JUST BE YOURSELF.—(3 MINUTES READ).

via JUST BE YOURSELF.—(3 MINUTES READ).

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Self-confidence! Do you have it?

Dear All,

I do not know how you have been living your life,

I do not know how you have been coping with the hiccups of life,

I do not know your experience in life,

Neither do I know your expectations in life.

 

I do not know the challenges ahead of you,

I do not know how you are going to weather the storm of life,

Neither do I know when the challenges will emerge.

 

I do not know how promising the future ahead of you is,

I do not know the formulation for beautiful future,

Neither do I hold the ace to a glorious years ahead.

 

I would like you to know,

I would like you to understand,

I would like you to expect the unexpected.

 

Whether the future is promising or nor,

Whether the years ahead would be fulfilling,

Whether the hope of a brighter tomorrow will come to reality.

 

What is needed by you is planning,

What is needed by you is preparation,

What is needed by you is courage.

 

Planning,Preparation  and courage are means to an end.

They are needed to fine-tune and polish the inner strength in you.

They are needed to build originality in you.

 

What you need is nothing but self-confidence .

 

In conclusion,

Self-Confidence makes a man,

If you do not  have it,you are  twice defeated in the race of life.

 

My question is:

 

Do you have it?

 

No matter the darkness,keep pushing until your light start shinning

 

©Mlstcommunications 2019

 

 

 

How can you get out of the wood.

Everyone of us is quite aware of a particular popular game known across the length and breadth of the world as golf.

 

Despite the popularity of this game, some of us are not aware of the intricacies and technicalities involved in being a player of this game not to talk of a player becoming a world champion with feats of records in the course of their golfing career.

 

 

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Recently, the entire world was overwhelmed with the victory of a man that made him to become a cynosure of all eyes.

 

His name and career nose-dived at a point and no one dares remembering anything to do with him except his past achievement in the course of his golfing career.

 

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His recent breakthrough became a source of inspiration, motivation and celebration that engulfed the lips of everyone who desire becoming great in life.

 

His name is TIGER WOODS.

 

He has been a world champion on several occasion but at a point his golfing career and family life suffered dryness and drought that made him to fizzle out of the list of world champion.

 

For good eleven years, his name was out of the honor list of popular world golfers with him becoming nothing to talk about in the world of golf until he came out of the woods to become the best source of celebration that the entire world is recognizing with now.

 

According, the recent tweet authored by the President of the United States of America about the success of Tiger Woods recently:

 

“Congratulations to @TigerWoods, a truly Great Champion!” Trump tweeted

shortly after Woods sank a short putt to secure his 15th major title.

“Love people who are great under pressure. What a fantastic life comeback for a

really great guy!” he added later.

 

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Tiger Woods has been congratulated since after he made a surprising comeback to become the face of success across the length and breadth of the entire world.

 

According to a report by REUTER:

 

“The victory on Sunday was one of the greatest comebacks in sports history, as the

43-year-old ended an 11-year major title drought having overcome personal and

professional setbacks including a highly-public divorce and multiple surgeries.”

 

Tiger Woods is a man that is on record to have lost all he ever worked for in the past being a failure in his professional and personal life until he was able to gather the pieces of his failed past to become a source of relevance in 2019.

 

This is a practical story of a man who didn’t give up in his bid to become better in life. He could have thought of been satisfied with past achievements and end up shutting his mind against any thought of improvement that would made him to become what he is today.

 

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Instead of throwing the towel, he encouraged himself and worked on himself until his failures becomes the success that entire world is associating with.

 

WHAT ARE THE WAYS BY WHICH YOU CAN GET OUT OF THE WOODS?

Being in the woods is all about having negative and unexpected experiences that is always difficult for any one of us to handle.

 

Many times we are always fixated at a point in the journey of life that all our efforts to find a solution to the challenges of life proofs abortive.

 

While some of us becomes better at the end, so many people end up fizzling out with nothing to show about other than stories of continuous failures.

 

Despite whatever the challenges might be, one can learn and unlearn from people who had passed through series of challenges and overcome.

 

Some of the ways of getting out of the woods are:

1.Appraisal of the past achievements.

2.Dedication and commitment.

3.Being focused.

4.Resoluteness and resilience.

5.Courage

6.Passion and Perseverance.

7.Empathy

8.Fearlessness

9.Continuous training,tutelage, learning and coaching.

10.Being optimistic.

 

With some of this in place, challenges of life that seems to remain unyielding could turn out to be a channel whereby successful feats of achievements could be obtained by anyone who desire it.

 

 

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In conclusion,

“THE TIGER IN THE WOOD IS FINALLY OUT OF THE WOODS AND THE WORLD IS

ALREADY UNDERNEATH HIS FEET.”

 

Let’s congratulate him.

REF:

 

Reuters

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tiger_Woods

 

https://www.msn.com/en-us/sports/golf/trump-to-award-tiger-woods-the-presidential-medal-of-freedom/ar-BBVXLEh?OCID=ansmsnnews11

 

©mlstcommunications 2019.

 

 

 

 

 

Have you written yourself off?–(9 minutes Read).

Sometimes ago, I read this piece on someone’s timeline on Facebook. At the end of my reading which I enjoyed but I was humbled and became thoughtful of what I read in the piece.

The enormity of lessons and experiences available in the course of our journey in life makes learning to be a continuous process that no one in life can really discard.

It was in the light of this that I made it a responsibility on my path to share this piece on my blog with my readers, viewers and followers.

This story simply confirmed the twist of life.

It goes thus:

Life Lessons is uncountable!!
Never ever write yourself off.
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Few weeks ago, I was driving on Apapa-Oshodi expressway and stopped briefly under the Ilasamaja Bridge to pick a call. Suddenly, a Danfo bus pulled up beside me, the bus conductor jumped out and landed by my side. I was about to be robbed!

However, the conductor had other plans…

‘Oshodi Oshodi Oshodi o…’

I heaved a sigh of relieve and breathed deeper, then I saw a guy I’d known for long. Years of separation couldn’t play on me any trick. He was one of the brightest guy in our class, and had won for us a couple of Inter-School competition.

He was of a modest middleclass family that valued education and when he says a word is ‘adjectival proverb’ or ‘future present past participle’, we dared not argue because he was usually right.

Always ahead. He had a way of mentally working out complex mathematical equations without writing. He was a silent threat to the ‘booboo’ teachers and would sometimes challenge their answers’ which later earned him cold hates. Gbenga was that hot and was named one of the most likely to succeed in our class.

‘Oshodi…Oshodi…Oshodi oke o…’ He continued.

I pushed out my head from the car and ‘hala’ his nick name.

‘Gbengene!’

He was shocked. Only his old allies would know that name, I guessed. He looked intently at me and then screamed. I came out of the car and we hugged fiercely, like old thieves, gallons of his sweat rubbing all over me, but I cared not. I was happy to see my old friend.

‘Viko ómó’lòpè, what’s up? O ti sha-pra-pra gan o…’

He hailed loudly in street parlance. We however couldn’t talk as he had to get back to work, and his driver ‘oga’ was blaring the horn angrily. So I took his phone number and watched him go adoringly.

Gbenga ran back to the moving Danfo bus, jumped in and clung tightly to the door as if his entire life depended on it. He gave me a parting smile and flashed a decolorized teeth supposedly darkened by excessive marijuana smoking and deepseated apathy to dental hygiene.

God, what happened?

I stood, rooted to that spot and sadly watched him disappear into the fast moving Lagos metro.

Then came flurry of emotion.
I cried.

 

 

 

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As I drove on, I flashed back to another flip-sided slice of life that made me conclude afterall that life is a scam.

I was on Admiralty Way in Lekki and stopped at AP/Tantalizer Junction to shine my shoe. I was admiring the Aboki doing his work with much passion when a black Range Rover halted suddenly behind me and the screech of the tyres made me dive for safety.

God forbid bad thing!

While on the safer side, I glanced back to see the idiot behind the wheel, then I saw a familiar face. ‘No! Haba! It couldn’t be him’ I argued within me, then wiped my face for a clearer vision. The loser was still there, smiling stupidly. The face rang a louder bell, and of course, I remembered him.

