Do you know the rules for a long and happy marriage?

Among all the rules that are available, these 10 rules are enough to guarantee a long and a happy marriage.

 

These are:

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MLST ARTICLE:A LETTER FROM YOUR ERRING LOVER.–(5 Minutes Read).

I thought it is all over,

I thought I have lost you,

I thought an end has come.

 

I glanced around seen the end,

I groaned thinking I have thrashed all,

I panicked about my error and mistake.

 

 

LOVE 3

 

At the edge of loosen you,

I discovered how precious you are to me,

In my mystery,

I stretched my hands,

reaching out to you,

My effort was abortive,

It was like a candle in the wind,

The softness I had for you,

Started fading away and quenching,

With no strength to lighten it again.

 

I cried out,

I groaned,

I gnashed my teeth,

Help was not in sight.

 

When I see you been moody and saddened,

I lost control of myself,

My confidence kept beating,

My conscience becomes my enemy,

My heart kept pounding and pouncing.

 

 

LOVE 4

 

I knew I goofed in my choice of words,

I disrespected you and maltreated you,

I made you passed through the pain of unguarded utterances.

 

Within a few minutes,

My mouth attracted hell,

Demons fed on my words,

Hell was let loosed.

 

All I have build with you crashed,

I suffered and languished in pain,

No one is around,

To listen to my story of foolishness,

There is no one around that knows that I am dying gradually,

 

As my confidant,

I pull my cloak of pride and dishonour,

I removed my cloth of loose words,

I burnt my apparel of foolishness.

 

Like a prodigal son,

I went back to you,

I reached out to you,

I sought for your hands,

I reached out to you.

 

Though, you find it difficult,

To listen to my plea of forgiveness,

I am ashamed asking for your hands of forgiveness,

Despite this,

You accepted my prayers of restitution.

 

How can I describe you,

You are such a rare friend,

I can’t afford to loose you.

 

Though, I have an option of walking away miserably.

 

You accepted me,

You restored my confidence,

You strengthened my weakness,

Above all, you gave me a second chance.

 

It is painful accepting me back into your life.

I caused your tears flowing,

I pushed you on the path of pain and regret..

 

I promised to make up with you.

 

I promised to remain a listening ear,

I promised to be a shoulder you can lean on,

I promised to be a pillow to lay your head on.

 

Though, we are not destinied to be married,

I want you to know,

How much I love you.

 

 

Love 1

 

You are such a darling.

 

Thanks for today.

 

The only one that loves you,

Might rush and be hasty,

To err,and caused you pain,agony and distress,

but will rush and be hasty,

In seeking for your hands in forgiveness.

 

Now I know that,

The grip of our happiness,

Lies with our friends.

Friendship should not be taken for granted.

 

A friend that is ready,

To strengthen your flaws and weaknesses,

Is a real friend.

Never walk away from such friend.

 

To every pain,

Restitution and forgiveness are soothing,

They are priceless elixir to trouble minds.

 

Your real friends will always offend you,

Your real friends will always  accept your pleas for forgiveness.

 

It is difficult to account nad correct,

The impact of our mistake,

It might be costly and destructive.

Hence be mindful of others.

 

To err is human,

To forgive is divine.

 

Thanks for being there.

 

 

This is a true life experience presented in this article in the form of a poem.

 

“We appreciate ourselves better when we hurt others hastily but sought for forgiveness before it gets late”

 

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DESIRED SHARED AUTHORITY DESERVES SHARED RESPONSIBILITY.—(4 Minutes Read).

The original version of this article was written and published on Facebook on the 7th of September 2016.

 

I read through it not quite long and I am confident that the quality of the content therein will serve as an eye-opener and a source of inspiration and motivation for many marriages and relationship that are struggling to stand and those that are on the verge of collapsing.

 

I believed that the purpose will be fulfilled expressly.

 

This is how it goes:

 

Without any form of argument or being old schooled, marriage imposed a level of reasonable authority on every man.

 

Authority is imposed by divinity through marital vow on every husband and this must be exhibited and discharged meaningfully not by masculinity and “machoness” only but by simple discharge of timely responsibility without any iota and atom of reluctance,delay and resentment.

 

Responsible married men are known and praised by discharging their responsibilities without any form of coaxing and cuddling.

 

No wife should be bold and confident enough to challenge or raise an eye-brow by being indifferent to the correction and instruction of her husband once it is meant to be progressive and developmental without any readiness to share the responsibility needed in the family.

