions and ways easily is at the developmental stage of their existence.

 

It is paramount, pertinent and essential for parents to catch them young and put them in the ways of the Lord before they are wrongly exposed and initiated to the evils in the society.

 

There is a need for every parnt to start sowing the seed of spirituality in their wards at a tender age so that there responses to it will be easy and smooth without any constraints and restrictions.

 

Whatever you fail to teach them as a parent will be doled out to them freely as a form of teaching and culture by the society and our society is filled with wrong teachings and negative anti-social instructions that will pave their ways to perdition and destruction.

 

Parenting is a responsibility that must take care of the physical and spiritual need of a child accompanied with the ability to balance the two without any becoming a source of confusion to our children.

 

The greatest gift God gave to humanity is our Children but it is our responsibility as parents to make them fulfill their purpose on earth through the nature of training and exposure given to them.

 

“Your weaknesses in training and moulding them will end up being transformed into strength in them that will make them become a burden and a souce of regret at the end to parents”.

 

If your children grow up treatin you bad, check yourdelf, you might have beeen weak in training them in seeing reasons why an elderly person must be referenced and respected.

 

They end up becoming whatever you made them to be through your weakness or through your strength.

 

In conclusion:

 

“Your weakness in training and moulding them–(children) when they are young will strengthen them in treating you bad when you are old”.

 

“The beauty of good parenting is deeply inherent in trainings and tutelage that are chanelled towards the development of a complete human being that will be an asset to the society in its entirety but not a burden.”

 

Let’s ensure in our little way and with the help of God train our children in the way of the Lord.

 

“This is how a beautiful and a glorious future for our children can be enhanced in the process of time”.

 

Tag:#Family#Parenting#Counselling#Hometraining.

 

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TECHNOLOGY IS DESTROYING A CHILDREN’S IMAGINATION.—(3 Minutes Read).

In a recent report published on http://www.femalefirst.co.uk on the 23rd of November 2017.

 

According to a new survey, technology is reportedly killing a children’s imagination following the rapid decrease of imaginary friends.

 

tECHNOLOGY 1

 

A new survey conducted by Snarzaroo has learnt just 17percent of children have imaginary friends,which is a rapid decline from the 2001 record that found almost half of British kids had made up invisible playmate.

 

And the study believes devices,such as iPads and other electronic goods are the culprit and are damaging a child’s creativity.

 

tECHNOLOGY 2

 

Speaking about research, Dr Amanda Gunner-who is the founder and CEO of Fundamentally children- said:

 

“Imaginative play is hugely beneficial for childre-being able to transport themselves into -make believe worlds with imaginary characters can help them make sense of their world or provide an escape from it(something that supports good mental health in later life).

 

“Suspending reality give children the opportunity to think outside of the box and be as creative as they like,with none of the restrictions that are placed on real life activity”.

 

And Gummer has urged parents to encourage “imaginative play” or artistic outlets.

 

She continued:

 

“Parents can help children engage in imaginative play by providing them with a balanced play diet and managing the amount of time children spend as passive receivers of digital contents”.

“Tools such as face paints, building blocks,dressing up clothes and play dough can help to stimulate this”.

 

“Free, child-led play is the super-food of the play diet and can balance the less imaginative play activities that are sometimes found in high toys and screen play”.

 

Culled from www.femalefirst.co.uk

 

Tag:#Family#Children#Parenting#Newsupdate.

 

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TECHNOLOGY IS DESTROYING A CHILDREN’S IMAGINATION.—(3 Minutes Read).

In a recent report published on http://www.femalefirst.co.uk on the 23rd of November 2017.

 

According to a new survey, technology is reportedly killing a children’s imagination following the rapid decrease of imaginary friends.

 

tECHNOLOGY 1

 

A new survey conducted by Snarzaroo has learnt just 17percent of children have imaginary friends,which is a rapid decline from the 2001 record that found almost half of British kids had made up invisible playmate.

 

And the study believes devices,such as iPads and other electronic goods are the culprit and are damaging a child’s creativity.

 

tECHNOLOGY 2

 

Speaking about research, Dr Amanda Gunner-who is the founder and CEO of Fundamentally children- said:

 

“Imaginative play is hugely beneficial for childre-being able to transport themselves into -make believe worlds with imaginary characters can help them make sense of their world or provide an escape from it(something that supports good mental health in later life).

