Should Christians Watch Horror Movies? Thoughts On Scary Entertainment — Reflections of the Heart

I begged, literally begged to be allowed to watch a scary movie. I can’t even remember why I wanted to so badly. The excitement? The gore? The thrill of being terrified? Sounded like a good time to me! Seriously, though, I was persistent. My 11 year-old self wanted to watch a scary movie. End of story. I begged and […]

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Read This If You’re Having Unprotected Sex — MAKUPSY

Amazing how some couples choose not to talk about birth control methods. I get that it can be a very uncomfortable topic but you two already talk about everything else except this not-so-sexy subject. A subject that might make or break you if you don’t take any action after reading this post… If you haven’t […]

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Why You Should Make Him Wait For Sex — SOULWRITE EMPIRE’S BLOG

You’re a grown woman and you can do what you want. I know. I get it! You will never hear me telling you there’s anything wrong with being sexual, and having sex when you want and who you want. These are absolutely personal decisions that you have every right to make on your own and […]

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Sex robots will only further degrade our society — Mustard Seed Budget

If you worry about the broad esplanade of pornography on the Internet, you’d better don your battle gear for the next chapter of the sexual revolution about to hit America. Sex robots — which are becoming surprisingly more realistic than the inflatable dolls of yesteryear — will unravel the fabric of society more than ever […]

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Sex Hormones vs Stress Hormones — raynotbradbury

Sex hormones are Yin (if you don’t understand what I’m talking about, check the post #1 later: Duality ). There’re hell a lot of sex hormones, but we’ll talk about 2 of them: Estrogen = Ginger Rogers Progesterone = Fred Astaire Some sex hormones are more yin than others. Well, estrogen (Ginger) is more yin than […]

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Sex Hormones vs Stress Hormones — raynotbradbury

Sex hormones are Yin (if you don’t understand what I’m talking about, check the post #1 later: Duality ). There’re hell a lot of sex hormones, but we’ll talk about 2 of them: Estrogen = Ginger Rogers Progesterone = Fred Astaire Some sex hormones are more yin than others. Well, estrogen (Ginger) is more yin than […]

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appreciating and respecting your husband’s sexuality — larrysmusings

Sadly, this post is necessary in the year 2018. Gatekeeping and refusing of sexual intimacy within marriage are real, sorry to say. Even if only present in a relatively small percentage of marriages, lack of frequent, mutually fulfilling sexual intimacy affects millions of marriages in the Western world. As to the literature on sex […]

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What’s up, bro! Titus greeted Tony in a casual manner.

I am cool and good bro. Tony replied Titus.

I have been expecting to see your face since morning. Why do you have to wait till break time before you show face in my office?

You just kept me in the dark since morning because my ears have been itching to listen to the continuation of our gist that has been on for past week and I believe that by now, my ears will be filled up with more gist from my friend. Titus kept talking to Tony while Tony just kept looking at Tony with his face with smiles and a kind of satisfaction.


I am deeply sorry bro! My boss welcomed me with arrears of reports this morning and in an unusual way and manner, he gave me a deadline to complete the whole job before break time. He really tried to spoil my day, but I struggled very hard to maintain my calm and candor since I don’t want to start a new working week on a wrong note. I have just been busy, if not, I would have been with you since morning to give you more gist about my weekend bro. Tony replied Titus.


It is already lunch time, lets proceed to our meeting place where I will be entertaining you with my gist and I promised to foot your bill today because I was able to fulfilled the desire of my heart in the course of the weekend.

Tony kept talking to Titus.


Really!!!Titus was exclaimed and other staff that were with him in the office turn their faces to Titus wondering what could have been so interesting to Titus that he raised his voice in deep exclamation as if he just won a jackpot.

OH! I am sorry for my uncontrolled outburst and while Titus was apologizing, Tony tapped him and informed him that he should stand up on his feet. Then, Tony and Titus moved from their position in the past 30 minutes and walked towards the exit from Titus office.


While they were about exiting the company’s premises, Titus drew the attention of Tony to a particular lady that was busy walking a few distances from where they were.

Is that not the NYSC lady you housed? Titus asked Tony.

Where is she? Tony asked.

Over there. Titus replied.

She is the one. Tony replied.

Oh! Sorry!!I forgot to tell you that Tricia resumed for her primary assignment this morning.

Both of us came to work together this morning. I have been busy and I have not been able to check on her and since she is working at the Human Resource Manager Office, I don’t want to have any issue with the Human Resource Manager because I suspected the Human Resource Manager that he is trying to extract information from me the other time she came to collect her appointment letter whereby the Human Resource Manager was pointing it to me that Tricia is a beautiful lady.

I was suspicious and kept thinking about his motive probably he might be interested in her and he was just busy trying to check if there is anything between the two of us.

And from what I have heard about the Human Resource Manager, he is ruthless and wicked when it comes to issue of him going out with anything in skirt.