 

It will tantamount to meaningless insurbodination when you are deaf to your husband’s correction and instruction.This simply signal your desire to share parts of the responsibility needed in the family.

brunch

 

Authority is akin and equals shared responsibility discharged by the parties involved in marriage without any trace of self-centredness.

 

Being indifferent to your husband authority signals your desire and envy to share the autority purposed and bestowed on your husband by divinity.

 

Desired equality between husband and wife is quite good and right but it becomes meaningful when the husband and wife are ready to share the responsibilities required for a balanced marital union equally.

“Desired equality between husband and wife connote desired shared authority and desired shared authority denotes desired shared responsibilities being shared equally in content and context having thesame running cost and thesame accompanied reward”.

 

Once this is in place, the confusion and misunderstanding embedded in marriages in this generation will end up being a thing of the past.

 

“Gone are the days of Mr.and Mrs.”

 

“In this generation, we have more of Mr.and Mr. stylishly-a kind of gayism that has not being noted by us and defined by us.”

 

Marriage should not be a battle ground for unhealthy rivalry between husband and wife.

 

“Marriage is designed for completion and not competition”.

 

In spite of the authority given by divinity to man, it should not be misconstrued as a tool for oppression and subjudigation by the husband.It is a necessity that must be used to propel meaningful love and care to the wife and the children.

 

No trace of disrespect and maltreatment should be allowed in the idealogy of the husband in discharging the authority granted to him by divinity.

 

In conclusion,marriage gets more interesting and meaningful whenever the basic understanding and knowledge needed to make it work meaningfully are on ground.

 

It should be designed to make the partners involved better in every ramification of human endeavour.

 

It is an addition not a subtraction.

 

Marriage is a treasure and not a burden.

 

Tag:#Authority#Marriage#Relationship#Dating#Personalarticlesandwriting#Family#Dating

 

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DESIRED SHARED AUTHORITY DESERVES SHARED RESPONSIBILITY.—(4 Minutes Read).

The original version of this article was written and published on Facebook on the 7th of September 2016.

 

I read through it not quite long and I am confident that the quality of the content therein will serve as an eye-opener and a source of inspiration and motivation for many marriages and relationship that are struggling to stand and those that are on the verge of collapsing.

 

I believed that the purpose will be fulfilled expressly.

 

This is how it goes:

 

Without any form of argument or being old schooled, marriage imposed a level of reasonable authority on every man.

 

Authority is imposed by divinity through marital vow on every husband and this must be exhibited and discharged meaningfully not by masculinity and “machoness” only but by simple discharge of timely responsibility without any iota and atom of reluctance,delay and resentment.

 

Responsible married men are known and praised by discharging their responsibilities without any form of coaxing and cuddling.

 

No wife should be bold and confident enough to challenge or raise an eye-brow by being indifferent to the correction and instruction of her husband once it is meant to be progressive and developmental without any readiness to share the responsibility needed in the family.

 

It will tantamount to meaningless insurbodination when you are deaf to your husband’s correction and instruction.This simply signal your desire to share parts of the responsibility needed in the family.

brunch

 

Authority is akin and equals shared responsibility discharged by the parties involved in marriage without any trace of self-centredness.

 

Being indifferent to your husband authority signals your desire and envy to share the autority purposed and bestowed on your husband by divinity.

 

Desired equality between husband and wife is quite good and right but it becomes meaningful when the husband and wife are ready to share the responsibilities required for a balanced marital union equally.

“Desired equality between husband and wife connote desired shared authority and desired shared authority denotes desired shared responsibilities being shared equally in content and context having thesame running cost and thesame accompanied reward”.

 

Once this is in place, the confusion and misunderstanding embedded in marriages in this generation will end up being a thing of the past.

 

“Gone are the days of Mr.and Mrs.”

 

“In this generation, we have more of Mr.and Mr. stylishly-a kind of gayism that has not being noted by us and defined by us.”

 

Marriage should not be a battle ground for unhealthy rivalry between husband and wife.

 

“Marriage is designed for completion and not competition”.

 

In spite of the authority given by divinity to man, it should not be misconstrued as a tool for oppression and subjudigation by the husband.It is a necessity that must be used to propel meaningful love and care to the wife and the children.

 

No trace of disrespect and maltreatment should be allowed in the idealogy of the husband in discharging the authority granted to him by divinity.

 

In conclusion,marriage gets more interesting and meaningful whenever the basic understanding and knowledge needed to make it work meaningfully are on ground.

 

It should be designed to make the partners involved better in every ramification of human endeavour.

 

It is an addition not a subtraction.

 

Marriage is a treasure and not a burden.