 

“Suspending reality give children the opportunity to think outside of the box and be as creative as they like,with none of the restrictions that are placed on real life activity”.

 

And Gummer has urged parents to encourage “imaginative play” or artistic outlets.

 

She continued:

 

“Parents can help children engage in imaginative play by providing them with a balanced play diet and managing the amount of time children spend as passive receivers of digital contents”.

“Tools such as face paints, building blocks,dressing up clothes and play dough can help to stimulate this”.

 

“Free, child-led play is the super-food of the play diet and can balance the less imaginative play activities that are sometimes found in high toys and screen play”.

 

Culled from www.femalefirst.co.uk

 

Tag:#Family#Children#Parenting#Newsupdate.

 

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TECHNOLOGY IS DESTROYING A CHILDREN’S IMAGINATION.—(3 Minutes Read).

In a recent report published on http://www.femalefirst.co.uk on the 23rd of November 2017.

 

According to a new survey, technology is reportedly killing a children’s imagination following the rapid decrease of imaginary friends.

 

tECHNOLOGY 1

 

A new survey conducted by Snarzaroo has learnt just 17percent of children have imaginary friends,which is a rapid decline from the 2001 record that found almost half of British kids had made up invisible playmate.

 

And the study believes devices,such as iPads and other electronic goods are the culprit and are damaging a child’s creativity.

 

tECHNOLOGY 2

 

Speaking about research, Dr Amanda Gunner-who is the founder and CEO of Fundamentally children- said:

 

“Imaginative play is hugely beneficial for childre-being able to transport themselves into -make believe worlds with imaginary characters can help them make sense of their world or provide an escape from it(something that supports good mental health in later life).

 

“Suspending reality give children the opportunity to think outside of the box and be as creative as they like,with none of the restrictions that are placed on real life activity”.

 

And Gummer has urged parents to encourage “imaginative play” or artistic outlets.

 

She continued:

 

“Parents can help children engage in imaginative play by providing them with a balanced play diet and managing the amount of time children spend as passive receivers of digital contents”.

“Tools such as face paints, building blocks,dressing up clothes and play dough can help to stimulate this”.

 

“Free, child-led play is the super-food of the play diet and can balance the less imaginative play activities that are sometimes found in high toys and screen play”.

 

Culled from www.femalefirst.co.uk

 

Tag:#Family#Children#Parenting#Newsupdate.

 

Ref:www.fotor.com

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TECHNOLOGY IS DESTROYING A CHILDREN’S IMAGINATION.—(3 Minutes Read).

In a recent report published on http://www.femalefirst.co.uk on the 23rd of November 2017.

 

According to a new survey, technology is reportedly killing a children’s imagination following the rapid decrease of imaginary friends.

 

tECHNOLOGY 1

 

A new survey conducted by Snarzaroo has learnt just 17percent of children have imaginary friends,which is a rapid decline from the 2001 record that found almost half of British kids had made up invisible playmate.

 

And the study believes devices,such as iPads and other electronic goods are the culprit and are damaging a child’s creativity.

 

tECHNOLOGY 2

 

Speaking about research, Dr Amanda Gunner-who is the founder and CEO of Fundamentally children- said:

 

“Imaginative play is hugely beneficial for childre-being able to transport themselves into -make believe worlds with imaginary characters can help them make sense of their world or provide an escape from it(something that supports good mental health in later life).

 

“Suspending reality give children the opportunity to think outside of the box and be as creative as they like,with none of the restrictions that are placed on real life activity”.

 

And Gummer has urged parents to encourage “imaginative play” or artistic outlets.

 

She continued:

 

“Parents can help children engage in imaginative play by providing them with a balanced play diet and managing the amount of time children spend as passive receivers of digital contents”.

“Tools such as face paints, building blocks,dressing up clothes and play dough can help to stimulate this”.

 

“Free, child-led play is the super-food of the play diet and can balance the less imaginative play activities that are sometimes found in high toys and screen play”.

 

Culled from www.femalefirst.co.uk

 

Tag:#Family#Children#Parenting#Newsupdate.