So, that’s why I have not been able to come around to check on her since morning and I don’t want us to be familiar while we are at work.

Tony submitted.

Ok! That’s very thoughtful of you.

You really made a good point, but I doubt if such could be possible at all because both of you can not be acting like stranger while both of you are at work since both of you always come to work together and as a lady, she will want to go home with you at the end of the day. She might also have been busy, if not, she would have come around to check on you in the office.

If she comes around and ask of you in your department, are you going to deny her access to you? Titus asked Tony.


At this point, Tony was mute, and he could not alter a single word to respond to the question Titus asked him but after a few minutes,

Tony responded and made it clear to Titus that it seems to be impossible, but he was just scared about what could come out as an issue from most of the randy men in his place of work.


Anyway, can I beckoned on her so that she can join us for lunch? Titus asked.


Don’t do that.

If she is around with us, I will be unable to render my gist to you since it concerned her, and she rendered a kind of drama in the course of the weekend.

In short, she is somehow behaving funny and assuming that she is the right one

Though I appreciated her because she thinks she is fighting for what should have been hers and she didn’t hide her feelings that she is jealous.

Tony concluded.


Are you serious?

Oh! My God!!My friend is in trouble.

How manage?

How can she be jealous?

What is she jealous of?

Titus kept asking questions and kept wondering what could have happened that a lady that was barely known to Tony in the space of few weeks became jealous.


Don’t blame her at all.

Women are known to be emotional and they are known to be weak in bottling their emotion.

So, don’t let us paint her black and bad.

She is a good lady.

She just had an emotional trip off, but she was matured to understand later that the best that can happen between both of us is to maintain a kind of platonic friendship and relationship.

Even though, I am still watching her clandestinely so that she will be able to maintain the terms and condition we discussed in the course of the weekend since she is  still living with me.

Tony answered Titus.


OH! I have heard you.

Just be careful.

Titus submitted.


Tony and Titus kept discussing while they kept walking briskly to the canteen outside the company’s premises to observe their lunch break.





Good afternoon Madam. Tricia greeted.

You are welcome Madam. A lady who is a colleague to Tony answered Tricia.

What can I do for you because it seems you are looking for someone.

Yea.I would like to see Tony? Tricia responded.

Sorry, Tony has gone for break with a friend called Titus.

OH! It is true. He would have gone to observe his break time. I will give him a call so that I will be able to locate where he is.

Ok! MA. Thank you, Ma.

Pretty Miss, you didn’t tell me your name so that when Tony comes back I will be able to deliver your message.

OH! Pardon my overlook. I am Tricia by name.

Ok! I will deliver your message.

Thanks. Tricia turned back swiftly while holding her phone in her hand and she was trying to push a call through to Tony. As she was busy with her phone, she exited Tony’s office and few minutes later she called Tony.


You didn’t even bother to invite me or called me while you are going for break. I was amazed getting to your office and one of your colleagues told me that you are off to break with your friend called Titus. Tricia kept challenging Tony while making call.

I am sorry, Tricia. It was not intentional at all.

It was just an overlook. I have been busy since morning and even famished. So I bolted out of the office immediately it was break time to put something in my stomach and to be able to relax a little bit. I am very sorry.


Ok! Can I come around to meet you where you are now? Tricia asked Tony on the phone.

While Tony was trying to mutter some words in response to Tricia demand, Tricia cut him short asking him to give him the direction of the location of the canteen.


While the conversation on the phone was ongoing, Titus was just kept awashed looking at Tony and the kind of conversation going on between Tony and Tricia.

Immediately, Tricia and Tony finished conversing on phone, Titus started talking to Tony.


My guy, I have just confirmed what you were telling me about Tricia few minutes ago.

She is emotional, and she is really wants to be in control of you which is just her method of telling you how mad she wants you as a suitor or a life partner.

You better make up your mind and make the right decision on time.

Meanwhile, nothing is wrong with her. She is beautiful, sexy, charming, attractive and alluring.

It is yours to decide whether you will give her what she is asking you for gradually.

Don’t be sluggish my friend.

You are a man, be snappy with your decision. Titus submitted.


While Titus was talking, Tony kept thinking about what he needs to do about the thought of Tricia that is gradually consuming him.

Meanwhile, he is not yet sure whether Tiffany will be interested in having him as a life-partner.

Eventhough, he tried getting across to Tiffany in the morning, but she didn’t pick her call and she didn’t try calling back till now.

Tony kept talking to himself while he was having his lunch.


As this was going on, Tricia showed up, but it was Titus that saw her from afar while she was trying to figure out the actual seat Tony and his friend occupied. Titus waved to her and signaled to her to come over and it was at this point that Tony discovered that Tricia is around walking towards him from the rear.


You guys are really enjoying and having a nice time here this afternoon.

No wonder I was not invited. May God forgive both of you.