 

Tag:#Authority#Marriage#Relationship#Dating#Personalarticlesandwriting#Family#Dating

 

Ref:www.canva.com

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DESIRED SHARED AUTHORITY DESERVES SHARED RESPONSIBILITY.—(4 Minutes Read).

The original version of this article was written and published on Facebook on the 7th of September 2016.

 

I read through it not quite long and I am confident that the quality of the content therein will serve as an eye-opener and a source of inspiration and motivation for many marriages and relationship that are struggling to stand and those that are on the verge of collapsing.

 

I believed that the purpose will be fulfilled expressly.

 

This is how it goes:

 

Without any form of argument or being old schooled, marriage imposed a level of reasonable authority on every man.

 

Authority is imposed by divinity through marital vow on every husband and this must be exhibited and discharged meaningfully not by masculinity and “machoness” only but by simple discharge of timely responsibility without any iota and atom of reluctance,delay and resentment.

 

Responsible married men are known and praised by discharging their responsibilities without any form of coaxing and cuddling.

 

No wife should be bold and confident enough to challenge or raise an eye-brow by being indifferent to the correction and instruction of her husband once it is meant to be progressive and developmental without any readiness to share the responsibility needed in the family.

 

It will tantamount to meaningless insurbodination when you are deaf to your husband’s correction and instruction.This simply signal your desire to share parts of the responsibility needed in the family.

brunch

 

Authority is akin and equals shared responsibility discharged by the parties involved in marriage without any trace of self-centredness.

 

Being indifferent to your husband authority signals your desire and envy to share the autority purposed and bestowed on your husband by divinity.

 

Desired equality between husband and wife is quite good and right but it becomes meaningful when the husband and wife are ready to share the responsibilities required for a balanced marital union equally.

“Desired equality between husband and wife connote desired shared authority and desired shared authority denotes desired shared responsibilities being shared equally in content and context having thesame running cost and thesame accompanied reward”.

 

Once this is in place, the confusion and misunderstanding embedded in marriages in this generation will end up being a thing of the past.

 

“Gone are the days of Mr.and Mrs.”

 

“In this generation, we have more of Mr.and Mr. stylishly-a kind of gayism that has not being noted by us and defined by us.”

 

Marriage should not be a battle ground for unhealthy rivalry between husband and wife.

 

“Marriage is designed for completion and not competition”.

 

In spite of the authority given by divinity to man, it should not be misconstrued as a tool for oppression and subjudigation by the husband.It is a necessity that must be used to propel meaningful love and care to the wife and the children.

 

No trace of disrespect and maltreatment should be allowed in the idealogy of the husband in discharging the authority granted to him by divinity.

 

In conclusion,marriage gets more interesting and meaningful whenever the basic understanding and knowledge needed to make it work meaningfully are on ground.

 

It should be designed to make the partners involved better in every ramification of human endeavour.

 

It is an addition not a subtraction.

 

Marriage is a treasure and not a burden.

 

Tag:#Authority#Marriage#Relationship#Dating#Personalarticlesandwriting#Family#Dating

 

Ref:www.canva.com

http://search.image.yahoo.com

DESIRED SHARED AUTHORITY DESERVES SHARED RESPONSIBILITY.—(4 Minutes Read).

The original version of this article was written and published on Facebook on the 7th of September 2016.

 

I read through it not quite long and I am confident that the quality of the content therein will serve as an eye-opener and a source of inspiration and motivation for many marriages and relationship that are struggling to stand and those that are on the verge of collapsing.

 

I believed that the purpose will be fulfilled expressly.

 

This is how it goes:

 

Without any form of argument or being old schooled, marriage imposed a level of reasonable authority on every man.

 

Authority is imposed by divinity through marital vow on every husband and this must be exhibited and discharged meaningfully not by masculinity and “machoness” only but by simple discharge of timely responsibility without any iota and atom of reluctance,delay and resentment.

 

Responsible married men are known and praised by discharging their responsibilities without any form of coaxing and cuddling.

 

No wife should be bold and confident enough to challenge or raise an eye-brow by being indifferent to the correction and instruction of her husband once it is meant to be progressive and developmental without any readiness to share the responsibility needed in the family.

 

It will tantamount to meaningless insurbodination when you are deaf to your husband’s correction and instruction.This simply signal your desire to share parts of the responsibility needed in the family.

brunch

 

Authority is akin and equals shared responsibility discharged by the parties involved in marriage without any trace of self-centredness.

 

Being indifferent to your husband authority signals your desire and envy to share the autority purposed and bestowed on your husband by divinity.

 

Desired equality between husband and wife is quite good and right but it becomes meaningful when the husband and wife are ready to share the responsibilities required for a balanced marital union equally.