‘What in hell could Bala be doing inside this Range Rover?’ I queried myself.

It is tragic to be dumb, and a tragedy to be stupid, but it is a curse to be both. Bala was dumb and stupid! His parents were extremely poor! That, conjoined with his non-existent academic performance which affected his confidence and social life, he was simply termed a failure and had severally been assured he wouldn’t amount to anything in life. He agreed, and we all agreed with him. So we treated him as nobody, a scumbag.

‘Well, maybe Bala had finally fulfilled his destiny and become a driver as predicted’ I concluded, grinning sheepishly.

What a stupid miscalculation!

Balarabe, the dullest guy in my class was the proud owner of the R2. Back then, this guy could not even write a decimal point with a bottle, but now signs cheques with gold pen and cruises posh SUVs about Lagos. We hung out out at The Sailors Lounge and he told me how he reinvented himself. He attended few crash courses, changed his orientation, worked with a shipping company in Apapa Wharf, became hardworking and brutally honest. His boss loved him and mentored him in shipping and importation business until he stated his own company.

Wow!
Balarabe!
A CEO of a Shipping Company!!!
Bala!
A scum of the earth?!

I couldn’t sleep that night as I kept musing over Gbenga and Bala.

So I concluded.

The race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, nor riches to men of understanding, nor favour to men of skill; but time and chance happen to them all.

It is not over until it is over.
Gbe body é

➖➖➖➖➖

DON’T WRITE YOURSELF OFF.

_The Movie is still on and it could soon start to favour you_

➖ Reinvent Yourself
➖ Get started again with much agility and faith!

 

 

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The question is:

 

Have you written yourself off?

 

Do you think it is over?

 

Do you think you have lost all?

 

Never give up.

 

Those who give up while they are still living are dead already.

 

SOURCE: Unknown Author

 

©mlstcommunications 2019

Inspiration, Motivation – Making Dreams Come True! — simplisticInsights

Have you ever woken up with so much energy, you couldn’t supress it no matter how much you tried. That moment of genius, catching waves of gold as they swish on by your all so busy mind. That moment your inspired by another taking a chance on life just to prove the masses wrong! Yes […]

via Inspiration, Motivation – Making Dreams Come True! — simplisticInsights

WHY ARE YOU SAD?—-(10 MINUTES READ).

This short piece was written on the 2nd of March 2016 as part of my daily post or publication on facebook.The source of the inspiration which is personal remain somehow unknown and unclear but I believe the content therin will serve as a sort of resources that will enhance our self-esteem that will birth a kind of re-orientation about our view along the line of maintaining good personal and corporate relationship.

 

It is observed that many of us become saddened,moody and pensive when we get an inkling that we are been mocked and talked about by others.It is a kind of attitude that is common across the length and breadth of the entire human race whereby many people spend a bunch of their time backbitting and throwing stones at others.Many of us are actors of this irrelevant and many of us are victims of this irrelevant.

 

It is necessary for many of us to understand and develop a thick skin with blocked ear to some of this irrelevancies that is commonality among human being remains unquantifiable.

 

According to Winston Churchill:

 

“You will never get to your destination when you throw stones at every dog that bark at you”

 

You will get nothing out of life if you are bothered about what people are saying about you.Being bothered and being suspicious about what people are saying about you is a sign and a product of immaturity and low self-esteem.

 

Like food,people will feed on your matter.

 

Like water,people will gulp your issue to quench their thirst.

 

Like a dog, people will nag their loose tongue.

 

Even the dead are being talked about everyday.

 

I want you to have this in mind that those who gossip about you remains at your back forever.

 

REJOICE!!!

 

When people talk about you!!!

 

One of the best effective ways of knowing the level of maturity you are made of is simply shown outrightly through your response and reaction to whatever people are saying about you.

 

When you expected little or nothing from people around you,your reaction and response to disappointment will be minimal and less-shocking but when you raised your hope about people and build your castle in the air, you will end up being saddened and biittered when you are disappointed .

 

I want you to know this mystery that you are being gossipped about because you are important to them,if you are not important to them, they will never spend a bunch of their precious time debating and deliberating about issues that concern you.

 

MOODY 2
WHY ARE YOU SAD?

 

So, whenever you have an inkling that you are being gossipped about, just have this understanding that your life is meaningfully filled with virtues that are important to them,hence they are jealous and they desire having an opportunity to possess such a virtue.

 

Instead of complaining and reacting to people’s view and assertion about you,the best response to the contents of their gossip is top wave it aside with a bare hand and move ahead with your life being focussed on your purpose in life.

 

It is only those who are incapable of discovering their purpose in life that spend their little time at their disposal discussing issues that has nothing to do with them.

 

When you want to know and understand the worth of any man,it is necessary to know what the mouth of such person says about another person.

 

As life is real, gossipping also is real.It is an evil that almost every human is guilty of but the worst of its evil spring up when the person being gossipped about becomes embittered and saddened about it.

 

Since no two wrongs can make a right, it is better to manage your emotion in terms of response and reaction towards whatever people might be saying at your back.

 

Kindly allow whatever is being discussed at your back to remain at your back.Do not brink it forward to your face so that you will not end up frowning and it will prevent you from wearing a harsh look accompany with you looking for a way to revenge by taking your own pound of flesh.

 

Whatever is being said at your back should remain at your back till eternity.This is one of the secrets of longevity that will help in making you to understand the value of your purpose in life accompany with efforts that will make you achieve such purpose in the course of your existence.

 

When you are saddened about people talking about you,you have given them cahnces and opportunities to control your feelings and emotions.Once this happened, you have exchanged the power in you in response to your reaction about what has been said about you.

 

Your response and reactions in the face of adversity is what determines whether you will end up winning or loosing in the course of your fight for conquest or victory.When your reaction and response is negative, you have given your enemy power over you but once your reponse is calm and positive, all your enemies become weakened and they end up loosing their power and potency that might have been used to cage and control you.

 

The golden key to your happinness lies with you.Never give loose it through your response and reaction to situations around you.No matter how long you live on earth, there will always be moments of ups and downs but it is your preparation and readiness for staying above the reality of any moment that will determine how matured you are and how capable and able you are to ride the roller-coaster of life that is always unstable.

 

MOODY 3
WHY ARE YOU SAD?

 

Can you measure the Kilojoule of inherent latent energy wasted and expended when you react and respond negatively to whatever rumour is being peddled about you?It is quite ironical that many of us spend our energy on what we not add any value to us and one of the areas we wasted energy on is our reaction and response to gossip from people around us.

 

No matter what the situation might be, you have what it takes to live your life above whatever the rumour that might be peddled and spread around about you.

 

Rumour mongering and gossipping are parts of human life.If humans refrain from this, I dont think the existence of human beings could be possible.

 

When you consider what is being rumoured and gossipped about you as irrelevant and inconsequential, it will reamin a minor issue that can never remove anything from you and you will be able to stay afloat and be in charge of your emotion.

 

To cap it all:

 

BE HAPPY!!!

 

STOP BEING BOTHERED!!!

 

 

STOP BEING PENSIVE!!!

 

STOP BEING SAD!!!.

 

STOP WEARING A HARSH LOOK!!!

 

Sadness takes away virtues and values from you.It is a stylish and a slow channel to making someone becoming a beast that has lost the grip of what life is all about.

 

Sadness does nothing but  weakens your nerves and bones thereby becoming old and worn-out withing a little period of time.

 

Sadness makes you look haggard and unkempt.

 

 

Tag:

 

#Gossipping#

 

#Rumour mongering#

 

#Moody#

 

#Inspiration#

 

#Motivation#

 

Ref:

 

http://www.fotor.com

 

http://unsplash.com

WHAT NEXT?—(3 Minutes read)

No doubt about it experience of life has taught us in diverse ways about the stormy vicissitudes of life that make life to be challenging and unbearable. It is not within the reach and scope of anyone’s mental ability and spiritual capacity to decipher when the storms of life will become fierce and raging.

