It is quite appalling and disheartning that the age-long institution of marriage convennated by God have been suffering series of attacks and utmost abberration of the purpose of what it entails have been the order of the day.
One should be bothered and greatly concerned about the waves of divorce and domestic violence being experienced recently in the annals of human history most especially domestic violence and abuse that has its origin within the conffines and space of marital relationship.
Every married couple desire, demand and expect a kind of beauty,bliss and satisfaction that is heavenly and wonderful in the course of their conjugal coexistence but it is a pity that it is only few of the married couples that are able to meet up and achieve the manisfestation of their heart desire about their marital union.
With this,it is pertinent and reasonable for some salient questions to be asked in order to get the real picture about the reasons and rationale that is making vows made by husband and wife to fizzle out and disappear into thin air without its fulfilment in the course of their marital coexistence.
Definitely,there must be a missing link, a misconception, a delta,a gap and a lacuna.Whatever it might be,there is always more than one million reasons why marriage fails.
One of the major reasons that accounts visible and significantly for marital failures and crackdown in recent time especially in this generation is the dearth or absolute absence of effective communication between couples in the course of their marital union.
According to wikipedia.org:
“Communication is the act of conveying intended meanings from one entity or group to another through the use of mutually understood signs and semotic rules.Communication can be verbal or non-verbal and written or non-written”.
No matter what the type of communication is involved,what really matters is that any form of communication between husband and wife must be total,efficient and effective with it ending in understanding that will make their relationship all-encompassing and meaningful.
IMPORTANCE OF EFFECTIVE COMMUNICTION.
1.It enhances trustworthiness and smooth relationship.
2.It promotes honesty.
3.It makes conjugal relationship interesting.
4.It enhances deeper understanding between couples.
5.It offers efficient solutions to dispute and conflicts resolution between husband and wife.
6.It ensures stronger affinity and closeness between husband and wife.
7.It propel and project unity between husband and wife.
8.It enhances cooperation.
9.It ensures friendliness and ignites unending flames of love.
10.It creates avenues and channels for heart to heart relationship between husband and wife.
Without any iota of doubt, the aforementionaed importance of effective communication are powerful and potent enough to enhance the entrenchment of the purpose of marriage if couples involved are willing to maximized and optimized the benefits inherents in effective communiocation to fan the flame of deeper understanding that will end up making their conjugal coexistence an evergreen story and a message to posterity.
“Personal understanding garnished with willingness makes every iota of dreams become a reality within a space of time”.