“Desired equality between husband and wife connote desired shared authority and desired shared authority denotes desired shared responsibilities being shared equally in content and context having thesame running cost and thesame accompanied reward”.

 

Once this is in place, the confusion and misunderstanding embedded in marriages in this generation will end up being a thing of the past.

 

“Gone are the days of Mr.and Mrs.”

 

“In this generation, we have more of Mr.and Mr. stylishly-a kind of gayism that has not being noted by us and defined by us.”

 

Marriage should not be a battle ground for unhealthy rivalry between husband and wife.

 

“Marriage is designed for completion and not competition”.

 

In spite of the authority given by divinity to man, it should not be misconstrued as a tool for oppression and subjudigation by the husband.It is a necessity that must be used to propel meaningful love and care to the wife and the children.

 

No trace of disrespect and maltreatment should be allowed in the idealogy of the husband in discharging the authority granted to him by divinity.

 

In conclusion,marriage gets more interesting and meaningful whenever the basic understanding and knowledge needed to make it work meaningfully are on ground.

 

It should be designed to make the partners involved better in every ramification of human endeavour.

 

It is an addition not a subtraction.

 

Marriage is a treasure and not a burden.

 

Tag:#Authority#Marriage#Relationship#Dating#Personalarticlesandwriting#Family#Dating

 

Ref:www.canva.com

http://search.image.yahoo.com

DESIRED SHARED AUTHORITY DESERVES SHARED RESPONSIBILITY.—(4 Minutes Read).

The original version of this article was written and published on Facebook on the 7th of September 2016.

 

I read through it not quite long and I am confident that the quality of the content therein will serve as an eye-opener and a source of inspiration and motivation for many marriages and relationship that are struggling to stand and those that are on the verge of collapsing.

 

I believed that the purpose will be fulfilled expressly.

 

This is how it goes:

 

Without any form of argument or being old schooled, marriage imposed a level of reasonable authority on every man.

 

Authority is imposed by divinity through marital vow on every husband and this must be exhibited and discharged meaningfully not by masculinity and “machoness” only but by simple discharge of timely responsibility without any iota and atom of reluctance,delay and resentment.

 

Responsible married men are known and praised by discharging their responsibilities without any form of coaxing and cuddling.

 

No wife should be bold and confident enough to challenge or raise an eye-brow by being indifferent to the correction and instruction of her husband once it is meant to be progressive and developmental without any readiness to share the responsibility needed in the family.

 

It will tantamount to meaningless insurbodination when you are deaf to your husband’s correction and instruction.This simply signal your desire to share parts of the responsibility needed in the family.

brunch

 

Authority is akin and equals shared responsibility discharged by the parties involved in marriage without any trace of self-centredness.

 

Being indifferent to your husband authority signals your desire and envy to share the autority purposed and bestowed on your husband by divinity.

 

Desired equality between husband and wife is quite good and right but it becomes meaningful when the husband and wife are ready to share the responsibilities required for a balanced marital union equally.

“Desired equality between husband and wife connote desired shared authority and desired shared authority denotes desired shared responsibilities being shared equally in content and context having thesame running cost and thesame accompanied reward”.

 

Once this is in place, the confusion and misunderstanding embedded in marriages in this generation will end up being a thing of the past.

 

“Gone are the days of Mr.and Mrs.”

 

“In this generation, we have more of Mr.and Mr. stylishly-a kind of gayism that has not being noted by us and defined by us.”

 

Marriage should not be a battle ground for unhealthy rivalry between husband and wife.

 

“Marriage is designed for completion and not competition”.

 

In spite of the authority given by divinity to man, it should not be misconstrued as a tool for oppression and subjudigation by the husband.It is a necessity that must be used to propel meaningful love and care to the wife and the children.

 

No trace of disrespect and maltreatment should be allowed in the idealogy of the husband in discharging the authority granted to him by divinity.

 

In conclusion,marriage gets more interesting and meaningful whenever the basic understanding and knowledge needed to make it work meaningfully are on ground.

 

It should be designed to make the partners involved better in every ramification of human endeavour.

 

It is an addition not a subtraction.

 

Marriage is a treasure and not a burden.

 

Tag:#Authority#Marriage#Relationship#Dating#Personalarticlesandwriting#Family#Dating

 

Ref:www.canva.com

http://search.image.yahoo.com

DESIRED SHARED AUTHORITY DESERVES SHARED RESPONSIBILITY.—(4 Minutes Read).

The original version of this article was written and published on Facebook on the 7th of September 2016.