Due to the shortsightedness and shallow mindedness of many, when issues concerning the storms of life are mentioned or tends towards becoming a subject and an object of discussion, many are quick in responding against this trend by mouthing and shouting “God forbid and that will not be my portion in Jesus Name” repeatedly as if to say  others that are passing through such a phase are being punished for their predicaments or they are enemies of God.

 

 

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Times without numbers, people that are deeply spiritual have been seen to pass through unbearable phases of life like this and all that will be heard from them is “why me Lord”.As if to say God allowed such a phase in order to put them under curse or punishment.

It is not a gainsaying that the challenges of life are real and they forced their presence on people without their consent.The untold hardship many people are battling with are unimaginable and they are better left not being discussed because it has defied every reasonable approach to get urgent solution.

The irony of life is that what makes champions are challenges.The myriads of challenges is not what really matters, what matters is the stories of conquest that made champions out of those myriads of challenges.

Champions are moulded and made when the right attitude needed to turn challenges into stories of victory are available and applied within a period of time.It is attitude that makes winners not quitting and it is attitude that makes looser quit even at the advent of the challenges.Stories of victories and conquests ever related in the annals of history of mankind revolve around attitudinal approach that are positively channelled towards getting the head up even when the bowl is hot.

Challenges makes champion. The beauty of golds and many precious stones emerge when they passed through furnace.How will your stories be listened to without its contents being rallied  around battles and corresponding conquests and victory.

The load might be heavy but know that the weight will make you strong.

WHAT NEXT?

After the loss of your brother,

After the loss of your child,

After the loss of your wife,

After the loss of your job

After the loss of that contract,

After you have lost everything, 

After being deserted by friends and families,

What next?

Hold on when the sun is hot!!

Hold on when the bowl is hot!!

Every challenge of life is transient.

Every challenge is bound to expire.

Weeping may endure for a night.

Your joy cometh in the morning.

If you can hold on throughout the night, surely there is a brighter morning.

A crucial step needs to be taken as the next step.There is no need to mourn your loss forever.It is of no point sitting down on a spot without finding lasting solutions to the issues on ground.

You need to rise up and buckle up to weather the storm of life by maximising the inner strength in you to face the challenges of life.It is until when you believed that there is a brighter side to every dark side that your moments of regrets will fizzle out.



  • dedicated to those who loose their beloved ones in 2017
  • Dedicated to those who loose precious valuable things in 2017
  • Dedicated to those who loose their jobs in 2017

Tag:#motivation#inspiration#writings#empowerment


…..faydelmix1979@mylittlesimplethought.wordpress.com

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10 WAYS TO REMAINING PERPECTUALLY POSITIVE.—(6 MINUTES READ).

With or without arguments and debates,no one can deny or feign ignorance of two practical realities that are always refelected,exhibited and displayed in the course of human existenceon earthly pedestal.

 

Often times than none,majority or larger percentage of human always experience the mixture of these extremes.

 

No doubt about it,every human being is wired and designed to encounter low moments and high moments.

 

 

DEPRESSION 1

 

Whule high moments are simply moments of joy and happiness whereby feats,success and achievements are celebrated and appreciated.They are moments whereby elevation and promotion achieved,acquired and attainedalways trigger a sort of self-fulfilment  and personal achievement that made the concerned person to feel on top of the world.It is a moment of addition, multiplication and all round expansion and enlargement that surfaced as a suprise keeping the mouth of the concerned wide opened.

 

 

DEPRESSION 2

 

On the opposite, low moments are moments of discouragement,failures,stagnancy and struggles which are exhibited whenever futile efforts are the order of the day.These are moments whereby the concerned person feel out of place dejected and rejected which might culminate into the thought of unknown fear,depression and attempted murder.

 

Many people in the world have been victims of low moments with decimal and statistics of such instances affecting the existence of humanity increasing geometrically and asymetrically due to many factors that have constituted and blended together as a source of challenges pumelling the fabrics of the entire global community.

 

Many incidences and instances of depression that ended in suicide have been witnessed across the length and breadth of the entire world which on many ocassions have been linked and traced to reasons that has to do with the waves of challenges being faced by human beings all over the world.

 

Since,this is an ugly reality that ic difficult to shy away from.there is an urgent need to briefly look into some sorts of visible and workable palliative measures needed to cushion the effect accompanying low moment.

 

 

DEPRESSION 3

 

The solution should not be far-fetched but it embedded into fabrics of human existence as a duty and a responsibility that must be executed by every human being to see the reason why staying positive is necessary no matter how miry situation on ground might be.


(10 STEPS TO REMAINING PERPECTUALLY POSITIVE—PAGE ONE.)

 

 

10 STEPS THAT ENHANCES AND BOOST POSITIVE MENTALITY.

 

1.Maintain candour and calmness

 

2.Change your environment if the need arises.

 

3.Avoid loneliness

 

4.To talk to someone you trust.

 

5.Share your problem.

 

6.Seek help and solace from trusted friends and familiars.

 

7.Consult a guidance and counselling experts.

 

8.Since comparism steals joy,stop comparing yourself with others.

 

9.Appreciate what you have.

 

10.Be contented and hopeful.

 

 

POSITIVE 2

 

Putting all these in place is potent and powerful enought to water-down and douse the effect of negative mentality that can trigger depression that might lead to attempted suicide.

 

One of the best solution that is needed in preventing the scourge of depression is the inbuilt ability of anyone concerned to stay positive and maintained this positivity no matter how miry that challenges being faced might be.

 

Suicide is for weak minds but the strong minded spend their lifes looking at the positive side of life.

 

 

POSITIVE 1

 

Life is beautiful.Don’t take your life.

 

Everything shall be alright,it is just a matter of time,patience and persevearance that is unequalled and unparalled in all ramifications.


(10 STEPS TO REMAINING PERPECTUALLY POSITIVE—PAGE TWO).

 

Tag:

 

#Inspitration#

 

#Motivation#

 

#Depression#

 

#Suicide#

 

Ref:

 

http://www.fotor.com

 

http://unsplash.com

 

©Wordsmith Scribe 2018.

 

©Mlst.blog

 

©Fadeyi Felix Femi

WHY ARE YOU SAD?—-(10 MINUTES READ).

This short piece was written on the 2nd of March 2016 as part of my daily post or publication on facebook.The source of the inspiration which is personal remain somehow unknown and unclear but I believe the content therin will serve as a sort of resources that will enhance our self-esteem that will birth a kind of re-orientation about our view along the line of maintaining good personal and corporate relationship.

 

It is observed that many of us become saddened,moody and pensive when we get an inkling that we are been mocked and talked about by others.It is a kind of attitude that is common across the length and breadth of the entire human race whereby many people spend a bunch of their time backbitting and throwing stones at others.Many of us are actors of this irrelevant and many of us are victims of this irrelevant.

 

It is necessary for many of us to understand and develop a thick skin with blocked ear to some of this irrelevancies that is commonality among human being remains unquantifiable.

 

According to Winston Churchill:

 

“You will never get to your destination when you throw stones at every dog that bark at you”

 

You will get nothing out of life if you are bothered about what people are saying about you.Being bothered and being suspicious about what people are saying about you is a sign and a product of immaturity and low self-esteem.

 

Like food,people will feed on your matter.

 

Like water,people will gulp your issue to quench their thirst.

 

Like a dog, people will nag their loose tongue.

 

Even the dead are being talked about everyday.

 

I want you to have this in mind that those who gossip about you remains at your back forever.

 

REJOICE!!!

 

When people talk about you!!!

 

One of the best effective ways of knowing the level of maturity you are made of is simply shown outrightly through your response and reaction to whatever people are saying about you.

 

When you expected little or nothing from people around you,your reaction and response to disappointment will be minimal and less-shocking but when you raised your hope about people and build your castle in the air, you will end up being saddened and biittered when you are disappointed .

 

I want you to know this mystery that you are being gossipped about because you are important to them,if you are not important to them, they will never spend a bunch of their precious time debating and deliberating about issues that concern you.

 

MOODY 2
WHY ARE YOU SAD?

 

So, whenever you have an inkling that you are being gossipped about, just have this understanding that your life is meaningfully filled with virtues that are important to them,hence they are jealous and they desire having an opportunity to possess such a virtue.