 

Ref:www.fotor.com

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TECHNOLOGY IS DESTROYING A CHILDREN’S IMAGINATION.—(3 Minutes Read).

In a recent report published on http://www.femalefirst.co.uk on the 23rd of November 2017.

 

According to a new survey, technology is reportedly killing a children’s imagination following the rapid decrease of imaginary friends.

 

tECHNOLOGY 1

 

A new survey conducted by Snarzaroo has learnt just 17percent of children have imaginary friends,which is a rapid decline from the 2001 record that found almost half of British kids had made up invisible playmate.

 

And the study believes devices,such as iPads and other electronic goods are the culprit and are damaging a child’s creativity.

 

tECHNOLOGY 2

 

Speaking about research, Dr Amanda Gunner-who is the founder and CEO of Fundamentally children- said:

 

“Imaginative play is hugely beneficial for childre-being able to transport themselves into -make believe worlds with imaginary characters can help them make sense of their world or provide an escape from it(something that supports good mental health in later life).

 

“Suspending reality give children the opportunity to think outside of the box and be as creative as they like,with none of the restrictions that are placed on real life activity”.

 

And Gummer has urged parents to encourage “imaginative play” or artistic outlets.

 

She continued:

 

“Parents can help children engage in imaginative play by providing them with a balanced play diet and managing the amount of time children spend as passive receivers of digital contents”.

“Tools such as face paints, building blocks,dressing up clothes and play dough can help to stimulate this”.

 

“Free, child-led play is the super-food of the play diet and can balance the less imaginative play activities that are sometimes found in high toys and screen play”.

 

Culled from www.femalefirst.co.uk

 

Tag:#Family#Children#Parenting#Newsupdate.

 

Ref:www.fotor.com

http://search.image.yahoo.com

TECHNOLOGY IS DESTROYING A CHILDREN’S IMAGINATION.—(3 Minutes Read).

In a recent report published on http://www.femalefirst.co.uk on the 23rd of November 2017.

 

According to a new survey, technology is reportedly killing a children’s imagination following the rapid decrease of imaginary friends.

 

tECHNOLOGY 1

 

A new survey conducted by Snarzaroo has learnt just 17percent of children have imaginary friends,which is a rapid decline from the 2001 record that found almost half of British kids had made up invisible playmate.

 

And the study believes devices,such as iPads and other electronic goods are the culprit and are damaging a child’s creativity.

 

tECHNOLOGY 2

 

Speaking about research, Dr Amanda Gunner-who is the founder and CEO of Fundamentally children- said:

 

“Imaginative play is hugely beneficial for childre-being able to transport themselves into -make believe worlds with imaginary characters can help them make sense of their world or provide an escape from it(something that supports good mental health in later life).

 

“Suspending reality give children the opportunity to think outside of the box and be as creative as they like,with none of the restrictions that are placed on real life activity”.

 

And Gummer has urged parents to encourage “imaginative play” or artistic outlets.

 

She continued:

 

“Parents can help children engage in imaginative play by providing them with a balanced play diet and managing the amount of time children spend as passive receivers of digital contents”.

“Tools such as face paints, building blocks,dressing up clothes and play dough can help to stimulate this”.

 

“Free, child-led play is the super-food of the play diet and can balance the less imaginative play activities that are sometimes found in high toys and screen play”.

 

Culled from www.femalefirst.co.uk

 

Tag:#Family#Children#Parenting#Newsupdate.

 

Ref:www.fotor.com

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CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 4.–(5 Minutes Read)

The past episodes of a series tagged:“CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER” had experienced huge acceptance and it has been appreciated from many of our avid readers, followers and viewers.This is just a simple idea that was conceived practically at a point and it is believed it will be and addition to families, relationships and parenting which seems to be an arduous task for some people.

 

Episode 1,2 and 3 have been published and now, here comes the Episode 4.

 

Welcome to the reality of Episode 4.

 

Recently,when ‘my beloved’-my wife was in a coversation with my daughter towards the close of the day.After we have observed prayer before going to bed,my beloved jsut called the attention of my daughter to something that when it started initially, I felt that it might be unimportant and it might be unnecessary for a little girl of her age.