 

I read through it not quite long and I am confident that the quality of the content therein will serve as an eye-opener and a source of inspiration and motivation for many marriages and relationship that are struggling to stand and those that are on the verge of collapsing.

 

I believed that the purpose will be fulfilled expressly.

 

This is how it goes:

 

Without any form of argument or being old schooled, marriage imposed a level of reasonable authority on every man.

 

Authority is imposed by divinity through marital vow on every husband and this must be exhibited and discharged meaningfully not by masculinity and “machoness” only but by simple discharge of timely responsibility without any iota and atom of reluctance,delay and resentment.

 

Responsible married men are known and praised by discharging their responsibilities without any form of coaxing and cuddling.

 

No wife should be bold and confident enough to challenge or raise an eye-brow by being indifferent to the correction and instruction of her husband once it is meant to be progressive and developmental without any readiness to share the responsibility needed in the family.

 

It will tantamount to meaningless insurbodination when you are deaf to your husband’s correction and instruction.This simply signal your desire to share parts of the responsibility needed in the family.

brunch

 

Authority is akin and equals shared responsibility discharged by the parties involved in marriage without any trace of self-centredness.

 

Being indifferent to your husband authority signals your desire and envy to share the autority purposed and bestowed on your husband by divinity.

 

Desired equality between husband and wife is quite good and right but it becomes meaningful when the husband and wife are ready to share the responsibilities required for a balanced marital union equally.

“Desired equality between husband and wife connote desired shared authority and desired shared authority denotes desired shared responsibilities being shared equally in content and context having thesame running cost and thesame accompanied reward”.

 

Once this is in place, the confusion and misunderstanding embedded in marriages in this generation will end up being a thing of the past.

 

“Gone are the days of Mr.and Mrs.”

 

“In this generation, we have more of Mr.and Mr. stylishly-a kind of gayism that has not being noted by us and defined by us.”

 

Marriage should not be a battle ground for unhealthy rivalry between husband and wife.

 

“Marriage is designed for completion and not competition”.

 

In spite of the authority given by divinity to man, it should not be misconstrued as a tool for oppression and subjudigation by the husband.It is a necessity that must be used to propel meaningful love and care to the wife and the children.

 

No trace of disrespect and maltreatment should be allowed in the idealogy of the husband in discharging the authority granted to him by divinity.

 

In conclusion,marriage gets more interesting and meaningful whenever the basic understanding and knowledge needed to make it work meaningfully are on ground.

 

It should be designed to make the partners involved better in every ramification of human endeavour.

 

It is an addition not a subtraction.

 

Marriage is a treasure and not a burden.

 

Tag:#Authority#Marriage#Relationship#Dating#Personalarticlesandwriting#Family#Dating

 

Ref:www.canva.com

http://search.image.yahoo.com

DESIRED SHARED AUTHORITY DESERVES SHARED RESPONSIBILITY.—(4 Minutes Read).

The original version of this article was written and published on Facebook on the 7th of September 2016.

 

I read through it not quite long and I am confident that the quality of the content therein will serve as an eye-opener and a source of inspiration and motivation for many marriages and relationship that are struggling to stand and those that are on the verge of collapsing.

 

I believed that the purpose will be fulfilled expressly.

 

This is how it goes:

 

Without any form of argument or being old schooled, marriage imposed a level of reasonable authority on every man.

 

Authority is imposed by divinity through marital vow on every husband and this must be exhibited and discharged meaningfully not by masculinity and “machoness” only but by simple discharge of timely responsibility without any iota and atom of reluctance,delay and resentment.

 

Responsible married men are known and praised by discharging their responsibilities without any form of coaxing and cuddling.

 

No wife should be bold and confident enough to challenge or raise an eye-brow by being indifferent to the correction and instruction of her husband once it is meant to be progressive and developmental without any readiness to share the responsibility needed in the family.

 

It will tantamount to meaningless insurbodination when you are deaf to your husband’s correction and instruction.This simply signal your desire to share parts of the responsibility needed in the family.

brunch

 

Authority is akin and equals shared responsibility discharged by the parties involved in marriage without any trace of self-centredness.

 

Being indifferent to your husband authority signals your desire and envy to share the autority purposed and bestowed on your husband by divinity.

 

Desired equality between husband and wife is quite good and right but it becomes meaningful when the husband and wife are ready to share the responsibilities required for a balanced marital union equally.

“Desired equality between husband and wife connote desired shared authority and desired shared authority denotes desired shared responsibilities being shared equally in content and context having thesame running cost and thesame accompanied reward”.