 

Instead of complaining and reacting to people’s view and assertion about you,the best response to the contents of their gossip is top wave it aside with a bare hand and move ahead with your life being focussed on your purpose in life.

 

It is only those who are incapable of discovering their purpose in life that spend their little time at their disposal discussing issues that has nothing to do with them.

 

When you want to know and understand the worth of any man,it is necessary to know what the mouth of such person says about another person.

 

As life is real, gossipping also is real.It is an evil that almost every human is guilty of but the worst of its evil spring up when the person being gossipped about becomes embittered and saddened about it.

 

Since no two wrongs can make a right, it is better to manage your emotion in terms of response and reaction towards whatever people might be saying at your back.

 

Kindly allow whatever is being discussed at your back to remain at your back.Do not brink it forward to your face so that you will not end up frowning and it will prevent you from wearing a harsh look accompany with you looking for a way to revenge by taking your own pound of flesh.

 

Whatever is being said at your back should remain at your back till eternity.This is one of the secrets of longevity that will help in making you to understand the value of your purpose in life accompany with efforts that will make you achieve such purpose in the course of your existence.

 

When you are saddened about people talking about you,you have given them cahnces and opportunities to control your feelings and emotions.Once this happened, you have exchanged the power in you in response to your reaction about what has been said about you.

 

Your response and reactions in the face of adversity is what determines whether you will end up winning or loosing in the course of your fight for conquest or victory.When your reaction and response is negative, you have given your enemy power over you but once your reponse is calm and positive, all your enemies become weakened and they end up loosing their power and potency that might have been used to cage and control you.

 

The golden key to your happinness lies with you.Never give loose it through your response and reaction to situations around you.No matter how long you live on earth, there will always be moments of ups and downs but it is your preparation and readiness for staying above the reality of any moment that will determine how matured you are and how capable and able you are to ride the roller-coaster of life that is always unstable.

 

MOODY 3
WHY ARE YOU SAD?

 

Can you measure the Kilojoule of inherent latent energy wasted and expended when you react and respond negatively to whatever rumour is being peddled about you?It is quite ironical that many of us spend our energy on what we not add any value to us and one of the areas we wasted energy on is our reaction and response to gossip from people around us.

 

No matter what the situation might be, you have what it takes to live your life above whatever the rumour that might be peddled and spread around about you.

 

Rumour mongering and gossipping are parts of human life.If humans refrain from this, I dont think the existence of human beings could be possible.

 

When you consider what is being rumoured and gossipped about you as irrelevant and inconsequential, it will reamin a minor issue that can never remove anything from you and you will be able to stay afloat and be in charge of your emotion.

 

To cap it all:

 

BE HAPPY!!!

 

STOP BEING BOTHERED!!!

 

 

STOP BEING PENSIVE!!!

 

STOP BEING SAD!!!.

 

STOP WEARING A HARSH LOOK!!!

 

Sadness takes away virtues and values from you.It is a stylish and a slow channel to making someone becoming a beast that has lost the grip of what life is all about.

 

Sadness does nothing but  weakens your nerves and bones thereby becoming old and worn-out withing a little period of time.

 

Sadness makes you look haggard and unkempt.

 

 

Tag:

 

#Gossipping#

 

#Rumour mongering#

 

#Moody#

 

#Inspiration#

 

#Motivation#

 

Ref:

 

http://www.fotor.com

 

http://unsplash.com

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via Inspiration, Motivation – Making Dreams Come True! — simplisticInsights

A LETTER TO YOU—(7 MINUTES READ).

In the comfort of my living room,

On a cool Sunday evening,

I have been doing nothing but relaxing,

From the stress of domestic chores,

I have been resting.

Far away from the hustling and burstling of the city,

I laid down low thinking about you.

 

In my comfort and convenience,

I kept wondering,

I kept asking myself,

What exactly I have left undone,

I kept thinking about my day,

I kept wondering about,

How I have spent my day,

I tried to think that I have done all that is necessary for the day,

Something in me,

Kept telling me that,

My day is incomplete.

 

 

letter 3

 

I kept asking myself questions,

What is that thing,

I left unattended to.

 

In the midst of deep thinking,

I recollected that one thing is not yet done,

Later realized that,

I haven’t pen a word,

Later realized that,

I haven’t scribe and write.

 

In order to have a complete day,

I composed and comport myself,

To scribe and write,

In the course of thinking about,

What to write about,

I realized that you are in my mind.

 

Eventhough, I didn’t know you,

Irrespective of the distance between us,

Despite the differences between us,

Something keeps telling me that you are waiting for a word from me.

 

I might be far away from you,

I might be of different language, colour,race,tribe and religion,

One thing that made us,

Is nothing but

The bond of humanity.

 

 

What exactly is the situation around you?

What are you passing through at this moment?

Are you giving up now?

Do you think your problem has no solution?

Do you think you are alone?

Do you think that the world is wicked to you?

Are you depressed?

Are you contemplating suicide?

Are you inconvenient and uncomfortable?

Are you loosing hope,

Is your faith in a better day becoming impossible?

 

No matter the ugliness of the situation around you,

No matter the dirtiness of the shame you are enmeshed in,

No matter the depth of disappointment,

No matter the vicious cycle of generational penury,

No matter how weak and feeble you might be,

 

I want you to know,

I want to you to realize and understand,

I want you to believe in yourself,

I want you to uphold your confidence,

I want you to be faith-filled and hopeful.

 

It is just a matter of patience,

It is just a matter of time,

It will soon fade out,

 

What you have today,

Was a point of hope and prayers in the time past,

Likewise,

what you are passing through now,

Will end up expiring.

All that is present,

All that is available,

Every present reality,

Is bound to change.

Behind every blue sky,

There is always a silver lining.

Ahead of that gloomy moment,

Lies the beauty and reality of a brighter day.

 

Be calm,

Be patient,

Be watchful.

Be hopeful,

Be prayerful.

Your time of celebration,

Is at hand.

Don’t give up.

 

I am waiting for you,

To relay your story of,

Conquest and victory.

 

I am expecting your laughter,

I am expecting your smile,

I am waiting for your tears of joy.

 

Just wait,

It won’t be long,

It won’t be forlorn,

It won’t be eternity,

When your story,

Will take a new turn.

 

Just wait.

It is a  matter of time and patience.

Those who wait patiently,

For the right thing,

At the right time,

Will live to see the reality,

Of a right thing at the right time.

 

Even when the reality on ground,

Is against every possible solution,

Keep moving,

Keep believing,

Keep your head up,

When others are loosing their heads.

 

letter 2

 

I promised you,

It will soon be over,

When you shall look back,

And all that will be available on your lips,

Are the stories of victories and conquests.

 

This is my letter to you at this moment.

Be yourself.

Live in the centre of the reality of the purpose of your existence.

Be impartful,

Be impactful,

Be a trailblazer,

Be the solution others are hopeful for.

 

Ahead of you,

Lies the beauty of a brighter day.

 

Ahead of you,

Lies the reality of a glorious future.

 

Keep moving.

It will soon be your turn.

 

This is my little way of reaching out to you.

 

Tag:

 

#Inspiration#

 

#Motivation#

 

#Poem#

 

#Letter#

 

Ref:

 

http://unsplash.com

 

 

©Mlst.blog 2018.

 

©Fadeyi Felix Femi

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A LETTER TO YOU—(7 MINUTES READ).

In the comfort of my living room,

On a cool Sunday evening,

I have been doing nothing but relaxing,

From the stress of domestic chores,

I have been resting.

Far away from the hustling and burstling of the city,

I laid down low thinking about you.

 

In my comfort and convenience,

I kept wondering,

I kept asking myself,

What exactly I have left undone,

I kept thinking about my day,

I kept wondering about,

How I have spent my day,

I tried to think that I have done all that is necessary for the day,

Something in me,

Kept telling me that,

My day is incomplete.

 

 

letter 3

 

I kept asking myself questions,

What is that thing,

I left unattended to.

 

In the midst of deep thinking,

I recollected that one thing is not yet done,

Later realized that,

I haven’t pen a word,

Later realized that,

I haven’t scribe and write.