 

Though,it was a mix feeling for me because I was in doubt if her understanding will be in alignment with such exercise, but later I was proofed wrong.

 

This is how her conversation with her mum goes:

 

After prayer had been offered and altered for the night,

 

“Faith”!….Her mum called her.

 

“Ma”……She responded.

“Let’s read the bible”…her mum replied.

 

“When I read,you will chorus it after me”…her mum continued.

 

“Ok”! Ma”….she answered.

katherineschmidt (2).jpg

 

While this conversation was going on, I was fagged out and I wasn’t totally in support but they had the exercise succesfully with my daughter’s response very encouraging.Her mum opened the book of Psalms on her phone and both were busy reading and responding till they got to the last verse of their chosen chapter in the book of Psalms.

 

It was surprising to me when at a point in time recently, even it has been up to two occasions when my daughter had been the one reminding her mum of the need to read the bible after prayers before going to bed, even up till now.

 

“Mummy”!

 

“Let’s read the bible…she demanded.

 

And her mum will be reading and she always chorus it along with her.

 

It was quite surprisng to me that such a simple trial that was carried out and experimented by her mum has become something that she is in love with without anybody forcing her or coaxing her on the need to .

 

No wonder the bible admonished us to be like the little children because the kingdom of God belong to them.

 

With this practical experience, I learnt a lesson of my life that parenting is all about the kind of exposure our ward are given out to and the best period of their life when they can yield to our instructions and ways easily is at the developmental stage of their existence.

 

It is paramount, pertinent and essential for parents to catch them young and put them in the ways of the Lord before they are wrongly exposed and initiated to the evils in the society.

 

There is a need for every parnt to start sowing the seed of spirituality in their wards at a tender age so that there responses to it will be easy and smooth without any constraints and restrictions.

 

Whatever you fail to teach them as a parent will be doled out to them freely as a form of teaching and culture by the society and our society is filled with wrong teachings and negative anti-social instructions that will pave their ways to perdition and destruction.

 

Parenting is a responsibility that must take care of the physical and spiritual need of a child accompanied with the ability to balance the two without any becoming a source of confusion to our children.

 

The greatest gift God gave to humanity is our Children but it is our responsibility as parents to make them fulfill their purpose on earth through the nature of training and exposure given to them.

 

“Your weaknesses in training and moulding them will end up being transformed into strength in them that will make them become a burden and a souce of regret at the end to parents”.

 

If your children grow up treatin you bad, check yourdelf, you might have beeen weak in training them in seeing reasons why an elderly person must be referenced and respected.

 

They end up becoming whatever you made them to be through your weakness or through your strength.

 

In conclusion:

 

“Your weakness in training and moulding them–(children) when they are young will strengthen them in treating you bad when you are old”.

 

“The beauty of good parenting is deeply inherent in trainings and tutelage that are chanelled towards the development of a complete human being that will be an asset to the society in its entirety but not a burden.”

 

Let’s ensure in our little way and with the help of God train our children in the way of the Lord.

 

“This is how a beautiful and a glorious future for our children can be enhanced in the process of time”.

 

Tag:#Family#Parenting#Counselling#Hometraining.

 

Ref:www.canva.com

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CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 4.–(5 Minutes Read)

The past episodes of a series tagged:“CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER” had experienced huge acceptance and it has been appreciated from many of our avid readers, followers and viewers.This is just a simple idea that was conceived practically at a point and it is believed it will be and addition to families, relationships and parenting which seems to be an arduous task for some people.

 

Episode 1,2 and 3 have been published and now, here comes the Episode 4.

 

Welcome to the reality of Episode 4.

 

Recently,when ‘my beloved’-my wife was in a coversation with my daughter towards the close of the day.After we have observed prayer before going to bed,my beloved jsut called the attention of my daughter to something that when it started initially, I felt that it might be unimportant and it might be unnecessary for a little girl of her age.

 

Though,it was a mix feeling for me because I was in doubt if her understanding will be in alignment with such exercise, but later I was proofed wrong.

 

This is how her conversation with her mum goes:

 

After prayer had been offered and altered for the night,

 

“Faith”!….Her mum called her.

 

“Ma”……She responded.

“Let’s read the bible”…her mum replied.