 

Once this is in place, the confusion and misunderstanding embedded in marriages in this generation will end up being a thing of the past.

 

“Gone are the days of Mr.and Mrs.”

 

“In this generation, we have more of Mr.and Mr. stylishly-a kind of gayism that has not being noted by us and defined by us.”

 

Marriage should not be a battle ground for unhealthy rivalry between husband and wife.

 

“Marriage is designed for completion and not competition”.

 

In spite of the authority given by divinity to man, it should not be misconstrued as a tool for oppression and subjudigation by the husband.It is a necessity that must be used to propel meaningful love and care to the wife and the children.

 

No trace of disrespect and maltreatment should be allowed in the idealogy of the husband in discharging the authority granted to him by divinity.

 

In conclusion,marriage gets more interesting and meaningful whenever the basic understanding and knowledge needed to make it work meaningfully are on ground.

 

It should be designed to make the partners involved better in every ramification of human endeavour.

 

It is an addition not a subtraction.

 

Marriage is a treasure and not a burden.

 

Tag:#Authority#Marriage#Relationship#Dating#Personalarticlesandwriting#Family#Dating

 

Ref:www.canva.com

http://search.image.yahoo.com

DESIRED SHARED AUTHORITY DESERVES SHARED RESPONSIBILITY.—(4 Minutes Read).

The original version of this article was written and published on Facebook on the 7th of September 2016.

 

I read through it not quite long and I am confident that the quality of the content therein will serve as an eye-opener and a source of inspiration and motivation for many marriages and relationship that are struggling to stand and those that are on the verge of collapsing.

 

I believed that the purpose will be fulfilled expressly.

 

This is how it goes:

 

Without any form of argument or being old schooled, marriage imposed a level of reasonable authority on every man.

 

Authority is imposed by divinity through marital vow on every husband and this must be exhibited and discharged meaningfully not by masculinity and “machoness” only but by simple discharge of timely responsibility without any iota and atom of reluctance,delay and resentment.

 

Responsible married men are known and praised by discharging their responsibilities without any form of coaxing and cuddling.

 

No wife should be bold and confident enough to challenge or raise an eye-brow by being indifferent to the correction and instruction of her husband once it is meant to be progressive and developmental without any readiness to share the responsibility needed in the family.

 

It will tantamount to meaningless insurbodination when you are deaf to your husband’s correction and instruction.This simply signal your desire to share parts of the responsibility needed in the family.

brunch

 

Authority is akin and equals shared responsibility discharged by the parties involved in marriage without any trace of self-centredness.

 

Being indifferent to your husband authority signals your desire and envy to share the autority purposed and bestowed on your husband by divinity.

 

Desired equality between husband and wife is quite good and right but it becomes meaningful when the husband and wife are ready to share the responsibilities required for a balanced marital union equally.

“Desired equality between husband and wife connote desired shared authority and desired shared authority denotes desired shared responsibilities being shared equally in content and context having thesame running cost and thesame accompanied reward”.

 

Once this is in place, the confusion and misunderstanding embedded in marriages in this generation will end up being a thing of the past.

 

“Gone are the days of Mr.and Mrs.”

 

“In this generation, we have more of Mr.and Mr. stylishly-a kind of gayism that has not being noted by us and defined by us.”

 

Marriage should not be a battle ground for unhealthy rivalry between husband and wife.

 

“Marriage is designed for completion and not competition”.

 

In spite of the authority given by divinity to man, it should not be misconstrued as a tool for oppression and subjudigation by the husband.It is a necessity that must be used to propel meaningful love and care to the wife and the children.

 

No trace of disrespect and maltreatment should be allowed in the idealogy of the husband in discharging the authority granted to him by divinity.

 

In conclusion,marriage gets more interesting and meaningful whenever the basic understanding and knowledge needed to make it work meaningfully are on ground.

 

It should be designed to make the partners involved better in every ramification of human endeavour.

 

It is an addition not a subtraction.

 

Marriage is a treasure and not a burden.

 

Tag:#Authority#Marriage#Relationship#Dating#Personalarticlesandwriting#Family#Dating

 

Ref:www.canva.com

http://search.image.yahoo.com

DESIRED SHARED AUTHORITY DESERVES SHARED RESPONSIBILITY.—(4 Minutes Read).

The original version of this article was written and published on Facebook on the 7th of September 2016.

 

I read through it not quite long and I am confident that the quality of the content therein will serve as an eye-opener and a source of inspiration and motivation for many marriages and relationship that are struggling to stand and those that are on the verge of collapsing.

 

I believed that the purpose will be fulfilled expressly.