 

In order to have a complete day,

I composed and comport myself,

To scribe and write,

In the course of thinking about,

What to write about,

I realized that you are in my mind.

 

Eventhough, I didn’t know you,

Irrespective of the distance between us,

Despite the differences between us,

Something keeps telling me that you are waiting for a word from me.

 

I might be far away from you,

I might be of different language, colour,race,tribe and religion,

One thing that made us,

Is nothing but

The bond of humanity.

 

 

What exactly is the situation around you?

What are you passing through at this moment?

Are you giving up now?

Do you think your problem has no solution?

Do you think you are alone?

Do you think that the world is wicked to you?

Are you depressed?

Are you contemplating suicide?

Are you inconvenient and uncomfortable?

Are you loosing hope,

Is your faith in a better day becoming impossible?

 

No matter the ugliness of the situation around you,

No matter the dirtiness of the shame you are enmeshed in,

No matter the depth of disappointment,

No matter the vicious cycle of generational penury,

No matter how weak and feeble you might be,

 

I want you to know,

I want to you to realize and understand,

I want you to believe in yourself,

I want you to uphold your confidence,

I want you to be faith-filled and hopeful.

 

It is just a matter of patience,

It is just a matter of time,

It will soon fade out,

 

What you have today,

Was a point of hope and prayers in the time past,

Likewise,

what you are passing through now,

Will end up expiring.

All that is present,

All that is available,

Every present reality,

Is bound to change.

Behind every blue sky,

There is always a silver lining.

Ahead of that gloomy moment,

Lies the beauty and reality of a brighter day.

 

Be calm,

Be patient,

Be watchful.

Be hopeful,

Be prayerful.

Your time of celebration,

Is at hand.

Don’t give up.

 

I am waiting for you,

To relay your story of,

Conquest and victory.

 

I am expecting your laughter,

I am expecting your smile,

I am waiting for your tears of joy.

 

Just wait,

It won’t be long,

It won’t be forlorn,

It won’t be eternity,

When your story,

Will take a new turn.

 

Just wait.

It is a  matter of time and patience.

Those who wait patiently,

For the right thing,

At the right time,

Will live to see the reality,

Of a right thing at the right time.

 

Even when the reality on ground,

Is against every possible solution,

Keep moving,

Keep believing,

Keep your head up,

When others are loosing their heads.

 

letter 2

 

I promised you,

It will soon be over,

When you shall look back,

And all that will be available on your lips,

Are the stories of victories and conquests.

 

This is my letter to you at this moment.

Be yourself.

Live in the centre of the reality of the purpose of your existence.

Be impartful,

Be impactful,

Be a trailblazer,

Be the solution others are hopeful for.

 

Ahead of you,

Lies the beauty of a brighter day.

 

Ahead of you,

Lies the reality of a glorious future.

 

Keep moving.

It will soon be your turn.

 

This is my little way of reaching out to you.

 

Tag:

 

#Inspiration#

 

#Motivation#

 

#Poem#

 

#Letter#

 

Ref:

 

http://unsplash.com

 

 

©Mlst.blog 2018.

 

©Fadeyi Felix Femi

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

BEFORE YOU QUIT YOUR JOB!(4 MINUTES READ)

This piece was written by an ally of mine on facebook and I pleaded with her to grant me permission to publish it on my blog.I believe it will be a source of inspiration to many people who are in quandary whether to quit or move on with their job.

 

 

job 1

 

 

I hope it will fulfill its purpose.

It reads thus:

Before you quit your 9-5,

Make sure you are mentally ready for business.

It’s no child’s play and trust me those famine days will come.

 

 

A single soul may not patronise you for a month,may be three months,

What would you do then?

Regret leaving your job or face the issue head on?

Think deeply about it.

 

job 2

 

 

 

Also before you outsource your brand,

be sure it’s to competent people,

 

 

 

job 3

 

Your early years may take you 3-5 years,

that’s the time the business needs you 100percent.

Don’t start forming oga or madam yet.

If you intend a long term brand,

Put in all your best.

Roll up your sleeves and do the dirty work,

Remember, free money is not coming again.

You work for each naira you make.

No unnecessary cold stone or pizza.

No unproductive hang outs.

You starts to manage your time around your brand.

You will loose friends and sometimes family.

You wont even pick calls that aren’t business inclined most times.

 

job 4

 

 

 

Now if giving is your DNA,

Just be ready to make enemies.

People will want free services especially your close friends.

 

 

 

Don’t rush your process.

One success shouldn’t cloud your vision and make you think you have arrived.

No you haven’t.

Brand managers, strategists, marketers will contact you,

Those people know how to make you run faster than your purpose.

Beware!!!!

 

They will use all kinds of brands as examples even your “competitors”.

They will advise you to spend stupidly….

Discern!!!!

 

The only competitor in your field is you.

Be very original and carve your own niche.

Don’t watch another person’s private movie.

 

The day you give a discount for a fixed price is the day you loose your value.

You can do discount promo later.

Let your yes be yes and your no be no.

Take only orders you can handle.

Don’t be greedy.

 

Overnight success is a component of years.

Maybe five, maybe ten sometimes.

Don’t be intimidated by new brands,

who seems to be the buzz.

 

Master one business before starting another.

There is no late-comer in success.

It is a journey.

 

DEFINITION OF TERMS:

 

  • Paragragh 4–*Naira-*–This is the type of currency spend in Nigeria.
  • Paragraph 5–*oga or madam* simply conotes male boss or female boss

Credit:Olashile Ayobami–Founder SOUPAMARKET.

Special thanks to TEMITOPE OGUNJUYIGBE ADEGBENJO.

Tag:

 

#Enterpreneurship#

 

#inspiration#

 

#motivation#

 

#personal articles and writings#

 

#careers#

 

#empowerment#

 

Ref:

 

 

http://unsplash.com

 

 

©Wordsmith Scribe 2018

 

©mlst.blog

 

©Fadeyi Felix Femi

10 WAYS TO REMAINING PERPECTUALLY POSITIVE.—(6 MINUTES READ).

With or without arguments and debates,no one can deny or feign ignorance of two practical realities that are always refelected,exhibited and displayed in the course of human existenceon earthly pedestal.

 

Often times than none,majority or larger percentage of human always experience the mixture of these extremes.

 

No doubt about it,every human being is wired and designed to encounter low moments and high moments.

 

 

DEPRESSION 1

 

Whule high moments are simply moments of joy and happiness whereby feats,success and achievements are celebrated and appreciated.They are moments whereby elevation and promotion achieved,acquired and attainedalways trigger a sort of self-fulfilment  and personal achievement that made the concerned person to feel on top of the world.It is a moment of addition, multiplication and all round expansion and enlargement that surfaced as a suprise keeping the mouth of the concerned wide opened.

 

 

DEPRESSION 2

 

On the opposite, low moments are moments of discouragement,failures,stagnancy and struggles which are exhibited whenever futile efforts are the order of the day.These are moments whereby the concerned person feel out of place dejected and rejected which might culminate into the thought of unknown fear,depression and attempted murder.

 

Many people in the world have been victims of low moments with decimal and statistics of such instances affecting the existence of humanity increasing geometrically and asymetrically due to many factors that have constituted and blended together as a source of challenges pumelling the fabrics of the entire global community.

 

Many incidences and instances of depression that ended in suicide have been witnessed across the length and breadth of the entire world which on many ocassions have been linked and traced to reasons that has to do with the waves of challenges being faced by human beings all over the world.

 

Since,this is an ugly reality that ic difficult to shy away from.there is an urgent need to briefly look into some sorts of visible and workable palliative measures needed to cushion the effect accompanying low moment.

 

 

DEPRESSION 3

 

The solution should not be far-fetched but it embedded into fabrics of human existence as a duty and a responsibility that must be executed by every human being to see the reason why staying positive is necessary no matter how miry situation on ground might be.


(10 STEPS TO REMAINING PERPECTUALLY POSITIVE—PAGE ONE.)

 

 

10 STEPS THAT ENHANCES AND BOOST POSITIVE MENTALITY.

 

1.Maintain candour and calmness

 

2.Change your environment if the need arises.