 

“When I read,you will chorus it after me”…her mum continued.

 

“Ok”! Ma”….she answered.

katherineschmidt (2).jpg

 

While this conversation was going on, I was fagged out and I wasn’t totally in support but they had the exercise succesfully with my daughter’s response very encouraging.Her mum opened the book of Psalms on her phone and both were busy reading and responding till they got to the last verse of their chosen chapter in the book of Psalms.

 

It was surprising to me when at a point in time recently, even it has been up to two occasions when my daughter had been the one reminding her mum of the need to read the bible after prayers before going to bed, even up till now.

 

“Mummy”!

 

“Let’s read the bible…she demanded.

 

And her mum will be reading and she always chorus it along with her.

 

It was quite surprisng to me that such a simple trial that was carried out and experimented by her mum has become something that she is in love with without anybody forcing her or coaxing her on the need to .

 

No wonder the bible admonished us to be like the little children because the kingdom of God belong to them.

 

With this practical experience, I learnt a lesson of my life that parenting is all about the kind of exposure our ward are given out to and the best period of their life when they can yield to our instructions and ways easily is at the developmental stage of their existence.

 

It is paramount, pertinent and essential for parents to catch them young and put them in the ways of the Lord before they are wrongly exposed and initiated to the evils in the society.

 

There is a need for every parnt to start sowing the seed of spirituality in their wards at a tender age so that there responses to it will be easy and smooth without any constraints and restrictions.

 

Whatever you fail to teach them as a parent will be doled out to them freely as a form of teaching and culture by the society and our society is filled with wrong teachings and negative anti-social instructions that will pave their ways to perdition and destruction.

 

Parenting is a responsibility that must take care of the physical and spiritual need of a child accompanied with the ability to balance the two without any becoming a source of confusion to our children.

 

The greatest gift God gave to humanity is our Children but it is our responsibility as parents to make them fulfill their purpose on earth through the nature of training and exposure given to them.

 

“Your weaknesses in training and moulding them will end up being transformed into strength in them that will make them become a burden and a souce of regret at the end to parents”.

 

If your children grow up treatin you bad, check yourdelf, you might have beeen weak in training them in seeing reasons why an elderly person must be referenced and respected.

 

They end up becoming whatever you made them to be through your weakness or through your strength.

 

In conclusion:

 

“Your weakness in training and moulding them–(children) when they are young will strengthen them in treating you bad when you are old”.

 

“The beauty of good parenting is deeply inherent in trainings and tutelage that are chanelled towards the development of a complete human being that will be an asset to the society in its entirety but not a burden.”

 

Let’s ensure in our little way and with the help of God train our children in the way of the Lord.

 

“This is how a beautiful and a glorious future for our children can be enhanced in the process of time”.

 

Tag:#Family#Parenting#Counselling#Hometraining.

 

Ref:www.canva.com

http//:image.search.yahoo.com

CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 4.–(5 Minutes Read)

The past episodes of a series tagged:“CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER” had experienced huge acceptance and it has been appreciated from many of our avid readers, followers and viewers.This is just a simple idea that was conceived practically at a point and it is believed it will be and addition to families, relationships and parenting which seems to be an arduous task for some people.

 

Episode 1,2 and 3 have been published and now, here comes the Episode 4.

 

Welcome to the reality of Episode 4.

 

Recently,when ‘my beloved’-my wife was in a coversation with my daughter towards the close of the day.After we have observed prayer before going to bed,my beloved jsut called the attention of my daughter to something that when it started initially, I felt that it might be unimportant and it might be unnecessary for a little girl of her age.

 

Though,it was a mix feeling for me because I was in doubt if her understanding will be in alignment with such exercise, but later I was proofed wrong.

 

This is how her conversation with her mum goes:

 

After prayer had been offered and altered for the night,

 

“Faith”!….Her mum called her.

 

“Ma”……She responded.

“Let’s read the bible”…her mum replied.

 

“When I read,you will chorus it after me”…her mum continued.

 

“Ok”! Ma”….she answered.

katherineschmidt (2).jpg

 

While this conversation was going on, I was fagged out and I wasn’t totally in support but they had the exercise succesfully with my daughter’s response very encouraging.Her mum opened the book of Psalms on her phone and both were busy reading and responding till they got to the last verse of their chosen chapter in the book of Psalms.