 

This is how it goes:

 

Without any form of argument or being old schooled, marriage imposed a level of reasonable authority on every man.

 

Authority is imposed by divinity through marital vow on every husband and this must be exhibited and discharged meaningfully not by masculinity and “machoness” only but by simple discharge of timely responsibility without any iota and atom of reluctance,delay and resentment.

 

Responsible married men are known and praised by discharging their responsibilities without any form of coaxing and cuddling.

 

No wife should be bold and confident enough to challenge or raise an eye-brow by being indifferent to the correction and instruction of her husband once it is meant to be progressive and developmental without any readiness to share the responsibility needed in the family.

 

It will tantamount to meaningless insurbodination when you are deaf to your husband’s correction and instruction.This simply signal your desire to share parts of the responsibility needed in the family.

brunch

 

Authority is akin and equals shared responsibility discharged by the parties involved in marriage without any trace of self-centredness.

 

Being indifferent to your husband authority signals your desire and envy to share the autority purposed and bestowed on your husband by divinity.

 

Desired equality between husband and wife is quite good and right but it becomes meaningful when the husband and wife are ready to share the responsibilities required for a balanced marital union equally.

“Desired equality between husband and wife connote desired shared authority and desired shared authority denotes desired shared responsibilities being shared equally in content and context having thesame running cost and thesame accompanied reward”.

 

Once this is in place, the confusion and misunderstanding embedded in marriages in this generation will end up being a thing of the past.

 

“Gone are the days of Mr.and Mrs.”

 

“In this generation, we have more of Mr.and Mr. stylishly-a kind of gayism that has not being noted by us and defined by us.”

 

Marriage should not be a battle ground for unhealthy rivalry between husband and wife.

 

“Marriage is designed for completion and not competition”.

 

In spite of the authority given by divinity to man, it should not be misconstrued as a tool for oppression and subjudigation by the husband.It is a necessity that must be used to propel meaningful love and care to the wife and the children.

 

No trace of disrespect and maltreatment should be allowed in the idealogy of the husband in discharging the authority granted to him by divinity.

 

In conclusion,marriage gets more interesting and meaningful whenever the basic understanding and knowledge needed to make it work meaningfully are on ground.

 

It should be designed to make the partners involved better in every ramification of human endeavour.

 

It is an addition not a subtraction.

 

Marriage is a treasure and not a burden.

 

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DESIRED SHARED AUTHORITY DESERVES SHARED RESPONSIBILITY.—(4 Minutes Read).

The original version of this article was written and published on Facebook on the 7th of September 2016.

 

I read through it not quite long and I am confident that the quality of the content therein will serve as an eye-opener and a source of inspiration and motivation for many marriages and relationship that are struggling to stand and those that are on the verge of collapsing.

 

I believed that the purpose will be fulfilled expressly.

 

This is how it goes:

 

Without any form of argument or being old schooled, marriage imposed a level of reasonable authority on every man.

 

Authority is imposed by divinity through marital vow on every husband and this must be exhibited and discharged meaningfully not by masculinity and “machoness” only but by simple discharge of timely responsibility without any iota and atom of reluctance,delay and resentment.

 

Responsible married men are known and praised by discharging their responsibilities without any form of coaxing and cuddling.

 

No wife should be bold and confident enough to challenge or raise an eye-brow by being indifferent to the correction and instruction of her husband once it is meant to be progressive and developmental without any readiness to share the responsibility needed in the family.

 

It will tantamount to meaningless insurbodination when you are deaf to your husband’s correction and instruction.This simply signal your desire to share parts of the responsibility needed in the family.

brunch

 

Authority is akin and equals shared responsibility discharged by the parties involved in marriage without any trace of self-centredness.

 

Being indifferent to your husband authority signals your desire and envy to share the autority purposed and bestowed on your husband by divinity.

 

Desired equality between husband and wife is quite good and right but it becomes meaningful when the husband and wife are ready to share the responsibilities required for a balanced marital union equally.

“Desired equality between husband and wife connote desired shared authority and desired shared authority denotes desired shared responsibilities being shared equally in content and context having thesame running cost and thesame accompanied reward”.

 

Once this is in place, the confusion and misunderstanding embedded in marriages in this generation will end up being a thing of the past.

 

“Gone are the days of Mr.and Mrs.”

 

“In this generation, we have more of Mr.and Mr. stylishly-a kind of gayism that has not being noted by us and defined by us.”

 

Marriage should not be a battle ground for unhealthy rivalry between husband and wife.

 

“Marriage is designed for completion and not competition”.