 

3.Avoid loneliness

 

4.To talk to someone you trust.

 

5.Share your problem.

 

6.Seek help and solace from trusted friends and familiars.

 

7.Consult a guidance and counselling experts.

 

8.Since comparism steals joy,stop comparing yourself with others.

 

9.Appreciate what you have.

 

10.Be contented and hopeful.

 

 

POSITIVE 2

 

Putting all these in place is potent and powerful enought to water-down and douse the effect of negative mentality that can trigger depression that might lead to attempted suicide.

 

One of the best solution that is needed in preventing the scourge of depression is the inbuilt ability of anyone concerned to stay positive and maintained this positivity no matter how miry that challenges being faced might be.

 

Suicide is for weak minds but the strong minded spend their lifes looking at the positive side of life.

 

 

POSITIVE 1

 

Life is beautiful.Don’t take your life.

 

Everything shall be alright,it is just a matter of time,patience and persevearance that is unequalled and unparalled in all ramifications.


(10 STEPS TO REMAINING PERPECTUALLY POSITIVE—PAGE TWO).

 

Tag:

 

#Inspitration#

 

#Motivation#

 

#Depression#

 

#Suicide#

 

Ref:

 

http://www.fotor.com

 

http://unsplash.com

 

©Wordsmith Scribe 2018.

 

©Mlst.blog

 

©Fadeyi Felix Femi

10 WAYS TO REMAINING PERPECTUALLY POSITIVE.—(6 MINUTES READ).

With or without arguments and debates,no one can deny or feign ignorance of two practical realities that are always refelected,exhibited and displayed in the course of human existenceon earthly pedestal.

 

Often times than none,majority or larger percentage of human always experience the mixture of these extremes.

 

No doubt about it,every human being is wired and designed to encounter low moments and high moments.

 

 

DEPRESSION 1

 

Whule high moments are simply moments of joy and happiness whereby feats,success and achievements are celebrated and appreciated.They are moments whereby elevation and promotion achieved,acquired and attainedalways trigger a sort of self-fulfilment  and personal achievement that made the concerned person to feel on top of the world.It is a moment of addition, multiplication and all round expansion and enlargement that surfaced as a suprise keeping the mouth of the concerned wide opened.

 

 

DEPRESSION 2

 

On the opposite, low moments are moments of discouragement,failures,stagnancy and struggles which are exhibited whenever futile efforts are the order of the day.These are moments whereby the concerned person feel out of place dejected and rejected which might culminate into the thought of unknown fear,depression and attempted murder.

 

Many people in the world have been victims of low moments with decimal and statistics of such instances affecting the existence of humanity increasing geometrically and asymetrically due to many factors that have constituted and blended together as a source of challenges pumelling the fabrics of the entire global community.

 

Many incidences and instances of depression that ended in suicide have been witnessed across the length and breadth of the entire world which on many ocassions have been linked and traced to reasons that has to do with the waves of challenges being faced by human beings all over the world.

 

Since,this is an ugly reality that ic difficult to shy away from.there is an urgent need to briefly look into some sorts of visible and workable palliative measures needed to cushion the effect accompanying low moment.

 

 

DEPRESSION 3

 

The solution should not be far-fetched but it embedded into fabrics of human existence as a duty and a responsibility that must be executed by every human being to see the reason why staying positive is necessary no matter how miry situation on ground might be.


(10 STEPS TO REMAINING PERPECTUALLY POSITIVE—PAGE ONE.)

 

 

10 STEPS THAT ENHANCES AND BOOST POSITIVE MENTALITY.

 

1.Maintain candour and calmness

 

2.Change your environment if the need arises.

 

3.Avoid loneliness

 

4.To talk to someone you trust.

 

5.Share your problem.

 

6.Seek help and solace from trusted friends and familiars.

 

7.Consult a guidance and counselling experts.

 

8.Since comparism steals joy,stop comparing yourself with others.

 

9.Appreciate what you have.

 

10.Be contented and hopeful.

 

 

POSITIVE 2

 

Putting all these in place is potent and powerful enought to water-down and douse the effect of negative mentality that can trigger depression that might lead to attempted suicide.

 

One of the best solution that is needed in preventing the scourge of depression is the inbuilt ability of anyone concerned to stay positive and maintained this positivity no matter how miry that challenges being faced might be.

 

Suicide is for weak minds but the strong minded spend their lifes looking at the positive side of life.

 

 

POSITIVE 1

 

Life is beautiful.Don’t take your life.

 

Everything shall be alright,it is just a matter of time,patience and persevearance that is unequalled and unparalled in all ramifications.


(10 STEPS TO REMAINING PERPECTUALLY POSITIVE—PAGE TWO).

 

Tag:

 

#Inspitration#

 

#Motivation#

 

#Depression#

 

#Suicide#

 

Ref:

 

http://www.fotor.com

 

http://unsplash.com

 

©Wordsmith Scribe 2018.

 

©Mlst.blog

 

©Fadeyi Felix Femi

BEFORE YOU QUIT YOUR JOB!(4 MINUTES READ)

This piece was written by an ally of mine on facebook and I pleaded with her to grant me permission to publish it on my blog.I believe it will be a source of inspiration to many people who are in quandary whether to quit or move on with their job.

 

job 1

 

 

I hope it will fulfill its purpose.

It reads thus:

Before you quit your 9-5,

Make sure you are mentally ready for business.

It’s no child’s play and trust me those famine days will come.

 

 

A single soul may not patronise you for a month,may be three months,

What would you do then?

Regret leaving your job or face the issue head on?

Think deeply about it.

 

job 2

 

 

 

Also before you outsource your brand,

be sure it’s to competent people,

 

 

 

job 3

 

Your early years may take you 3-5 years,

that’s the time the business needs you 100percent.

Don’t start forming oga or madam yet.

If you intend a long term brand,

Put in all your best.

Roll up your sleeves and do the dirty work,

Remember, free money is not coming again.

You work for each naira you make.

No unnecessary cold stone or pizza.

No unproductive hang outs.

You starts to manage your time around your brand.

You will loose friends and sometimes family.

You wont even pick calls that aren’t business inclined most times.

 

job 4

 

 

 

Now if giving is your DNA,

Just be ready to make enemies.

People will want free services especially your close friends.

 

 

 

Don’t rush your process.

One success shouldn’t cloud your vision and make you think you have arrived.

No you haven’t.

Brand managers, strategists, marketers will contact you,

Those people know how to make you run faster than your purpose.

Beware!!!!

 

They will use all kinds of brands as examples even your “competitors”.

They will advise you to spend stupidly….

Discern!!!!

 

The only competitor in your field is you.

Be very original and carve your own niche.

Don’t watch another person’s private movie.

 

The day you give a discount for a fixed price is the day you loose your value.

You can do discount promo later.

Let your yes be yes and your no be no.

Take only orders you can handle.

Don’t be greedy.

 

Overnight success is a component of years.

Maybe five, maybe ten sometimes.

Don’t be intimidated by new brands,

who seems to be the buzz.

 

Master one business before starting another.

There is no late-comer in success.

It is a journey.

 

DEFINITION OF TERMS:

 

  • Paragragh 4–*Naira-*–This is the type of currency spend in Nigeria.
  • Paragraph 5–*oga or madam* simply conotes male boss or female boss

Credit:Olashile Ayobami–Founder SOUPAMARKET.

Special thanks to TEMITOPE OGUNJUYIGBE ADEGBENJO.

Tag:

 

#Enterpreneurship#

 

#inspiration#

 

#motivation#

 

#personal articles and writings#

 

#careers#

 

#empowerment#

 

Ref:

 

 

http://unsplash.com

 

 

©Wordsmith Scribe 2018

 

©mlst.blog

 

©Fadeyi Felix Femi

 

BEFORE YOU QUIT YOUR JOB!(4 MINUTES READ)

This piece was written by an ally of mine on facebook and I pleaded with her to grant me permission to publish it on my blog.I believe it will be a source of inspiration to many people who are in quandary whether to quit or move on with their job.

 

 

job 1

 

 

I hope it will fulfill its purpose.

It reads thus:

Before you quit your 9-5,

Make sure you are mentally ready for business.