 

It was surprising to me when at a point in time recently, even it has been up to two occasions when my daughter had been the one reminding her mum of the need to read the bible after prayers before going to bed, even up till now.

 

“Mummy”!

 

“Let’s read the bible…she demanded.

 

And her mum will be reading and she always chorus it along with her.

 

It was quite surprisng to me that such a simple trial that was carried out and experimented by her mum has become something that she is in love with without anybody forcing her or coaxing her on the need to .

 

No wonder the bible admonished us to be like the little children because the kingdom of God belong to them.

 

With this practical experience, I learnt a lesson of my life that parenting is all about the kind of exposure our ward are given out to and the best period of their life when they can yield to our instructions and ways easily is at the developmental stage of their existence.

 

It is paramount, pertinent and essential for parents to catch them young and put them in the ways of the Lord before they are wrongly exposed and initiated to the evils in the society.

 

There is a need for every parnt to start sowing the seed of spirituality in their wards at a tender age so that there responses to it will be easy and smooth without any constraints and restrictions.

 

Whatever you fail to teach them as a parent will be doled out to them freely as a form of teaching and culture by the society and our society is filled with wrong teachings and negative anti-social instructions that will pave their ways to perdition and destruction.

 

Parenting is a responsibility that must take care of the physical and spiritual need of a child accompanied with the ability to balance the two without any becoming a source of confusion to our children.

 

The greatest gift God gave to humanity is our Children but it is our responsibility as parents to make them fulfill their purpose on earth through the nature of training and exposure given to them.

 

“Your weaknesses in training and moulding them will end up being transformed into strength in them that will make them become a burden and a souce of regret at the end to parents”.

 

If your children grow up treatin you bad, check yourdelf, you might have beeen weak in training them in seeing reasons why an elderly person must be referenced and respected.

 

They end up becoming whatever you made them to be through your weakness or through your strength.

 

In conclusion:

 

“Your weakness in training and moulding them–(children) when they are young will strengthen them in treating you bad when you are old”.

 

“The beauty of good parenting is deeply inherent in trainings and tutelage that are chanelled towards the development of a complete human being that will be an asset to the society in its entirety but not a burden.”

 

Let’s ensure in our little way and with the help of God train our children in the way of the Lord.

 

“This is how a beautiful and a glorious future for our children can be enhanced in the process of time”.

 

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CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 3. –(4 Minutes Read)

I am elevated into ectasy with comments received from some of my readers, viewers and followers in relation to the Episode 1 and Episode 2 of “conversation with my daughter” and this has lured and spurred me into action to wet your reading appetite with Episode 3 this week as promised earlier.

 

Here comes the Episode 3.

 

It was another weekend recently, precisely a saturday morning.I settled down early to arrange, synergize and synchronised my line of thought in preparation for a weekly blog post.

 

Immediately,she saw me writing ,he jerked off from her lying down position and another conversation started.

She shouted from afar while approaching me by moving towards me.

“Daddy”!

“What are you doing”….she probed.

“Baby girl”

“I am writing”..I responded.

Oh!Are youwriting?…she probed further.

“And I replied her again by nodding my head.

 

Immediately she turned back and she responded by making it clear to me that she wants to take her book and start writing.

 

Whether what she intends writing is right or wrong, she just want to do what her daddy was busy doing.I was pleased with her because it is my vision to raise and train her on the path of writing creatively and professionally.

 

She really made my day because I felt fulfilled and momentarily accomplished.

 

Conversation with my daughter 3

 

No doubt about it, the essence of parenting is resident and inherent in influence not in affleuence.As a parent, your actions and inactions are filled with potentials that are efficient and powerful enough to influence your wards in a way and manner that you might not be able to measure its extent.

 

As a parent, your actions and inactions speak louder voice and they are forces that are powerful to shape and mould the destiny of our young ones rightly or wrongly.They are the guides and guards that make or mar the future of our young ones.

 

It is the kind of influnce and impart you have on your wards that determines the kind of parenting you doled out whether good, bad, responsible or irresponsible.