 

In spite of the authority given by divinity to man, it should not be misconstrued as a tool for oppression and subjudigation by the husband.It is a necessity that must be used to propel meaningful love and care to the wife and the children.

 

No trace of disrespect and maltreatment should be allowed in the idealogy of the husband in discharging the authority granted to him by divinity.

 

In conclusion,marriage gets more interesting and meaningful whenever the basic understanding and knowledge needed to make it work meaningfully are on ground.

 

It should be designed to make the partners involved better in every ramification of human endeavour.

 

It is an addition not a subtraction.

 

Marriage is a treasure and not a burden.

 

Tag:#Authority#Marriage#Relationship#Dating#Personalarticlesandwriting#Family#Dating

 

Ref:www.canva.com

http://search.image.yahoo.com

DESIRED SHARED AUTHORITY DESERVES SHARED RESPONSIBILITY.—(4 Minutes Read).

The original version of this article was written and published on Facebook on the 7th of September 2016.

 

I read through it not quite long and I am confident that the quality of the content therein will serve as an eye-opener and a source of inspiration and motivation for many marriages and relationship that are struggling to stand and those that are on the verge of collapsing.

 

I believed that the purpose will be fulfilled expressly.

 

This is how it goes:

 

Without any form of argument or being old schooled, marriage imposed a level of reasonable authority on every man.

 

 

“Authority is imposed by divinity through marital vow on every husband and this must be exhibited and discharged meaningfully not by masculinity and “machoness” only but by simple discharge of timely responsibility without any iota and atom of reluctance,delay and resentment”.

 

 

Responsible married men are known and praised by discharging their responsibilities without any form of coaxing and cuddling.

 

 

No wife should be bold and confident enough to challenge or raise an eye-brow by being indifferent to the correction and instruction of her husband once it is meant to be progressive and developmental without any readiness to share the responsibility needed in the family.

 

 

It will tantamount to meaningless insurbodination when you are deaf to your husband’s correction and instruction.This simply signal your desire to share parts of the responsibility needed in the family.

 

brunch

 

 

Authority is akin and equals shared responsibility discharged by the parties involved in marriage without any trace of self-centredness.

 

 

Being indifferent to your husband authority signals your desire and envy to share the autority purposed and bestowed on your husband by divinity.

 

 

Desired equality between husband and wife is quite good and right but it becomes meaningful when the husband and wife are ready to share the responsibilities required for a balanced marital union equally.

 

 

“Desired equality between husband and wife connote desired shared authority and desired shared authority denotes desired shared responsibilities being shared equally in content and context having thesame running cost and thesame accompanied reward”.

 

 

Once this is in place, the confusion and misunderstanding embedded in marriages in this generation will end up being a thing of the past.

 

 

“Gone are the days of Mr.and Mrs.”

 

 

“In this generation, we have more of Mr.and Mr. stylishly-a kind of gayism that has not being noted by us and defined by us.”

 

 

Marriage should not be a battle ground for unhealthy rivalry between husband and wife.

 

“Marriage is designed for completion and not competition”.

 

 

In spite of the authority given by divinity to man, it should not be misconstrued as a tool for oppression and subjudigation by the husband.It is a necessity that must be used to propel meaningful love and care to the wife and the children.

 

“No trace of disrespect, maltreatmentand abuse should be allowed in the idealogy of the husband in discharging the authority granted to him by divinity”.

 

 

In conclusion,marriage gets more interesting and meaningful whenever the basic understanding and knowledge needed to make it work meaningfully are on ground.

 

 

“It should be designed to make the partners involved better in every ramification of human endeavour”.

 

 

“It is an addition not a subtraction.”

 

 

“Marriage is a treasure and not a burden.”

 

 

Tag:#Authority#Marriage#Relationship#Dating#Personalarticlesandwriting#Family#Dating

 

Ref:www.canva.com

http://search.image.yahoo.com

My Marital Exhortation. (4 min read) — EXPRESS IMPACTS

Written by Faydelmix | @mylittlesimplethought Express Impacts’ Team, Contributor, Media/News Publisher, Religion and Successful Living Writer I wrote the original piece on the 1st of June 2016.It is exactly a year now and it is heavy in my mind that it will end up being a blessing and a source of encouragement to my readers. The conditions […]

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My Marital Exhortation. (4 min read) — EXPRESS IMPACTS

Written by Faydelmix | @mylittlesimplethought Express Impacts’ Team, Contributor, Media/News Publisher, Religion and Successful Living Writer I wrote the original piece on the 1st of June 2016.It is exactly a year now and it is heavy in my mind that it will end up being a blessing and a source of encouragement to my readers. The conditions […]

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