It’s no child’s play and trust me those famine days will come.

 

 

A single soul may not patronise you for a month,may be three months,

What would you do then?

Regret leaving your job or face the issue head on?

Think deeply about it.

 

job 2

 

 

 

Also before you outsource your brand,

be sure it’s to competent people,

 

 

 

job 3

 

Your early years may take you 3-5 years,

that’s the time the business needs you 100percent.

Don’t start forming oga or madam yet.

If you intend a long term brand,

Put in all your best.

Roll up your sleeves and do the dirty work,

Remember, free money is not coming again.

You work for each naira you make.

No unnecessary cold stone or pizza.

No unproductive hang outs.

You starts to manage your time around your brand.

You will loose friends and sometimes family.

You wont even pick calls that aren’t business inclined most times.

 

job 4

 

 

 

Now if giving is your DNA,

Just be ready to make enemies.

People will want free services especially your close friends.

 

 

 

Don’t rush your process.

One success shouldn’t cloud your vision and make you think you have arrived.

No you haven’t.

Brand managers, strategists, marketers will contact you,

Those people know how to make you run faster than your purpose.

Beware!!!!

 

They will use all kinds of brands as examples even your “competitors”.

They will advise you to spend stupidly….

Discern!!!!

 

The only competitor in your field is you.

Be very original and carve your own niche.

Don’t watch another person’s private movie.

 

The day you give a discount for a fixed price is the day you loose your value.

You can do discount promo later.

Let your yes be yes and your no be no.

Take only orders you can handle.

Don’t be greedy.

 

Overnight success is a component of years.

Maybe five, maybe ten sometimes.

Don’t be intimidated by new brands,

who seems to be the buzz.

 

Master one business before starting another.

There is no late-comer in success.

It is a journey.

 

DEFINITION OF TERMS:

 

  • Paragragh 4–*Naira-*–This is the type of currency spend in Nigeria.
  • Paragraph 5–*oga or madam* simply conotes male boss or female boss

Credit:Olashile Ayobami–Founder SOUPAMARKET.

Special thanks to TEMITOPE OGUNJUYIGBE ADEGBENJO.

Tag:

 

#Enterpreneurship#

 

#inspiration#

 

#motivation#

 

#personal articles and writings#

 

#careers#

 

#empowerment#

 

Ref:

 

 

http://unsplash.com

 

 

©Wordsmith Scribe 2018

 

©mlst.blog

 

©Fadeyi Felix Femi

BEFORE YOU QUIT YOUR JOB!(4 MINUTES READ)

This piece was written by an ally of mine on facebook and I pleaded with her to grant me permission to publish it on my blog.I believe it will be a source of inspiration to many people who are in quandary whether to quit or move on with their job.

 

 

job 1

 

 

I hope it will fulfill its purpose.

It reads thus:

Before you quit your 9-5,

Make sure you are mentally ready for business.

It’s no child’s play and trust me those famine days will come.

 

 

A single soul may not patronise you for a month,may be three months,

What would you do then?

Regret leaving your job or face the issue head on?

Think deeply about it.

 

job 2

 

 

 

Also before you outsource your brand,

be sure it’s to competent people,

 

 

 

job 3

 

Your early years may take you 3-5 years,

that’s the time the business needs you 100percent.

Don’t start forming oga or madam yet.

If you intend a long term brand,

Put in all your best.

Roll up your sleeves and do the dirty work,

Remember, free money is not coming again.

You work for each naira you make.

No unnecessary cold stone or pizza.

No unproductive hang outs.

You starts to manage your time around your brand.

You will loose friends and sometimes family.

You wont even pick calls that aren’t business inclined most times.

 

job 4

 

 

 

Now if giving is your DNA,

Just be ready to make enemies.

People will want free services especially your close friends.

 

 

 

Don’t rush your process.

One success shouldn’t cloud your vision and make you think you have arrived.

No you haven’t.

Brand managers, strategists, marketers will contact you,

Those people know how to make you run faster than your purpose.

Beware!!!!

 

They will use all kinds of brands as examples even your “competitors”.

They will advise you to spend stupidly….

Discern!!!!

 

The only competitor in your field is you.

Be very original and carve your own niche.

Don’t watch another person’s private movie.

 

The day you give a discount for a fixed price is the day you loose your value.

You can do discount promo later.

Let your yes be yes and your no be no.

Take only orders you can handle.

Don’t be greedy.

 

Overnight success is a component of years.

Maybe five, maybe ten sometimes.

Don’t be intimidated by new brands,

who seems to be the buzz.

 

Master one business before starting another.

There is no late-comer in success.

It is a journey.

 

DEFINITION OF TERMS:

 

  • Paragragh 4–*Naira-*–This is the type of currency spend in Nigeria.
  • Paragraph 5–*oga or madam* simply conotes male boss or female boss

Credit:Olashile Ayobami–Founder SOUPAMARKET.

Special thanks to TEMITOPE OGUNJUYIGBE ADEGBENJO.

Tag:

 

#Enterpreneurship#

 

#inspiration#

 

#motivation#

 

#personal articles and writings#

 

#careers#

 

#empowerment#

 

Ref:

 

 

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©Wordsmith Scribe 2018

 

©mlst.blog

 

©Fadeyi Felix Femi

 

 

BEFORE YOU QUIT YOUR JOB!(4 MINUTES READ)

This piece was written by an ally of mine on facebook and I pleaded with her to grant me permission to publish it on my blog.I believe it will be a source of inspiration to many people who are in quandary whether to quit or move on with their job.

 

job 1

 

 

I hope it will fulfill its purpose.

It reads thus:

Before you quit your 9-5,

Make sure you are mentally ready for business.

It’s no child’s play and trust me those famine days will come.

 

 

A single soul may not patronise you for a month,may be three months,

What would you do then?

Regret leaving your job or face the issue head on?

Think deeply about it.

 

job 2

 

 

 

Also before you outsource your brand,

be sure it’s to competent people,

 

 

 

job 3

 

Your early years may take you 3-5 years,

that’s the time the business needs you 100percent.

Don’t start forming oga or madam yet.

If you intend a long term brand,

Put in all your best.

Roll up your sleeves and do the dirty work,

Remember, free money is not coming again.

You work for each naira you make.

No unnecessary cold stone or pizza.

No unproductive hang outs.

You starts to manage your time around your brand.

You will loose friends and sometimes family.

You wont even pick calls that aren’t business inclined most times.

 

job 4

 

 

 

Now if giving is your DNA,

Just be ready to make enemies.

People will want free services especially your close friends.

 

 

 

Don’t rush your process.

One success shouldn’t cloud your vision and make you think you have arrived.

No you haven’t.

Brand managers, strategists, marketers will contact you,

Those people know how to make you run faster than your purpose.

Beware!!!!

 

They will use all kinds of brands as examples even your “competitors”.

They will advise you to spend stupidly….

Discern!!!!

 

The only competitor in your field is you.

Be very original and carve your own niche.

Don’t watch another person’s private movie.

 

The day you give a discount for a fixed price is the day you loose your value.

You can do discount promo later.

Let your yes be yes and your no be no.

Take only orders you can handle.

Don’t be greedy.

 

Overnight success is a component of years.

Maybe five, maybe ten sometimes.

Don’t be intimidated by new brands,

who seems to be the buzz.

 

Master one business before starting another.

There is no late-comer in success.

It is a journey.

 

DEFINITION OF TERMS:

 

  • Paragragh 4–*Naira-*–This is the type of currency spend in Nigeria.
  • Paragraph 5–*oga or madam* simply conotes male boss or female boss

Credit:Olashile Ayobami–Founder SOUPAMARKET.

Special thanks to TEMITOPE OGUNJUYIGBE ADEGBENJO.

Tag:

 

#Enterpreneurship#

 

#inspiration#

 

#motivation#

 

#personal articles and writings#

 

#careers#

 

#empowerment#

 

Ref:

 

 

http://unsplash.com

 

 

©Wordsmith Scribe 2018

 

©mlst.blog

 

©Fadeyi Felix Femi

WHAT NEXT?—(3 Minutes read)

No doubt about it experience of life has taught us in diverse ways about the stormy vicissitudes of life that make life to be challenging and unbearable. It is not within the reach and scope of anyone’s mental ability and spiritual capacity to decipher when the storms of life will become fierce and raging.