 

There is a kind of parenting that is recognized by the light it beamed while the other kind of paenting is known by the depth of gross darkness it is encompassed and overwhelmed with.

 

Children raised from parenting that beam light will easily portray,display and exhibitb light in them no matter how inconsequential and insignificant it might be while children raised through parenting approach that fetters darkness and every form of weaknesses in raising up a complete child will have their children exhibiting darkness and all forms of abberation and obscurity.

 

Every child is a reflection of whatever is planted in their life consciouly or unconscuously by those who stand for them to foster the role of parenting.

 

Those who grew up becoming a threat to the society are people that have experienced a missing link and some sorts of weaknesses in their upbringing as a child especially when no one is ready and available to train them on the path of reasoning.

 

Hence, they end up becoming tools in the hands of the devil and they end up maturing into agents of evil and darkness with the brunch of their evil being shared by everyone in the society.

 

Our society becomes what it is presently through the inadequacies and shortcomings encountered in the responsibility of parenting.Aweak parenting produces a weak society and an irresponsible society is an offshoot and an offspring of an irresponsible parenting.

 

Our world is filled with many child-adults with them being a burden to th entire society just because of a weakened parenting that mould them.

 

Some become cheap materials in the hands of men with thier superior and bosses sleeping with them just because of their aspirations to be promoted and achieve mudane things in life but it can be concluded that someone has been irresponsible in making them to have self confidence accompanied with the ability to stand on what is good no matter how terrible the situation on ground is.

 

If you know that you will end up being an irresponsible parent, there is no pint raising burdens and dare devils in the name of giving birth to children.

 

“Do not just add to the statisitics of birth, rather inflluence the society through quality of seeds procreated by you”.

 

Never plant a bad seed that will end up becoming a liability to the society but rather propagate good seeds that will influence and redirect the society on the path of goodness, greatness and all round goodwill.

 

“The beauty of parenting is raising lions and giants not chickens and dogs”.

 

The questions are:

ARE YOU RAISING UP CHICKENS AND DOGS?

ARE YOU RAISING UP GIANTS AND LIONS?

 

In conclusion,Parenting is all about responsiveness and responsibilities not abou fulfilling the desire and demand of  what is resident underneath your pants, boxers and bra.

 

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CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER 2—-(4 Minutes Read).

I am confident that the Episode 1 of my experience and encounter with my three year old girl made a lot of meaning to all my readers, viewers and followers.

 

In the light of the  encouraging comments received concerning the Episode 1, I hereby present the Episode 2 for the purpose of entertainment and learning of my avid readers, followers and viewers.

 

Can we start?

 

Let’s start.

 

After my conversation with her on a particular saturday.We had another one that made me to wonder about the sort of mind our little ones are operating with.They are so innocent to a fault and the flexibility  of their mind can blow someone off.

 

It was on the 24th of September 2017 precisely on a cool sunday evening.

 

She started:

“Daddy!

“I am a police”….she exclaimed.

 

And immediately I cut her short by replying her with a frowned facial expression.

 

“You are not a a Police”

 

“You are a Professor”

 

“Do you want to be collecting bribe”

 

“God forbid”.—I corrected her.

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After shutting her gibberish, she started crying.

 

Too bad for her innocence.How can we be paying school fees and your dream will be all about becoming a police?

 

God forbid us seeing fire in the well filled with water.

 

Parenting  is an all-encompassing responsibility that demands deep commitment and total attention accompanied with being focussed in taken good care of our wards.

 

At a younger age, children’s view and understanding are too sensitive and elastic in accommodating anything no matter what it is.Their sensitivity and ability in seggregating and sieving what is good from what is bad need guidance and utmost tutelage from parents and anyone standing in gap for them as parents ot foister guidance.

 

If a parent fails in guilding their path, they might end up becoming whatever the society placed on them as fashion or what is in vogue as a culture and a way of life.

 

Guidance and counselling are the basic responsibility expected from anyone who claimed to be a parent and who desire to be a good and a responsible parent.

 

If you are a weakling in beaming light to the darkness of our little ones, never dream of becoming a parent at all.

 

It is not that becoming a Police officer as a profession is evil in itself but I was amazed at her choice of such profession.Though I knew, it was due to her innocence and the tenderness of her heart towards what she wants to become in life.