Tricia challenged both Tony and Titus.

How many times do you want us to beg you?

We are sorry for leaving you behind and we promised that we would always bring you along with us whenever we are going on break.Titus responded.

Are you satisfied now? Even though, you are finding it hard to believe me, I believe you will be able to believe what Titus just told you now. Tony started talking with Tricia.


What do you want to eat now or maybe you are still crossed with us?

On a serious note, what do you want to take for lunch? Tony asked.

As Tricia was struggling to decide what she will take for lunch, Titus called on one of the employees of the canteen owner and asked her to bring a plate of fired rice and chicken for Tricia.

Do you prefer soft drink or ordinary water? Titus asked.


What a coincidence! How do you know what is on my mind?

How do you know that I prefer fried rice? Tricia asked Titus.


Do you want to know? Titus asked.

Anyway, I am somehow good at reading people’s mind.


Oh! That’s great. Tricia responded.

While Titus and Tricia were getting along well, Tony was just deep in thought.

Though, he was enjoying the company of Titus and Tricia.

He was happy that Titus has been able to help him to keep Tricia busy by engaging her in a chit-chat before the arrival of the meal Titus ordered for her and as they were busy talking, a plate of fried rice and chicken with a chilled able water was placed in front of Tricia.


Oh! My food is here, Tricia exclaimed but before she started eating, she appreciated Titus for the order and Titus asked her to start eating because they are running out of time.

At that point, breaktime will be over in few minutes time.


Can we start going back to Office? Tony asked Titus and Tricia.


We are waiting for Tricia to round up. Titus answered.


Tricia!!!Can you be snappy? Tony engaged Tricia.


Please, kindly allow the sleeping dog to lie.

Since, you have been cold and decided to avoid talking with me since when I came around.


If not for Titus that have been keeping my company, this lunch break would have been boring.


Now, you are asking me to be fast when you have been doing as if I am a stranger to you.

Meanwhile, we stay under the same roof.

Don’t worry, I know what I will do for you when we get back home.


When it remains you and I, I will show you pepper.


Anyway, if not for Titus that has been friendly I would not stand up now but let’s be on our way.


I am done.

Shall we? Tricia concluded.


Meanwhile, when Tricia was complaining about Tony’s cold attitude towards her, Tony was just busy staring at her and looking at how funny she is while she was busy performing drama in the presence of Titus and Tony with her drama attracting other people’s attention in the canteen.


You are just funny. Tony replied.


It is alright please. Titus cut in.


As it got to 2:00PM on the dot, the trio stood up and started walking down to the company’s premises but they kept mum until they entered the company’s premises and everybody walked down in different direction to attend to the last phase of their official duty for the day.


See you at the close of the day. Tricia bid Titus and Tony farewell.


Mr. Tony, have you been able to see the lady that asked of you during break because she promised to call you and meet you at the canteen where you are having your lunch.


Yea. Thanks. I saw her and we were together till when break was over.


Thanks a lot.







Can We Talk About Dating? And Not Sex …. — How I Killed Betty!

Before I start my usual rantings, ramblings and general witterings on, I’d like to put out the disclaimer before I even begin this post …. when I talk about dating, this does not mean that I’m talking about sex. I am absolutely not condoning any bed-hopping, floosie-like behaviours or even giving a minor thumbs […]

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Akwa Ibom Deputy Governor debunks resignation reports — Nigerian Pilot News

Deputy Governor of Akwa Ibom Mr Moses Ekpo has debunked reports from a section of the media that he has resigned from his position. He has also described as false reports saying he has defected from the PDP to the All Progressive Congress, APC. A statement endorsed by his Chief Press Secretary, Ekikere Umoh Monday…

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Finland Ready to Host Meeting Between Russian, US Lawmakers – Finnish Official — Sputnik International – Breaking News & Analysis – Radio, Photos, Videos, Infographics

HELSINKI (Sputnik) – Finland is ready to host a meeting between Russian and US lawmakers if needed, head of the Finnish parliamentary Defense Committee Ilkka Kanerva told Sputnik on Monday.

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Laura Harrier Instagram: Best Photos & Must-See Pictures — Breaking News, Entertainment, Sports & College Life | COED

Shutterstock Laura Harrier, born March 28, 1990, is an American actress and model best known for her portraying of Liz Toomes — the daughter of the villainous Adrian Toomes (aka Vulture, portrayed by Michael Keaton) in the Marvel Cinematic Universe film Spider-Man: Homecoming. The following year, Harrier starred in the Spike Lee biographical crime film…

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Pursuit of Pleasure. an essay — Bennythomas’s Weblog

“Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness” is a well-known phrase in the United States Declaration of Independence. The vision of the Founding Fathers must have come like a fresh breath of fresh air on a nascent nation. It has stirred all those who read in their flush of youth. Youth is unbaked dough and […]

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