Due to the shortsightedness and shallow mindedness of many, when issues concerning the storms of life are mentioned or tends towards becoming a subject and an object of discussion, many are quick in responding against this trend by mouthing and shouting “God forbid and that will not be my portion in Jesus Name” repeatedly as if to say  others that are passing through such a phase are being punished for their predicaments or they are enemies of God.

 

STORM OF LIFE

Times without numbers, people that are deeply spiritual have been seen to pass through unbearable phases of life like this and all that will be heard from them is “why me Lord”.As if to say God allowed such a phase in order to put them under curse or punishment.

It is not a gainsaying that the challenges of life are real and they forced their presence on people without their consent.The untold hardship many people are battling with are unimaginable and they are better left not being discussed because it has defied every reasonable approach to get urgent solution.

The irony of life is that what makes champions are challenges.The myriads of challenges is not what really matters, what matters is the stories of conquest that made champions out of those myriads of challenges.

Champions are moulded and made when the right attitude needed to turn challenges into stories of victory are available and applied within a period of time.It is attitude that makes winners not quitting and it is attitude that makes looser quit even at the advent of the challenges.Stories of victories and conquests ever related in the annals of history of mankind revolve around attitudinal approach that are positively channelled towards getting the head up even when the bowl is hot.

Challenges makes champion. The beauty of golds and many precious stones emerge when they passed through furnace.How will your stories be listened to without its contents being rallied  around battles and corresponding conquests and victory.

The load might be heavy but know that the weight will make you strong.

WHAT NEXT?

After the loss of your brother,

After the loss of your child,

After the loss of your wife,

After the loss of your job

After the loss of that contract,

After you have lost everything, 

After being deserted by friends and families,

What next?

Hold on when the sun is hot!!

Hold on when the bowl is hot!!

Every challenge of life is transient.

Every challenge is bound to expire.

Weeping may endure for a night.

Your joy cometh in the morning.

If you can hold on throughout the night, surely there is a brighter morning.

A crucial step needs to be taken as the next step.There is no need to mourn your loss forever.It is of no point sitting down on a spot without finding lasting solutions to the issues on ground.

You need to rise up and buckle up to weather the storm of life by maximising the inner strength in you to face the challenges of life.It is until when you believed that there is a brighter side to every dark side that your moments of regrets will fizzle out.



  • dedicated to those who loose their beloved ones in 2017
  • Dedicated to those who loose precious valuable things in 2017
  • Dedicated to those who loose their jobs in 2017

Tag:#motivation#inspiration#writings#empowerment


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WHY ARE YOU SAD?—-(10 MINUTES READ).

This short piece was written on the 2nd of March 2016 as part of my daily post or publication on facebook.The source of the inspiration which is personal remain somehow unknown and unclear but I believe the content therin will serve as a sort of resources that will enhance our self-esteem that will birth a kind of re-orientation about our view along the line of maintaining good personal and corporate relationship.

 

It is observed that many of us become saddened,moody and pensive when we get an inkling that we are been mocked and talked about by others.It is a kind of attitude that is common across the length and breadth of the entire human race whereby many people spend a bunch of their time backbitting and throwing stones at others.Many of us are actors of this irrelevant and many of us are victims of this irrelevant.

 

It is necessary for many of us to understand and develop a thick skin with blocked ear to some of this irrelevancies that is commonality among human being remains unquantifiable.

 

According to Winston Churchill:

 

“You will never get to your destination when you throw stones at every dog that bark at you”

 

You will get nothing out of life if you are bothered about what people are saying about you.Being bothered and being suspicious about what people are saying about you is a sign and a product of immaturity and low self-esteem.

 

Like food,people will feed on your matter.

 

Like water,people will gulp your issue to quench their thirst.

 

Like a dog, people will nag their loose tongue.

 

Even the dead are being talked about everyday.

 

I want you to have this in mind that those who gossip about you remains at your back forever.

 

REJOICE!!!

 

When people talk about you!!!

 

One of the best effective ways of knowing the level of maturity you are made of is simply shown outrightly through your response and reaction to whatever people are saying about you.

 

When you expected little or nothing from people around you,your reaction and response to disappointment will be minimal and less-shocking but when you raised your hope about people and build your castle in the air, you will end up being saddened and biittered when you are disappointed .

 

I want you to know this mystery that you are being gossipped about because you are important to them,if you are not important to them, they will never spend a bunch of their precious time debating and deliberating about issues that concern you.

 

MOODY 2
WHY ARE YOU SAD?

 

So, whenever you have an inkling that you are being gossipped about, just have this understanding that your life is meaningfully filled with virtues that are important to them,hence they are jealous and they desire having an opportunity to possess such a virtue.

 

Instead of complaining and reacting to people’s view and assertion about you,the best response to the contents of their gossip is top wave it aside with a bare hand and move ahead with your life being focussed on your purpose in life.

 

It is only those who are incapable of discovering their purpose in life that spend their little time at their disposal discussing issues that has nothing to do with them.

 

When you want to know and understand the worth of any man,it is necessary to know what the mouth of such person says about another person.

 

As life is real, gossipping also is real.It is an evil that almost every human is guilty of but the worst of its evil spring up when the person being gossipped about becomes embittered and saddened about it.

 

Since no two wrongs can make a right, it is better to manage your emotion in terms of response and reaction towards whatever people might be saying at your back.

 

Kindly allow whatever is being discussed at your back to remain at your back.Do not brink it forward to your face so that you will not end up frowning and it will prevent you from wearing a harsh look accompany with you looking for a way to revenge by taking your own pound of flesh.

 

Whatever is being said at your back should remain at your back till eternity.This is one of the secrets of longevity that will help in making you to understand the value of your purpose in life accompany with efforts that will make you achieve such purpose in the course of your existence.

 

When you are saddened about people talking about you,you have given them cahnces and opportunities to control your feelings and emotions.Once this happened, you have exchanged the power in you in response to your reaction about what has been said about you.

 

Your response and reactions in the face of adversity is what determines whether you will end up winning or loosing in the course of your fight for conquest or victory.When your reaction and response is negative, you have given your enemy power over you but once your reponse is calm and positive, all your enemies become weakened and they end up loosing their power and potency that might have been used to cage and control you.

 

The golden key to your happinness lies with you.Never give loose it through your response and reaction to situations around you.No matter how long you live on earth, there will always be moments of ups and downs but it is your preparation and readiness for staying above the reality of any moment that will determine how matured you are and how capable and able you are to ride the roller-coaster of life that is always unstable.

 

MOODY 3
WHY ARE YOU SAD?

 

Can you measure the Kilojoule of inherent latent energy wasted and expended when you react and respond negatively to whatever rumour is being peddled about you?It is quite ironical that many of us spend our energy on what we not add any value to us and one of the areas we wasted energy on is our reaction and response to gossip from people around us.

 

No matter what the situation might be, you have what it takes to live your life above whatever the rumour that might be peddled and spread around about you.

 

Rumour mongering and gossipping are parts of human life.If humans refrain from this, I dont think the existence of human beings could be possible.

 

When you consider what is being rumoured and gossipped about you as irrelevant and inconsequential, it will reamin a minor issue that can never remove anything from you and you will be able to stay afloat and be in charge of your emotion.

 

To cap it all:

 

BE HAPPY!!!

 

STOP BEING BOTHERED!!!

 

 

STOP BEING PENSIVE!!!

 

STOP BEING SAD!!!.

 

STOP WEARING A HARSH LOOK!!!

 

Sadness takes away virtues and values from you.It is a stylish and a slow channel to making someone becoming a beast that has lost the grip of what life is all about.

 

Sadness does nothing but  weakens your nerves and bones thereby becoming old and worn-out withing a little period of time.

 

Sadness makes you look haggard and unkempt.

 

 

Tag:

 

#Gossipping#

 

#Rumour mongering#

 

#Moody#

 

#Inspiration#

 

#Motivation#

 

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