 

Hence, it is of neccessity for her parents to checkmate and guild her on the path that is right so that she will not make a grievious mistake in life.

 

In conclusion, a weakened parenting offers nothing but weaklings, shylocks and burdens to humanity withn everyone bearing the brunch of their weaknesses accompanied with a society that is at risk of becoming a trap to our innocent young ones.

 

All parents should take up the challenge of being a responsible one.Parenting is not about our ability to procreate but it is a divine assignment tailored towards contributing responsibly and reasonably to the society through the quality of children raised by us at a particular period of time in the course of our sojourn on earthly pedestal.

 

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THE HAWKING TEENAGERS—(4 Minutes Read)

Without mincing words,anybody that is carefully observant will notice the emergence of a new waves of social imbalance inform of a class surfacing in the strata of the Nigerian Society,though the emergence might seem to be gradual to some extent but it is quite visible in almost all our highways especially in the urban areas of the country.

Any moment I am on my way home in the evening,my eyes are always filled with pity with my mind being occupied with deep thought that boil down to the plight of the less privileged and the downtrodden that keeps on increasing in number in our country due to the low ebbed economy being experienced now.

Lagos State as an emerging metropolitan state in Nigeria with close to 21 million people occupying its space.The efforts of the past and present administration in Lagos State to turn the state to the largest economic hub in Africa can be seen by all with the recent bill passed in the state legislative chamber banning street hawking on our highways.This can be seen to proffer solution to a particular challenge but in the long run it will give birth to another one that is more challenging than other,if palliatives to cushion the effect of the economic recession is not put in place by the concerned authorities.

No doubt about it,banning street hawking on the highways will reduce the exposure of many life to the risk of accidents but with the way the the economy is biting hard many will take solace in finding respite in criminality.Without any effort made in making the economy of the country friendly,it can be deduced that the ban on street hawking on our highway can simply be described as “running after shadow”.

With the numbers of teenagers that display trays and exhibit their petty wares  by the roadside at First Gate Bus stop along Agindigbi Road  Lagos in the evening,it can never amount to exaggeration that there is an emergence of certain class of Nigerians that can simply be described as the HAWKING TEENAGERS.

Young boys and girls that ought to be in the comfort of their homes in the evening are busy looking for customers that will patronize the petty trading their parents and foster parents probably forced on them.

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No doubt about it,they are the potential tools for the perpetration of criminalities and other social vices that are detrimental to peaceful coexistence of the entire society with the exposure of the young girls to prostitution.As young as these girls are,seen them with skimpy dress that hardly cover their bodies was really disturbing and i kept asking questions about the genuineness of their intention by the road side at the wee hour of the day.

Are they plying their trade or are they using their trade to cover up for their perpetration of the illicit act of prostitution?

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These are the  questions that bothers my mind any time i see them by the road side.

It is not a gainsaying,Nigeria economy is really bad but it will be worse if we sacrifice the future of our children to get respite from the ailing economy that they have no idea of how it started.

Every stakeholder must channel all necessary efforts in their capacity to protect and preserve the future of our future leaders.The only evil will can do to posterity is to mortgage the future of the young generation for the economy woes bedeviling the entire Nigerian States now.

When the expected future leaders of a nation are busy trading at a younger age with our streets and highways filled with teenage hawkers competing with fast moving automobiles in order to attract customers day in-day out, someone begins to wonder what the future of our nation looks like.

I wonder what the future will look like when our little girls expected to become a heroine and an amazon are busy hawking at night with make-overs and skimpy dresses.

How will a nation with the largest population of black race will not end up breeding criminals and prostitute when they spend the larger part of their entire life on the street busy hawking and trading at tender age?

What a race?

What a nation?

Parents needs to up their games and hustling.

Parenting is more than releasing sperms, it is not about having sex that ends up in unwanted pregnancy.It is more than sleeping around with men.

It is a task and a responsibility that must be willingly carried out with hardwork, commitment ,responsiveness  and dedication geared towards schooling and grooming our future leaders to a point whereby they will be grounded to become better in the society and an asset to the existence of humanity.

Lets protect their lifes.

Lets protect their future.

The keys to our glorious future is inherent in them and resident with them.

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